but my 18 yr old daughter has just had a baby, she is in a stable relationship with the baby's dad and they have got their own place. However, she doesnt seem to want me to be a part of the babys life. They dont live far away, 15 mins walk, but she never visits with my grandchild. We get on fine and before the baby was born she was always round, but since shes had it, she doesn't want to know. Btw she is always round at her fellas parents, yet she wont come here.I have asked her loads to come but she always says shes staying in, when I know shes really in town. what should I do?
2006-11-23 01:19:37 · 7 answers · asked by The Way 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Oh, when I ask if I can visit she always says shes got the decorator in.Female btw.
2006-11-23 01:25:08 · update #1
Well first, big hug to you. I know the feeling. There isn't much you can do. I try to stay in touch thru cell messages and emails, but my doesn't return them either. And mine doesn't have a baby.
2006-11-23 01:24:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call over anyway during the morning time when she would be busy with the baby. Offer assistance and advice. Dont crowd her because she may have some post natal depression which manifests itself in strange ways.
2006-11-23 09:30:50 · answer #2 · answered by Sean G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would seem your daughter seems to think that her lot in life will be better served by being closer to the fathers parents than you.
It is a sad state to be in but be pleasant with then & keep up contact.
Hope for the best.
2006-11-23 09:32:43 · answer #3 · answered by Floyd B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever happened to getting married before having babies? It could be you, it could be her, it could be his family, the only way to find out is to talk to her. It's cheap shot at getting her attention, but you might ask her to go shopping with you, or buy things for the baby and ask her to come over to get them. You will have to make yourself and your home a place where they want to be.
2006-11-23 09:29:41 · answer #4 · answered by Jack S. Buy more ammo! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just curious, but why don't you go to her house? You could bring dinner to the new parents, or offer to babysit so they can go to a movie, or dinner. This will give you time to get to know your grandbaby, and they will appreciate it. good luck
2006-11-23 09:23:05 · answer #5 · answered by camandizmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go visit her,and spoil your grandbaby like grama's do
2006-11-23 09:26:15 · answer #6 · answered by cc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the best thing to do is that you visit her
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2006-11-23 09:23:25 · answer #7 · answered by john doe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋