I am tired of living at home and I want to move out but my mother disapproves
2006-11-23 10:09:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Wait till she goes out and pack up and go. I did that to my ex hubby.
2006-11-23 10:13:09 · answer #1 · answered by lollipoppett2005 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old are you? if you are over 18 then she really has no say in the matter. She is probably worried that you won't be able to manage on your own. If you are 18 or over, sit down and have a chat to her and find out what she is really worried about and maybe you can put her fears to rest by explaining that you have a job etc and know that bills have to be paid and you'll have to do your own cooking, laundry and cleaning. Maybe she thinks that if you move out you will fall in with the wrong crowd. Look at it from her point of view and talk to her about it!! Maybe she just likes having you at home and will miss you if you go.
2006-11-23 18:21:19 · answer #2 · answered by Moira S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you
if you are over 18, (ahem) you can move out if you want, but make sure you are able to support yourself
if you are under 18, and Unless life at home is intolerable as in you are abused in some way (there is recourse for that), then suck it up and get over yourself. You will grow up soon enough and life at home is not that bad. So you have to live by a few rules - your day will come - be patient.
2006-11-23 18:13:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing how old are you? Do you have a job? Could you finacially support yourself... food... rent.. utility bills. What is the reason your mother disapproves in you moving out? I think you should stay there as long as you possibily can,because after you get out, its hard, no one cares about you anymore. Your neighboors are not going to care if your lights get turned off or if you dont have money for food. Stay at home.. be a kid as long as you can be one. Because being out on your own is not as fun as it is made out to be.
2006-11-23 18:17:31 · answer #4 · answered by **baby~doll** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you turn 18 and then it won't matter what your mother says. You could also tell her that if she doesn't let you move out, you're going to put her in the cheapest, most abusive nursing home you can find as soon as you're legally able.
2006-11-23 18:13:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are of legal age and can afford to move out and live on your own without help from her, then she can't stop you. If all those things are true and you think if you moved out she would make life difficult for you, then move to another state. Just be sure you can make it on your own. If you want to move out and have her support you, I don't blame her for being against it. Why should she pay for you to have your own place? Good Luck!!
2006-11-23 18:18:42 · answer #6 · answered by Annie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, how old are you? Unless you're 18, you're pretty much stuck there. On the other hand, if you're a minor and you have a legitimate reason to move out (abuse, etc.), you can talk to a lawyer about becoming emancipated.
2006-11-23 18:12:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your old enough and you really want to you should do it otherwise it will only get more complicated..if you can be sure within yourself that she is not holding you back out of fear you will be leaping into a bad decision do it..go! but remember she is your mother try to see things from her perspective before commiting to a decision
2006-11-23 18:13:40 · answer #8 · answered by Bazil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur under 18 then u have no choice but to stay. If ur over 18, then move!
2006-11-23 18:12:33 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Assuming you live in the US- if you're 18 she can't stop you,. Just do it.
Don't leave on bad terms or completely cut ties because you may need her one day
2006-11-23 19:17:06 · answer #10 · answered by cranky_gut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your over the age of 18 she really cant force you to stay_
2006-11-23 18:11:53 · answer #11 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋