Family - November 2006

what is true luv and what does it mean to u?

2006-11-23 14:02:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mother is a teacher and my boyfriend is in the grade ahead of me at the school where she teaches. I know him outside of school. All of a sudden shes saying what a bad student he is and how awful he is. He asked me out a few weeks ago and i said yes.... how do i tell my mum thats im going out with who she considers a deinquent?

2006-11-23 14:00:36 · 3 answers · asked by missi_jane_is_me 1

I kind of helped my friend Jason sneak away from his help and we went to socail services. They checked out his parents & said things were clear and are sending him back with his parents!

I can't let Jason go back!

What should I do?

2006-11-23 13:59:16 · 11 answers · asked by JASNJ 2

Me and my boyfriend have been together for for almost 4 years. My family loves him and accepts him as part of our family. My boyfriends mom doesn't consider me part of her and leaves me out of things that my family includes my boyfriend in. I feel very connected to his family when my boyfriends mom was diagnosed with breast cancer i cut off all my hair to donate to locks of love. Anyway my point is should i be offended that she never includes me in things or get over it because i'm not technically part of the family?

2006-11-23 13:34:37 · 10 answers · asked by jrtootsiepop 3

2 years ago my oldest brother died. my brother was an awesome son he always listend to my mom and never went against the rules and everyone liked him. he was my moms faviorit she always talks about how she wishs i could be more like him. sometimes i feel like she wishes it was me who died instead of him. could this be true?

2006-11-23 13:25:11 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

The past few family gatherings it has been different.
All my older cousins are bringing their gfs/bfs
lots of aunts/uncles/cousins don't come
my grandpa has passed, my grandma seems depressed
my older cousins ignore me and are kinda mean


my younger cousins annoy me
they are actually mean to me too
my cousin has a daughter
I am stuck in the middle
and it's not what it used to be

and it makes me sad :(

2006-11-23 13:07:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

basically my ex has our son when it suits him, it has come to a crunch because my ex's girlfriend text me and called me an uncaring mother, I rang her drunk and I should not of done, I said bad things but i apologised in a text, which i can proove. Now she is saying to both my daughters who are watresses with her that I am a slag and she is gonna go for custody along with my ex for my son. She has got both my girls sacked and is trying to be the victim in all this what do I do?

2006-11-23 12:36:18 · 23 answers · asked by squawinpants 3

2006-11-23 12:32:26 · 6 answers · asked by Aliza 2

I know all familys have problems, you get mad at your parents or siblings and what not. But overall, do you like your family and get along with them most of the time and you feel like you really belong in your family?

2006-11-23 12:03:23 · 19 answers · asked by ♥#1 Miley Cyrus Fan♥ 5

Today is Thanksgiving and I just told my family, I didn't want to speak to them again.
I am 26 years old and I haven't been able to forget the pain of the emotional abuse I endured from my mother. I have a sister, 8 years younger, that she treats very differently.
It's like my mother is a completely different woman than she used to be. She is now a doting, kind and considerate mother.
The mother I knew called my older sister and I fat, ugly and stupid.
This should not bother me as an adult, but it does.
I am not jealous of my younger sister, just jealous that my mother did not treat my sister and I the same, and in some ways, still does not.
I have deep-rooted self esteem issues that she caused, and as an educated, professional woman, I still haven't overcome them.
When I spend time with my family, I feel worse about myself. Time with them inevitably leads to an argument which I come away from feeling horrible and guilty.
What should I do?

2006-11-23 12:00:13 · 11 answers · asked by Maggie D 1

He is in his 20's.

2006-11-23 11:59:09 · 2 answers · asked by hoperdoper22 2

Am I alone on this or you also cannot help it but spoil him ? Not 'rotten', mind you..... I try not to but I cannot stop pamper him and probably spoil him a little bit by buying him little things that please him. Someone told me "OF COURSE YOU HAVE TO SPOILHIM A BIT... IF YOU DON'T WHO WILL ??" Am I a weak father or is all this normal ?! Other fathers of 7, 8 or 9 year old boys step forward and tell me PLEASE.

2006-11-23 11:30:37 · 1 answers · asked by RED-CHROME 6

hmm, my mom is 54, but very lively. I am still in high school so i can only spend bout $15 or less if possible.

2006-11-23 11:29:03 · 7 answers · asked by catsrock227 2

my uncle came over for thanksgiving. he's 45 + just broke up with his girlfriend who is around 20 something. he does weird stuff like that. i've never been that uncomfortable around him though. but today, he kept staring at me + made me feel awkward. when i was sitting on the coach next to my dog's blanket, he moves it + sits right down next to me. too close. there was a hundred other places to sit. also, when he left + said his goodbyes to everyone including me, after he left, he called + told my mom to tell me that he said goodbye. HE JUST FREAKING DID. it doesn't sound like anything that bad. but i just have this bad feeling + whenever i think about it, i can't help but cry cause i feel so scared now. i feel violated + disgusting now. do i have a right to feel this way or is it no big deal ?

2006-11-23 11:22:07 · 18 answers · asked by yourprettyhot123 2

i am having a problem that is really making me mad. Whenever I get mad, I just cry. It is so bad now my own father is calling me a little sissy, my friends make fun of me now, and i cannot take it anymore. I have even started hitting myself as hard as I can i the jaw whenever I start crying. Is there a way I can stop this, because I am sick of being the laughingstock of my family and friends.

2006-11-23 11:18:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-23 11:08:22 · 3 answers · asked by Kris 1

well umm.. my cousin's da died about a month or so ago and his mom and uncle are planning to keep it from him for as long as possible when they know that he really wants to go see his dad for the summer that is comming and they think that the longer they keep it from him the less harsh it will be on him well i would like to know if you think that this is a good idea and by the way out of all the people under 18 in the family on this childs side i am the only one that knows his father is dead...............

2006-11-23 11:01:34 · 8 answers · asked by that one girl 2

She allows her child to be destructive to other people's property and doesn't correct the child. I watched her child nearly destroy my computer keyboard while the mother (son's girlfriend) just watched without stopping her. There's more to this than that. The mother has relinguished some her mothering duties to my son. They have been dating about 2 months.

2006-11-23 10:47:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

HELP I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO-IM SOO SAD. IVE KNOWN MY EX BF FOR A YEAR AND A HALF- I JUST FOUND OUT YESTERDAY THAT MY EX BF WHO I LOVE SOO MUCH HAD A ONE NIGHT STAND OR SO HE SAYS. WE WERE SUPPOSED TO GET BACK TOGETHER- I LOVE HIM SOO MUCH- WEVE BEEN BROKEN UP FOR 9 MONTHS- HE ALWAYS TELLS ME HE LOVES ME SOO MUCH AND CARES ABOUT ME- MY EX BF LOST HIS VIRGINITY TO ME(I KNOW FOR A FACT) I AM SOO LOST - I REALLY LOVED HIM- I MISS ALL THE MEMORIES WE SHARED- HE IS HANDICAPPED- HE HAS SPINA BIFIDA-HE HAS A LEARNING DISABILITY- HE HAS OTHER PROBLEMS- I WAS TALKING TO MY COUSIN LAST NIGHT BECAUSE I ALMOST SLIT MY WRIST- SHE TOLD ME THAT I SHOULD MOVE ON AND FIND BETTER- SHE SAID THAT I REALLY WOULDNT HAVE A GOOD LIFE WITH HIM BECAUSE HES HANDICAPPED AND IF I HAVE KIDS WITH HIM THEY WOULD TURN OUT MOST LIKELY HANDICAPPED- I LOVE AND MISS HIM SOO MUCH- WHAT SHOULD I DO?????? IM SOO CONFUSED- THIS IS REALLY BRINGING ME DOWN- WHAT SHOULD I DO? I'M 27 AND HE IS 23- PLEASE ANSWER BACK

2006-11-23 10:42:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

names,planets,and other.

2006-11-23 10:30:04 · 6 answers · asked by sister w/ bratie lil brother 1

2006-11-23 10:24:24 · 6 answers · asked by J 2

She wears short skirts, tank tops, and tube tops. She likes to wear high heels and boots. My friends come over just to see her because they say she has a nice body. They call her a MILF and I'm tired of it. She's 35. How can I get her to cover up?

2006-11-23 10:20:42 · 11 answers · asked by J 2

my sister is mean and always makes everyone like her more by making me look bad. my little brother is plain out mean and i hate him. yes i said it i HATE him. its a deep passionate hate too. if u were me u'd hate him too. they are both adopted. only me and my older brother arent. but i dont like my older brother either because he is worthless and he just sits on the computer playing gay games all day and never does anything to help anyone else. my sister is selfish and gets everything seh wants because she thinks she is so cool because she is 5 months older than me (no we are not twins she is adopted. no way would my mom wait 5 freakin months to have me. seariously ive had people ask if she was my twin when i tell them bout her. we dont look anythign alike). yeah my dad is always screaming at us for every little thing. my life is gay i want to run away.

2006-11-23 10:19:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am tired of living at home and I want to move out but my mother disapproves

2006-11-23 10:09:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mother told me today: Goddamn the day I saw you/you were born. I'm just soooo hurt she said that. Did she mean it? Does she hate me? Do I have the right of being so upset or am I just overreacting?

2006-11-23 10:05:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Need your help again guys. All opinions and suggestions welcome
My Mum was adopted and never talked much about her real family. She had close contact with 2 older sisters but nothing else and that's who we thought was her family until last night.
I did the family tree and put it on a website, I get an email from a lady claiming to be her sister. I didn't believe her until she sent my Mum's birth cert to me and a pic of my mum when she was 5?


I now have 9 aunties and 4 uncles who my mum has never mentioned.. and I don't know how to tell my mum? If she never told us then she obviously didn't want us to know. This new Auntie of mine said she was so close to my mum she even named her child after her.
What do I do?
My mum has already had a break down. Do I bring up the past or do I leave it, throwing away the chance for my mum to be happy???

2006-11-23 10:02:00 · 18 answers · asked by ? 3

2006-11-23 09:48:19 · 20 answers · asked by T C 1

2006-11-23 09:41:44 · 3 answers · asked by Karen S 1

my mom died about a month ago and everyone took it really hard but not me. Now it wasnt out of the blue, shed been sick for about three years and they told us she was going to die. i was in the room when she died and it was sad and i cried but im over it now but no one else seems to be is there something wrong with me because i moved on so fast. i wasnt even sad for a week it was liek a day and that was it i moved on, is that normal

2006-11-23 09:28:57 · 16 answers · asked by lexy 2

i hate wen my parents say no wen i do stuff

2006-11-23 09:20:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous