Family - November 2006

she is the daughter of my father with another girl whom we do not know until now. what shall i do?

2006-11-23 03:50:22 · 13 answers · asked by math 3

My mom passed away 2 months after I had my first child, I have had another since then. My son is 3 and daughter 2 months, how do I let them know her, she was a wonderful person and I want them to know that. How do I keep her memory alive in them?

2006-11-23 03:45:50 · 15 answers · asked by Stacy V 1

2006-11-23 03:43:34 · 32 answers · asked by georgie 1

he and i were supposed to go to germany the week that he died. i feel terrible because i never wrote to him or called him.now i feel like it is my fault.

2006-11-23 03:33:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-23 03:15:49 · 10 answers · asked by ©smegma 1

I feel like my mother favors my brother, but tries to compete with me . She seems to think that my brother can do no wrong.

Yet, she looks down at me because she thinks that I am not as good at household duties as her. She was not a professional and I am.

She also looks down at me because my marriage failed because my ex was controlling, money-minded and abusive. She has been married to my father for 43 years.

We have never had a close relationship and now I feel that she idolizes my brother. I don't know how to deal with it.

She does not know that my sister-in-law was forced to be nice to her. My brother said if she did not patch up with my mother, he would call it quits. That's why my sister-in-law is now being nice to her. She thinks that its genuine. I have not said anything to her.

My mother praises other families but I feel bad because of my family not being complete.

2006-11-23 02:55:13 · 5 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

can anyone give me advice on how to find out if its true. He remarried and his new wife did not encourage his family to visit. They moved address and changed phone no. so we had no contact. They did stay in same town. I would be very grateful for any advice Thanks

2006-11-23 02:49:45 · 15 answers · asked by di 3

Your 15 yo kid was doing bad and dangerous stuff and you had to give a somewhat severe punishment, thinking you were doing your best. She changed her behavior, left bad companies, and today you're proud of her, An honor student, good friends, does a lot of good things, but, unfortunately, extremely resentful. Respectful, but distant, like a stranger. Avoids her parents, avoids any activity with them, unless forced. Doesn't see her parents as loving parents, says they didn't love and forgive her when she need them most, keeps dwelling on the past. And this for months and months, suggesting t'll keep going for years, years, years.. She refuses to talk, unless forced, and them just repeats the same things. A great girl, but like an statue.
How to deal with this? Can this carry on to adulthood? Should she punished? I don't think so. Should we reward her for her good actions, despite her resentful behavior? She says her resentful behavior is her undenibale right.

2006-11-23 02:31:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

All of a sudden, I am being completely ignored by everyone in my family. I walk round my house trying to talk to either my mum or my brothers and they just give me dirty looks and tell me to go away. I've tried asking what I've done wrong and they just shout and swear at me. Please help me, it's really upsetting me.

2006-11-23 02:27:08 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm usually nice to her,and always compliment her, Just because i'm older,and i do mean it.But she hardly say Hi when i arrive, NEVER smile,she always looks mad at me.Like if i have done something,she's 14,and have a stupid attitide.Even if i compliment her, she gives me a stern look and say thank u.I told her once, and a nice way, u are so pretty u shoild smile often.Only once, she smile and gave me a hug, when she was asking for a coin.I didn't give her ! I don't want to see her,today! When i was little i was polite, to my uncles,and aunts.What do u advice ?????????????

2006-11-23 02:00:55 · 9 answers · asked by dersexy 1

2006-11-23 01:50:06 · 19 answers · asked by xmissxrainxocampo 1

I'm 14 and frankly I'm not sure what tough love means exactly. Of course, parents say tough love is something like taking harsh measures when they think it's necessary to correct their kids. But I'm not sure if tough love is something continuous or something that's used only when required, a necessary evil. To me, love does'nt need and shouldn't be given adjectives. So, I guess tough love is just an expression parents use to justify their harsh attitudes towards their kids. That's probabby what my parents did to me almost 1 year ago and that made me so resentful that since them I've avoided them and act like a stranger, though they even say I'm proud of me (except for my resentful behavior, but which is my undeniable right).
So, if in the future my parents are in need and I'm in a very good situation, it's OK I deny them any help and just say this is for their own good, because they will learn and grow up as persons from adversity. Tough love, OK?

2006-11-23 01:45:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-23 01:43:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Not to the people who sent good suggestions and thier sympothy... To the ones who sent the insults and the wise cracks, As if you didn't know, that didn't help. I'm living here with my father and mother because I'm the only one of thier kids that would take care of my elderly and disabled pop... The sorry basturd (My Bro) I was refering to is here because he's too dang stupid to take care of himself. As far as my spelling goes Spell this *** wipe..

2006-11-23 01:42:06 · 7 answers · asked by Carl Ray 1

About a month ago I had asked my mother in law if she would mind If I do Thanksgiving my mother had no problem with it but mother in law did. She said it was her favorite holiday and she wanted to do it. I said no problem I just thought it would make things a little easier so that we wouldn't have to go to her house at 12 and my moms at 5. I have no problem doing that but my mother inlaw does. She thinks you should go to one place for the holidays I have always went to 2 familys for thanksgiving and I want to keep it that way. I like to see my family every year as well as my husbands family and I am willing to do both.
My mother-in-law is being really selfish she calls last night to talk to my husband and they are discusing Thanksgiving my husband tells her that we won't be eating dinner there we will have appitizers and stay a while but we are eating at my wifes mothers because we ate last year at your house for dinner. This is the problem my mom is flexible she will do lunch or dinn

2006-11-23 01:30:17 · 11 answers · asked by BabyDolll128 3

missing person family looking for can anyone help please
anthony smith of amarillo texas 18 years old

2006-11-23 01:30:09 · 1 answers · asked by john h 1

My phone rang today...it was the sister of my bf:D she was confused and lost..she told me she lost her virginity and got pregnant...she is sumtin 20 but bcoz u cant just lose ur virginity in our culture leave alone gettin pregnant...its a horrible case for her...whats worse am the only one who knows about it she told me the father left her and now she is gonna have an abortion 2mrw she needed money:S ive just send her the money...now the problem is that her brother is my bf for 2 years now and were gettin married in a year or so...THE PROBLEM IS...how can i act normal infront of them? if he knows omg they ll probably kill her or sumtin am lost and confused..i wish she never told mee..whats worse? her brother and the whole family see her as an angel they think she is religious and never does any ''badd stuff'' and i have to keep hearin what an angel she is...u know? i dont wana tell any1 coz i know what will happen to her but how can i keep this secret?

2006-11-23 01:28:15 · 6 answers · asked by sara07 1

but my 18 yr old daughter has just had a baby, she is in a stable relationship with the baby's dad and they have got their own place. However, she doesnt seem to want me to be a part of the babys life. They dont live far away, 15 mins walk, but she never visits with my grandchild. We get on fine and before the baby was born she was always round, but since shes had it, she doesn't want to know. Btw she is always round at her fellas parents, yet she wont come here.I have asked her loads to come but she always says shes staying in, when I know shes really in town. what should I do?

2006-11-23 01:19:37 · 7 answers · asked by The Way 4

what is the relation of the criminal to the judge?

2006-11-23 00:56:35 · 7 answers · asked by ryan g 2

my godmother recently got married to her fiance (whom btw she met off the internet), but it all started after she got engaged. Basically, she told everyone that she got engaged on a gondala in Venice, but infact, she didn't - she got engaged on some street in Italy. Then she started bossing everyone about - being a total bridezilla. On her hen night, her friends caused trouble for my mum and they threatened her - even though my mum had organised the whole thing and the friends were actually staying at our house. My godmother believed all the nasty lies her 'friends' told her and they made stuff up about my mum and reduced my mum to tears after everything we have done for her. the wedding went along fine, but now my godmother will not spend any time with us, she didn't send a card or anything for my birthday and we haven't seen her since may on her wedding day. Is it just me or do you think my godmother has been out of order? She still hasn't apologised or anything! Please help!

2006-11-23 00:48:53 · 14 answers · asked by hunny_bun15 1

How can my daughter have bigger breast than me?. My chest is flat, my mother is flat. My sisters don't have that much either. Last night I was helping my daughter pick out a bra that fits good and I realised that her chest is hugh. I was seriously jealous, how can that be. Sad Lori

2006-11-23 00:47:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you know why?

2006-11-23 00:43:07 · 15 answers · asked by Hantana_kiyo 2

i don't have any family b/c i was told that i was a mistake but i am not bad about it, i am college student and doing well myself.
i have friends but there far away and the ones that r not that far away r in family.
i am enjoy my time here in my place, i rented some movie that i love.
before that i will go to my hair dresser to take care of myself and then i will be home and relax.

but i just wanted to say happy thanksgiving to everybody.
take care

2006-11-23 00:00:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance hits me when I get him angry and then tells me it wouldn't have happened if I didn't get him angry. Is it really my fault for getting him angry in the first place.

2006-11-22 23:55:13 · 11 answers · asked by golden tigress 3

my dad is dying from complications from enphezima (not eating is one) i'm trying my best to care for him even though the result will be the same, yet i still fell guilty that I should do more. comments?

2006-11-22 22:57:51 · 5 answers · asked by oldguy 6

I know that my mom is cheating on my dad for about 4 years now. My mom stays at home the whole day but she leaves at 5pm and comes home very late at like12am or 1am. She's been acting cold towards me, my sister, dad, and younger brothers. She doesn't really buy us what we want because she's prolly giving away our money to that ****** jerk. When my mom picks us up at school, she always brings this guy with her all the time and she would always tell us that its her former classmate back when she was still in high school and she would also tell us that he's just helping her with our business and ****. My dad found out that my mom has been cheating on him and he didn't divorce her because he didn't wanna break our family. I know that my dad has a point but I can't stand seeing my dad getting hurt all the time. The worst is, I think that my mom transfered all the titles and all our wealth to her name. It's supposed to be both right? What can I do now? I really need help guys! =(

2006-11-22 22:23:12 · 16 answers · asked by swimmer 2

She has health problems. She want to do good job but she is not able to do so because of family problems. Is her husband is liable to her

2006-11-22 22:16:26 · 15 answers · asked by pankaj v 1

My dad accidently through out my old computer. There was nothing wrong with it and I was gonna sell it for about £200. I pay him £30 a week because I still live at home with my dad. (Wish I didnt) Is it right of me to say I am not paying him any money for a while. Or should I accept it was an accident and forget about it?

2006-11-22 21:52:26 · 20 answers · asked by Mike A 2

My husband and I just moved into his parents house. This should be just a tempary "thing"... His parents are very laid back. He works nights, comes home and drinks till her falls asleep. She watches her daughters kids all day and cleans... cleans everything. She does our laundry and even folds my underwear. She cooks us dinner everynight... She never says anything negative towards me... she hardly even talks to me...

I am not sure how to act around her. I am very thankful for her hard work she does with taking care of my crap. I tell her thankyou several times a day... I just am not sure if I like her doing everything for me. My mother is very high strung, and the minipulative type...

I feel bad because she does so much. I honestly don't like spending time with her, not because I don't like her... I just have nothing in common with the women... She is kinda "the man of the house" she fixes the car, builds a spare bedroom out back, goes hunting..." I can't even make small talk..

2006-11-22 21:40:42 · 8 answers · asked by Mom 4

He says he supported us when our father had deserted us but we sisters had also been working and he occassionally supportedus and our mother. Now he has returned from USA without completing his Bachelors and sleeps the whole day and night and abuses us if we ask him to do some work. we are well settled now and so was he in USA but he decided to return against our advice now he blames us for all his mis fortunes and doesnot pay heed to what ever we say.We are supporting him for the sake of our mother but for how long!

2006-11-22 21:36:48 · 7 answers · asked by puzzled 1