i am having a problem that is really making me mad. Whenever I get mad, I just cry. It is so bad now my own father is calling me a little sissy, my friends make fun of me now, and i cannot take it anymore. I have even started hitting myself as hard as I can i the jaw whenever I start crying. Is there a way I can stop this, because I am sick of being the laughingstock of my family and friends.
2006-11-23 11:18:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
im 15, and i grew up somewhat spoiled, but Now, the crying needs to stop, because imma eventually beat someone down
2006-11-23 11:36:35 · update #1
Oh darl, how old are you? There is nothing wrong with crying. What you are describing is crying out of frustration. I know exactly how you feel, it's so embarrassing, but there's nothing you can do to stop it.
Don't hit yourself it will only make it worse. As for your father, I think he should be ashamed of himself. You are not a sissy for crying, it is the most natural thing in the world to do.
Your friends will eventually come around, and if they don't, they weren't your friends in the first place.
I think you are a very emotional person and there is nothing wrong with that, it is better to let your anger and frustration out than to hold it inside, that'll only make you sick.
Just be yourself darl, don't let it get you down, ok?
2006-11-23 11:33:48 · answer #1 · answered by kiwi_mum1966 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It could just be a stage but you could be changing so your hormones are going everywhere and it is harder during this time to control your emotions. I went through this phase but I didn't become a laughing stock. If your familyis laughing becuase you cry over the littlest things then you need to sit down and have a serious discussion with your family because there is no reason why your family should be doing this. Families should support you and not make things worse. If it continues you need to see a counselor to discuss options and then set up a family session. A family doctor could give you reasons why you are crying a lot. Do not hit yoursef or anything else. you could be depressed so take this into account. Never attempt to punish yourself because you cannot control your emotions. It can be extremely hard to sto this habit but hurting yourself will only cause more issues. you must stop hitting yourself now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I may not be a counselor but I remember what my parents made me go through when I started to hurt myself for doing stupid things. I ended up going to a counselor for a year because of this. If it is diagnosed as depression you may be given drugs for it but be very careful. I strongly suggest a discussion with your family about how you feel about their reactions. If this comes to nothing it could be labeled as a form of abuse so becareful about how you deal with it. About your friends, ditch them if they are truly mocking you because no good friend will laugh at you because of something ou cannot conciously control.
2006-11-23 11:29:23 · answer #2 · answered by JEB 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's normal to get so mad that you cry. Crying is just a release of an emotion and nothing to be ashamed of. Your friends and family should be the ones ashamed for making you feel bad about it.
2006-11-23 11:20:51 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i'm getting that too. this could sound unusual, yet once you experience the tears coming near. close your eyes tightly for some seconds, and then open them as extensive as you could and roll your eyes around (like once you place a splash lens in) this might definately dry those eyes. attempt it a pair circumstances once you get upset. good success Chick- Alex
2016-10-17 11:11:02 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's compltly fine to cry. I think that maybe you may have an anger problem, or something more deep seated that you will want to see a therapist about. If your open to it, it will help alot. I had the same problem, and my parents accualy forced me into therapy, and i hated it! I wanted to kill her, but i ended up trusting her more and more everytime i went and it really helped.
2006-11-23 11:22:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i kind of have the same problem.. im really emotional and cry alot when ever i think about my future or like something sad ill start to cry or if someone makes me rlly pissed off... my mom just says its my hormones and it will pass over .. when ur in the moment try to breth in and out and close ur eyes and just take deep breths and try not to think about it... i hope this helps ... ur probably just sensitive and your hormones r prolly just all over the place right now
2006-11-23 12:58:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just cry alone. Crying is healthy but annoying in public and embarrassing as well for guys.
2006-11-23 11:21:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
don't worry about it you sound young and that happens to some people when they are young and they get mad. it goes away and it'll be fine. if someone says something to you just kick them in the face and tell them they just got their ace kicked by someone who's crying. don't let it bother you it'll go away soon enough
2006-11-23 11:23:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
this is probably your systems way of relieving tention. some people seem to get headaches.it will probably go away as you get alittle older.
2006-11-23 11:37:52 · answer #9 · answered by telecaster 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
mabi u should invest in a punching bad.and every time you get mad.go out and smash it
2006-11-23 11:22:17 · answer #10 · answered by sunshine 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋