what do u hate about your parents?

Question

tell me what u hate:

i hate it when they try to control your life ect:

yeah i love them so much but some times they just get on mu nervs i only have my step perants as mine are gone

Answer 1

ummm i guess that i hate they died ... but then again you wouldnt understand what its like not to have parents around to tell you what to do would you?

Answer 2

Me too, I hated the way they controlled my life. I say hated, because I dont hate them anymore. I havent seen or heard from them for 14 years. The only way I could break free from their control was too leave them physically. Not that I would suggest that anyone do this, but in my case their control was very strong. I view them as neutral now, no hate, no love, just like old friends from childhood, that I probably wont see again. When they die I would'nt care and I would'nt go to their funeral and it would have no effect on my life what so ever. Real love and support in my life comes from my spirituallity and my friends. Iam free, and I only answer to myself.

Answer 3

I hate it too when they try and control your life. I am 40 and they still treat me like a child and try to control me.I am not their little girl anymore, haven't been for 25 years! They are so demanding of me and my family. I love them to pieces but with this I learn how to NOT treat my child when she is older. I have learned to accept her no matter what she does and never ask things of her other then love and an occasional phone call. I will never be my parents, that would be pure torture.

Answer 4

My guess is that you are a teenager. I used to feel this way too when I was a teen but now that I have grew up and have kids of my own I now know why my parents did what they did. It's only because they love and care about you sweetie. Your parents are not trying to make your life hard for you. Think about it. Who's the one making it hard on everyone? I'm going to give you a poem called "Mean Moms". I want you to Read it carefully word by word and let it sink in. I'm sure it will get you thinking. I made my 11 year old read it and asked him what he thought about it. I was surprised that I recieved the answers from him that I was looking for. One day you will learn to appreciate your parents.

Take care,

mother of a 9 and 11 year old.

Mean Moms

Someday when my children are old enough to
understand the logic that motivates a parent, I
will tell them, as my Mean Mom told me:

I loved you enough to ask where you were
going, with whom, and what time you would be home.

I loved you enough to be silent and let you
discover that your new best friend was a creep.

I loved you enough to make you go pay for the
bubble gum you had taken and tell the clerk, "I
stole this yesterday and want to pay for it."

I loved you enough to stand over you for two
hours while you cleaned your room, a job that
should have taken 15 minutes.

I loved you enough to let you see anger,
disappointment, and tears in my eyes. Children
must learn that their parents aren't perfect.

I loved you enough to let you assume the
responsibility for your actions even when the
penalties were so harsh they almost broke my heart.

But most of all, I loved you enough . . to say
NO when I knew you would hate me for it.

Those were the most difficult battles of all. I'm
glad I won them, because in the end you won, too.

And someday when your children are old enough to
understand the logic that motivates parents, you will tell them.

Was your Mom mean? I know mine was. We had the
meanest mother in the whole world! While other
kids ate candy for breakfast, we had to have
cereal, eggs, and toast. When others had a Pepsi
and a Twinkie for lunch, we had to eat
sandwiches. And you can guess our mother fixed us
a dinner that was different from what other kids had, too.

Mother insisted on knowing where we were at all
times. You'd think we were convicts in a prison.

She had to know who our friends were, and what we
were doing with them. She insisted that if we
said we would be gone for an hour, we would be
gone for an hour or less.

We were ashamed to admit it, but she had the
nerve to break the Child Labor Laws by making us
work. We had to wash the dishes, make the beds,
learn to cook, vacuum the floor, do laundry,
empty the trash and all sorts of cruel jobs. I think she would
lie awake at night thinking of more things for us to do.

She always insisted on us telling the truth, the
whole truth, and nothing but the truth.

By the time we were teenagers, she could read our minds
and had eyes in the back of her head. Then, life was really tough!

Mother wouldn't let our friends just honk the
horn when they drove up. They had to come up to
the door so she could meet them. While everyone
else could date when they were 12 or 13, we had
to wait until we were 16.

Because of our mother we missed out on lots of
things other kids experienced. None of us have
ever been caught shoplifting, vandalizing
other's property or ever arrested for any crime.

It was all her fault.

Now that we have left home, we are all educated,
honest adults. We are doing our best to be mean
parents just like Mom was.

I think that is what's wrong with the world today.
It just doesn't have enough mean moms!

Answer 5

I love my mom cuz she is all I really got, but I hate the fact that she doesn't stand up for things, she usually lay low and let bad things stay

Answer 6

There is nothing I hate about my parents. I've got the best mum in the world. I'm not just saying that, I truely think she is.

Answer 7

Judging by your spelling, it sounds like you need someone to control your life anyway.

As for me, I've never disliked my parents, much less hated anything about them.

Answer 8

I don't like it year after year in their senior golden age. It isn't golden at all, it is bleak. They are in a lot of discomfort and pain, I don't like the way the body wilts up and dies and dries up like a shrivelled prune.

Answer 9

When they tell you they're gonna do somethin for you and whenever the time comes they always say "Well I don't remember saying that." "Well we just don't have the money right now." or the one my mom says the most "You must've been dreaming cause I never said that."

Answer 10

i hate my parents because they also control my life ect: but they do that for our own profit. they want that they stand on there own feet and make our name famous and so i like my parents