we have a tranferable job all things that came in dowry my father in law doesn't interested to gave us anything ,right now we are in Hyderabad,every month my husband send 7000Rs. still he expect more he is working right now .If i want to discuss in this matter my husband doesnot want to talk. all i earn always give my husband .
sometime in some month we face some finanical crisis but still he is not stop giving money,if i discuss to my father in law that we face finanical problem your is given he must be earn wellthat why he given us .This thing i told my husband he told this is my responsibilty.even i not discuss my financial problem to my in law . evev he gave car to them we donot have car.
how i make my husband understand
he has a joint family take money from us spent on his brother family
i have a son also
2006-11-21 20:24:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Get yourself into a good Christian church, get saved, start reading the Bible, and ask for guidance from its elders. The best thing you can do for your husband is pray for him.
The book "The Power of the Praying Wife" would help you a great deal.
2006-11-21 20:56:03 · answer #1 · answered by Last Ent Wife (RCIA) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in a dilemna with the cultural background that you are from. I have seen reports on the T.V. that highlighted this situation and it gets worse unless you put a stop to it. This is hardship for you and your son. I see it as selfishness on your in-law's part and extortion. It is difficult to advise you on this because if you have no resources or place to go without fearing for you life i will feel guilty for giving information. The other thing is that if you have it in your heart to survive outside of this situation then you must put your all into making it work and be better for you.
You can also find an association that will help you and your child and if you desire your family to talk to your father in law and have him stop doing what he is to you . The world have changed..
2006-11-21 20:57:54 · answer #2 · answered by Wei r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to understand that your husband will not change. He is using you. All the money you make, he takes from you and some of his money too to give to your father in law. And it leaves you so poor that you can barely make ends meet. He is not even taking care of your son financially. Please get a divorce from him. That is the only way. He has no feelings of love toward you. You deserve much better. And your son does too. Leave him and find a good life for you and your son. There is help out there for single women, organizations to help you get back on your feet.
2006-11-21 20:34:33 · answer #3 · answered by beautyofthesea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi puja
I think your husband is very much attached to his parents and sibilings. he thinks that it his duty to take care of them. but if he has any brother they also hav the same reposbility to take car of them. i am not aginst him in helping his parents. But he must understand that he is married and hav a kid so he has the responsibility to take care of his family also. I think he is a kind of person who never hear his wife's word and do everything according to his decisions. I think you parents in law and his brohter , whoever are making use of his attachment towards the the family. why dont you discus this with your family memebers. let them talk to your husband regarding this. he must know that u kid is growing up. you all hav to find money for his educations, dress and for other needs. so ask him to take of his son atleast.
i think you must sit and talk each other. you can bring to his point soon after your love making. but you hav to give him much pleasure that day so that he may hear ur problems
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2006-11-21 20:45:54 · answer #4 · answered by dracu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-29 08:58:28 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your english is really bad I cannot understand your question.
I guess you should work hard and earn more money
2006-11-21 20:26:26 · answer #6 · answered by spark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋