He says he supported us when our father had deserted us but we sisters had also been working and he occassionally supportedus and our mother. Now he has returned from USA without completing his Bachelors and sleeps the whole day and night and abuses us if we ask him to do some work. we are well settled now and so was he in USA but he decided to return against our advice now he blames us for all his mis fortunes and doesnot pay heed to what ever we say.We are supporting him for the sake of our mother but for how long!
2006-11-22 21:36:48 · 7 answers · asked by puzzled 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Time to cut the cord, and quickly. Sounds like you all let this go on for too long, and any more time he will be going no where with your money. Best to do this quick, and you will be surprised what people do when they have to.
2006-11-22 21:43:10 · answer #1 · answered by foxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mine is the same way!!! hes 38, leaching off my dad, hates me because im sick of his dope friends puting my dads house in jeporty, and he knows i know hes a snitch....he hates me with a burning passion and i have no real idea why,other than i can call him out to others, and because i wont let me dad suffer because of him....and we were both adopted!!( him and i not related) im the oposite, i do everything i can to help my dad because he has done so much for me, mike thinks my poor 81 yr old dad OWES HIM!!!!! if you can figure out why, let me know, but my guess is your brothers a dope fiend
2006-11-23 05:41:52 · answer #2 · answered by s p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abuse him back. Poke him with sharp sticks when he sleeps.
2006-11-23 05:40:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stab him in the @$$ with a fork and then tell him it will get alot worse if he doesn't straighten up.
2006-11-23 05:42:04 · answer #4 · answered by Docta Jones 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time for some "tough love".Show his lazy b
2006-11-23 05:40:14
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kick him out! sounds like he needs a wake up call
2006-11-23 05:40:10 · answer #6 · answered by ~lovelovelove~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boot him.
2006-11-23 05:38:58 · answer #7 · answered by setter505 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋