Family - November 2006

2006-11-21 23:07:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey guys



I need a little help with college work about being listened to and listening to others.



A) Do you feel like when your talk (especially about important things to you) that you are being heard?



B) Who would you turn to for advice, friends, family or partner?



C) Do you listen to others when they talk? ( I need complete honesty on that one)



Thanks

2006-11-21 22:50:18 · 5 answers · asked by tinkerbell 4

My dad is great and he has helped me so much this year I really want him to know how much I appreciate him. I am looking for a more sentimental gift. My finances are pretty tight so I need something creative. I am already going to blow up a picture that he loves and put it in a frame but I need something else. I have had a tough couple of months and without him I would not have made it. He has lent me $ bought me a cheap car for my b-day cause mine broke down and paid the application fee for the plates, he has also helped my fiance to find work. He really likes creative sentimental gifts, I have made collages and things like that but I really want to do something big. Any suggetions would be great.

2006-11-21 22:12:29 · 4 answers · asked by Dawnie 3

2006-11-21 21:00:37 · 8 answers · asked by Crystal 4

I am 13 years old.My parents always fight in front me. when I was in the mall with my mom, we had finished shopping, when we where out side the mall & we saw my dad with 2 Pilipino women holding hands. so me & my mom got back to our house waiting for my dad.When he got back we told him what we saw, but guess what? He denied it! so then one day my mom wanted to read her emails in yahoo! When she connected to the internet she saw that my dad forgot to 'sign out' so then she read his emails she called me I went in side the room my mom was she told me look at this! I looked & I saw my father's emails, I started to read them so we found out that my dad is cheating on my mom! but she can't divorce him because you see , my dad is from Kuwait, my mom is from Mexico & I born in California so I am living in Kuwait, the thing is my mom doesn't have enough money for: 2 tickets to use, California, a car, an a partment,food, ect.& my mom doesn't have Kuwaiti passport,he can get rid of her so easly

2006-11-21 20:31:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have a tranferable job all things that came in dowry my father in law doesn't interested to gave us anything ,right now we are in Hyderabad,every month my husband send 7000Rs. still he expect more he is working right now .If i want to discuss in this matter my husband doesnot want to talk. all i earn always give my husband .
sometime in some month we face some finanical crisis but still he is not stop giving money,if i discuss to my father in law that we face finanical problem your is given he must be earn wellthat why he given us .This thing i told my husband he told this is my responsibilty.even i not discuss my financial problem to my in law . evev he gave car to them we donot have car.
how i make my husband understand
he has a joint family take money from us spent on his brother family
i have a son also

2006-11-21 20:24:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I find it hard to take balloons when I am with my Parents. They always give me the cold shoulder when I take a balloon. 2 days ago, I went to a carnival and a woman there gave me a pretty big balloon spider. I was rather happy to hold the balloon.

When I saw my mum and she saw me, she stared at me and for that whole day she did not talk to me. This is not the first time it happened. Quite some time ago(about a year), I went to a party and brought some balloons home. I thought of giving it to my sister but then my mum saw the balloons and forced me to burst them. I dun know whats wrong with holding balloons.

Is it the balloons or is it my mum. I am really sad about this Pls advice.

2006-11-21 20:11:36 · 9 answers · asked by Balloon Guy 1

i have 2. older and younger

2006-11-21 19:51:37 · 32 answers · asked by vrules 2

2006-11-21 19:49:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

tell me what u hate:

i hate it when they try to control your life ect:

2006-11-21 19:26:28 · 26 answers · asked by NAUGHTY GURL 1

I lost my father 2 months ago. He was 48 yrs old. He raised me and my 2 brothers while my mom worked. He was my everything. I miss him sooo much. How long will the hurt go on?

2006-11-21 18:43:09 · 6 answers · asked by Hello!!! 2

My fiance's mother passed away in his arms, she had aheart attack he was calling 911 and holding her at the same time, but it was too late. It's been three days now, poor baby is still crying. What can i do what can i say to make him feel better???

2006-11-21 18:10:58 · 26 answers · asked by kitty 3

im 13
and theres this girl i like
but someone asked her out before me
if they break up when do i ask her out?
and how
its hard

2006-11-21 17:52:23 · 13 answers · asked by ryanfreak98 1

Whenever my sister in law (my husband's brother's wife) gets angry or offended about something someone else in the family says or does, she refuses to let them see her daughter until they apologise to her. It's not usually over a big issue, just over a minor disagreement or something stupid like that. I feel that this is just punishing my 4 year old niece. I think it's wrong to use your child as a bargaining chip or a trump card to win an argument, and frankly I'm shocked that my brother in law allows this behavior. What do you think?

2006-11-21 17:41:01 · 2 answers · asked by Chellebelle78 4

cps asked me to take pee test to prove i'm not on drugs i did that i took a phyc test i did couseling it seems like the list gets longer and longer all i know i need my girls back home did i mention their father placed them volenteerly now they won't give them back they were suppose to respond in 72 hours when we ask for them to be returned it's been almost one year and it's pure hell on me i can imagine how hard it is on them before he got out of jail i ask my mother to bring them home so he could't get them and she turned around and gave them to him (the father) he tried to place them with his family but one of them are molseting his sister and he knew that and wanted them there any way after calling chid services for one month they finally moved them and whats so odd about it child services had this information because they accindently sent it to us

2006-11-21 17:27:14 · 5 answers · asked by francelina w 1

her dad is no good for her and she knows she has to leave his house and live with her mom, however she loves her dad, no matter how much he hurts her(emotionally), and her dad has told her that she would be betraying him if she left. and she says she would feel very guilty if she left him. she doesn't want to hurt him, or feel that guilt. what can i tell her, are what can she do to reassure herself that she should move out of her dad's house, or what could she tell her VERY stubborn dad that will make him see that she needs to leave?

2006-11-21 16:57:50 · 4 answers · asked by Striker MG 2

my oldest sister is into witchcraft and her witchcraft stuff keeps being put in my room (by her and i my freinds are making fun of me because of it ) how do i tell her not to put her witchcraft stuff in my room (because shes 8 years older than me)

2006-11-21 16:47:50 · 3 answers · asked by torra emico 1

My husband's ex will be moving down from New York to be near us in Texas. She has four kids (three from my husband) and is on Medicaid. She will be finding a job but as a skilled worker (read waitress/gas station attendant) she doesn't make enough for all those kids. How long will she have to live in Texas before she becomes eligible for TX medicaid? Do we need to wait til she is down here to enroll the kids in school? What all do I need to enroll them? I just got married and magically found myself to be a parent... got a lot more to worry about now. Any advice and pointers would be appreciated.

2006-11-21 16:28:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mom is a complainer with a capital C. i clean up as best i can still i hear "Why didn't you clean up over here better than this?" I tell her i dont see every "dust bunny" she does. With the laundry, if i bring 3 loads down to wash, which in our family the rule is to wash only super loads so we can get more done at a time, she complains saying, "Bring your laundry down more often." I am so trying to get a place of my own, but can't afford it unless this full-time job comes through i am hoping for. She also complains that I eat too much and is surprised I am not fat because of how much i eat. So i offered to start paying for $50 of the grocery bill. I mean, I weigh 128 pounds and am 5'5", so I know I'm not fat. Please give me some advice on how to deal with my mom's complaining until I move out.

2006-11-21 16:22:44 · 21 answers · asked by Renee W 2

my family are far too much manz.. i am not allow to stay over night at anywhere. Not even my fren place or my bf house. I am not allow to go out late.. therefore they restricted me to be back home before 12mid nite!! I feel so controlled.. and the worst and laughter part.. i am 20 years old this year!! and i am being controlled in this extent.. godness holly... help me!!

2006-11-21 16:13:22 · 29 answers · asked by Its me! 3

Funeral parlour forgot to order grave for deceased (Nephew my sister son, she is also deceased) not only did they forget to order the grave the cemeterie has no acknowledgements of service to burial my nephew on that day or no other day. Call funeral parlour ask director what happen the only thing they could tell us is that they forgot to order the grave But we had already Paid for the grave and funeral services. now the decesed brother wants to take a claim out against the funeral parlour for interfereing with the family right to hold a proper religious ceremony and proper burial for his brother and intensified, aggravated and prolonged our mental shock and grief( how much do you think he should ask for beside reimbursement for payment of funeral and burial.

2006-11-21 16:09:26 · 5 answers · asked by I am women 6

my parents are having problems but this is not new in fact it's very annoying now. my mom wants to go ride her harley on thanksgiving and do her own thing and my dad doesn't even care anymore. my boyfriend has work and told me it isn't a big deal either and that it was stupid of me to act like that. but i honestly think that thanksgiving is a time for family and food and without those 2 what is it? am i worng to be mad? isn't it a little wrong? also i don't have money to buy anything to make it which my dad told me i could have thanksgiving if i bought the food an everything. well thats all i had to say but i still think that it's worng. what do you think?

2006-11-21 16:04:39 · 6 answers · asked by spicysaucylatina 4

my nephew is 7, and im 21. he was told a long time ago by his mom (my sister), that he didnt have to listen to me, even if i was telling him something for his own good. Like not running in the family room because he could fall into our brick fireplace and crack his head open. i try so hard to tell him to be careful, but he never listens. My sister finally told him he has to listen to me. Even after my sister told him he has to listen to me he still wont. i have my parents tell me a lot to "grow up and deal with it, you're 21, he's 7." any advice on how to make my nephew listen to me?

2006-11-21 15:56:53 · 17 answers · asked by Renee W 2

My boyfriend is a bingeing alcoholic, When he drinks I do not want to be with him so I kick him out, What or were do I do with him when his own family does not want to take him in.

2006-11-21 15:40:24 · 14 answers · asked by dolptat 2

this kid id telling every1 my dad is dead and making jokes of it should i beat his A S S or not

2006-11-21 15:18:50 · 10 answers · asked by cody b 2

My parents and I don't get along so I want to know the legal age you have to be to move out without their consent.

2006-11-21 15:08:06 · 4 answers · asked by manda07 1

How do you deal with a daughter that is on the run from the law, and lying to you about where she is? She is being real mean when I try to find out from her friends where she is. How do you deal with this?

2006-11-21 15:06:56 · 8 answers · asked by mysterious_me 2

My mom is single and works a lot but she is driving me insane!!!! She is always mad about something everyday! She is always yelling or giving orders. She's not abusive or anything, just really really cranky.
P.S. I'm not one of those girls who party all night and cuss out thier moms i actually make all A's and B's but I am clueless in this department. Please help me!!!

2006-11-21 15:04:50 · 12 answers · asked by Via 3

Received sms from some strangers that they're having an affair.Both of them denied.I only come back during the weekends as my job requires me to travel during weekdays.My kids are with me all the time.The stranger seemed to know a lot about my husband n my sister and their night activities,n God knows how this person got my cellphone number.Me and my sister used to be very close, hangout together and all.Now we don't talk anymore n she mentioned that she will never forgive me for accusing her.Could it be that some people are jealous of us n wanted us to be enemies?

2006-11-21 14:56:28 · 23 answers · asked by CinnamonCity 2

Sorry 2 keep reposting but i need a lot of ideas. I need some ideas for things to do with my little cousin. im 14 and shes 7. I am trying to find things that me and her would enjoy. It will be after thanksgiving if that helps with anything
I will also buy her a little something if it is cheap becuase I only have like 5 bucks but if its something she will like. I was thinking of a laser pointer.

2006-11-21 14:55:52 · 12 answers · asked by THE GRIM REAPER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 1