My phone rang today...it was the sister of my bf:D she was confused and lost..she told me she lost her virginity and got pregnant...she is sumtin 20 but bcoz u cant just lose ur virginity in our culture leave alone gettin pregnant...its a horrible case for her...whats worse am the only one who knows about it she told me the father left her and now she is gonna have an abortion 2mrw she needed money:S ive just send her the money...now the problem is that her brother is my bf for 2 years now and were gettin married in a year or so...THE PROBLEM IS...how can i act normal infront of them? if he knows omg they ll probably kill her or sumtin am lost and confused..i wish she never told mee..whats worse? her brother and the whole family see her as an angel they think she is religious and never does any ''badd stuff'' and i have to keep hearin what an angel she is...u know? i dont wana tell any1 coz i know what will happen to her but how can i keep this secret?
2006-11-23 01:28:15 · 6 answers · asked by sara07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
ive told her to keep herself away from such things and stop talkin to guys coz she talks to around 10 guys a day her phone keeps ringin she drives me mad...in 2 months time she is gonna have an operation where she ll close it downthere...:S so it ll bleed on her wedding night...i dont understand why her mum isnt seeing anytin she is already 2 months pregnant anyways if i dont shut up this girl is goin 2 be killed and she told the wrong person coz i know myself i was about to tell her brother today and he keeps ringin askin me whats goin on he wants me to tell him whats wrong but i keep changin the subject...am gonna screw this up...and i feel responsible for killin that baby inside of her coz i gave her money to do so...i blame her parents they were too strict on her she wasnt allowed to do anytin and when she got the chance to do it she does the worst things ...LOOK WHAT HAPPENED NOW!
2006-11-23 01:31:51 · update #1
First of all. you have to tell everything to your b/f rather than his parents. Coz you both are the one who are going to start a family. If this is reveald, you will the one who is blamed,and this will defintly affect your future life. So hurry up.
2006-11-23 03:27:27 · answer #1 · answered by prity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly, ask her to stop telling u about her problems which requires u to lie to ur bf. and i think u should tell ur bf everything about her. if he finds out later what u've done he wont think what wrong his sister has done, he'll think why u hadnt told him earlier. that will be a much bigger issue then. dont ruin ur life for someone as stupid as her, i know thats a bit selfish but its ur life and u should do whatever u think will keep u happy. be honest to ur bf. thats important in a relationship but ask him to not tell his parents, thats the only favour u can do her. hope i helped.
2006-11-23 03:34:25 · answer #2 · answered by chilliz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's easy, just don't tell anyone, cause if they will find out that u've helped her and cover all the thing up it will become your fault and some pretty bad things could happen to you. Anyway u have to keep lying and pretending like nothing has happened... can u do that?
2006-11-23 01:33:05 · answer #3 · answered by Paolo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all you cant say anything if she told you in confidense but if he asks you directly you cant lie!! you might ruin your marriage what more important to you! good luck
2006-11-23 02:10:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to let her do what she thinks that she need to do or you will get blamed at the end.
2006-11-23 01:50:31 · answer #5 · answered by sumer h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your sister is nasty.
2006-11-23 06:32:55 · answer #6 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋