I am 13 years old.My parents always fight in front me. when I was in the mall with my mom, we had finished shopping, when we where out side the mall & we saw my dad with 2 Pilipino women holding hands. so me & my mom got back to our house waiting for my dad.When he got back we told him what we saw, but guess what? He denied it! so then one day my mom wanted to read her emails in yahoo! When she connected to the internet she saw that my dad forgot to 'sign out' so then she read his emails she called me I went in side the room my mom was she told me look at this! I looked & I saw my father's emails, I started to read them so we found out that my dad is cheating on my mom! but she can't divorce him because you see , my dad is from Kuwait, my mom is from Mexico & I born in California so I am living in Kuwait, the thing is my mom doesn't have enough money for: 2 tickets to use, California, a car, an a partment,food, ect.& my mom doesn't have Kuwaiti passport,he can get rid of her so easly
2006-11-21 20:31:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
that sounds like a messed up situation. first of all your mother shouldn't be letting you in on your dad's emails. you're only thirteen years old and it sounds like they have a problem that they should be working out and not involving you in it. But your mother shouldn't have to put up with a cheating husband if she doesn't want to. i'm not quite sure how the law works when your overseas but what about child support. father would have to pay most likely. hope everything works out.
2006-11-21 20:38:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 13 going on 40. You should talk with your Mom, explain to her that you know what is going on and that whatever happens that you will be there for her. My dad also was a womanizer and whenever his other women made him made he took it out on my Mom. I was 13 when my sister and I beat the holy **** out of him after seeing what he did to my Mom for so long. I am not saying you should kick you father's (you know what), he will need you later in life. Just be there for your Mom, I am sure she would appreciate it and she will tell you not to worry, but you will continue to do so, that is what a child does, that is aware of wrong doings to a parent. Again be there for your Mom and believe me, this too shall pass. God Bless.
2006-11-22 04:44:00 · answer #2 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor thing I know that your mum loves you but she shouldn't be involving you in the problems that she and your dad are having. However does your mum have family in mexico or California that she could contact and the two of you could go and stay with for a while?
Its wrong that your dad is chaeting on your mum and then lying about things, but the only way for the arguments to stop and for you to be a little happier would be for you and your mum to get away from him. Its not right for your dad to do this to the both of you.
Talk to your mum and tell her that you are not happy and that you would rather they sort it out and not involve you as you don't like it
2006-11-22 04:48:40 · answer #3 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With No disrespect to you or the rest of your family, Your dad is being a looser!!! Maybe Your mom and dad should try some counseling, It might straighten him up. If that fails try talking to him yourself, maybe if your mom alone is not enough to set him straight, you might be the breaking point to get him to set his life straight. By all means, you should stick together, combined strength will get him thorough this...
-Josh
2006-11-22 04:43:36 · answer #4 · answered by Joshua K. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really feel for you, it must be tough for your mom&you. I had a similar childhood like you..
Does ur mom has any gd friends or relatives? Ask ur mom to contact them and maybe they can help your mom financially or at least giving some way/advice. Contact any woman organisation might help too..
Stay strong, you are a brave litlle girl
2006-11-22 04:37:47 · answer #5 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mom and dad need a lot of talking to do... in the first place, they should not fight in front of you. parenting advice, that's what they need.if after a heart to heart talk,they could not settlle that problem love has died down probably,find out how she could be helped legally by asking for support and all that stuff... .but what about standing in their midst,tell them how their situation affects you... hope they reconcile , if that's what you want. .but when all these fails, accept it and move on!
2006-11-22 07:08:56 · answer #6 · answered by nova 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering you are an American by birthright, you might want to go the the American embassy. They might be able to help you.
Here is the website for the embassy.
http://kuwait.usembassy.gov/
This is the contact page from the embassy.
http://kuwait.usembassy.gov/contact.html
2006-11-22 10:40:02 · answer #7 · answered by wedding5_26_07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is not your problem let your parents figure it out . they shouldnt be putting you in the middle that is not very grown up of them. well anyways if it is meant to work it out it will your dad just proved he doesnt deserve you and your mom and he wants to get caught b/c he knows she want leave him he thinks he has the life. .and i hope everything works out the best of wishes
2006-11-22 07:59:27 · answer #8 · answered by yours truly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. I'm so sorry.
2. You should go a family councilor
This is too serious for just internet asking.
2006-11-22 05:58:58 · answer #9 · answered by isma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mom is good and sneaky my parents always have a arguement everyday.
2006-11-22 08:54:21 · answer #10 · answered by balla_boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋