my godmother recently got married to her fiance (whom btw she met off the internet), but it all started after she got engaged. Basically, she told everyone that she got engaged on a gondala in Venice, but infact, she didn't - she got engaged on some street in Italy. Then she started bossing everyone about - being a total bridezilla. On her hen night, her friends caused trouble for my mum and they threatened her - even though my mum had organised the whole thing and the friends were actually staying at our house. My godmother believed all the nasty lies her 'friends' told her and they made stuff up about my mum and reduced my mum to tears after everything we have done for her. the wedding went along fine, but now my godmother will not spend any time with us, she didn't send a card or anything for my birthday and we haven't seen her since may on her wedding day. Is it just me or do you think my godmother has been out of order? She still hasn't apologised or anything! Please help!
2006-11-23 00:48:53 · 14 answers · asked by hunny_bun15 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Some people are shallow thinkers to believe in every words other people may say about something, like your godmother she just believe and influenced by her false friends...not thinking that they might be wrong...You have nothing to be worried, its not your fault.Just give her a time to think about, some space, i think she just want to have her own life with her new husband, just give it to her, and when the time comes that she needed your help then it is the time for you to talk to her and explain everything you felt.She's pathetic unless she didnt believe to those people who made your mother cry...Dont wait for her to apologise to you and to your mother, she will never do that until such time that she eventually understand and realized her own mistake and her friends.Have your life and be happy, dont be bother about it, just think that God knows who is right and who is wrong, and He will be the One who judge us.Hope i helped you, thats all!!
2006-11-23 00:59:07 · answer #1 · answered by missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that your parents asked your godmom to be your godmom seems to indicate that they go back a long way. If that's the case, the misunderstanding must had been very painful for your godmom to cause her to react this way and to jeapordise her friendship with your parents. Do you know what was said and done? Anyway, assuming what you represented is factually correct, I would say that your godma is a difficult person. Don't worry too much about it. We can't make everyone love us. If she is truly a difficult person, then I'd say good riddance. Why do you want to be surrounded by these kind of people.
2006-11-23 09:17:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure sounds like she treated you poorly. Since you haven't heard from her, I would say thats a good thing. After all, if she is such a rotten person, what do you want her back for? It probably hurts that she is your godmother and she treated your family this way. Maybe down the road, she'll realize her mistakes and come back and apologize.
2006-11-23 08:54:47 · answer #3 · answered by Firespider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's either out of order or out of sorts, if you know what I mean. At any rate, this woman must die. Track her down and tell her husband you will appreciate it if he would take her out on a gondola, hand her a lovely basket of food and then jump just before the blast and photograph her as she sinks. This woman is clearly not a God anything. She is the Beast. Good riddance!
2006-11-23 08:54:41 · answer #4 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me...once the trouble starts in her new wonderful life, she'll be right back! Where else does she have to turn?! But yes, she was defiantly out of line here! Who knows though if she will ever apologize, she may be too embarrassed!
2006-11-23 08:53:23 · answer #5 · answered by oracle1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but you can't change other people. The best thing that you can do is to forgive her, but that does not mean that you have to help her any more. Sooner or later she will find out what she has lost.
2006-11-23 08:55:47 · answer #6 · answered by Jack S. Buy more ammo! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her not wanting to spend time with you should be regarded as the solution rather than part of the problem. The question you might ask yourselves is why would you want to spend any time with her.
2006-11-23 08:53:07 · answer #7 · answered by jackbutler5555 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She and her friends are way out of line. I wouldn't expect an apology. Just let her know that you think her actions are unacceptable and why, and then stop talking to her.
2006-11-23 08:54:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that was very ill-mannerd and your godmother should have more respect on her family
2006-11-23 08:53:51 · answer #9 · answered by *Breath* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it would be better if u try talking to your grandma about it
tell her the truth and tell her your missing her
i think she will understand
atleast i hope she does
2006-11-23 09:06:39 · answer #10 · answered by fan#1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋