My fiance hits me when I get him angry and then tells me it wouldn't have happened if I didn't get him angry. Is it really my fault for getting him angry in the first place.
2006-11-22 23:55:13 · 11 answers · asked by golden tigress 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i dont think its your fault, but you might contribute to it.He might have gotten angry at somthing else, you never know
2006-11-22 23:58:15 · answer #1 · answered by <3 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
On the average it is not your fault, it is away for your fiance to control you and make you feel bad when he wants you to feel bad, and at times he will want you to feel good and he will be nice to you no matter what you do because he will have something to gain in the deal. I am not the one to say if he is good or bad but please let him know how it hurts and see if he cares enough not to hurt your feelings anymore. He should not hit you for any reason anyway then passing of the blame to you. I hope you and your fiance resolve this problem before you get married it could turn out to be a big problem in the future. Be careful and think for yourself dont let him get in your head and fill it full or garbage about it being your fault. Take Care Darlene
2006-11-23 08:12:44 · answer #2 · answered by Darlene E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hits you for any reason get out of the relationship now. It doesn't matter what makes him angry. Don't marry a man that will beat you to have his way. There are too many good men out there and you shouldn't be treated like that.
Please think about it seriously! If he is hitting you now it will continue and that kind of behavior is what your children will see and likely fall victim to also.
If you doubt me, visit a battered womens shelter. The women will tell you their stories and you'll hear for yourself how it begins.
2006-11-23 08:13:37 · answer #3 · answered by allannela 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hitting is always wrong unless your all just playing about, but it should have been something to make him really angry to do that.
2006-11-23 08:03:43 · answer #4 · answered by Aaron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you say he hits you? Get out of this relationship as fast as possible before he really hurts you. No one has the right to hit you, no matter what you've said or done.
2006-11-23 09:40:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ms; a real man would NEVER hiy a woman no matter what. Unless you are ready to be hit whenever he feels like it then get out. Don't you deserve better ? Wake up. It is only going to get worse.
Leave NOW.
2006-11-23 08:00:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mature REAL men control themselves and don't put their hands on Women or ANYONE for any reason! Only fault u have is ALLOWING him and stayin around for it! Woman up and leave b4 it gets worse PLEASE my sis was in an abusive relationship as urs and he said the same ****... he attempted to kill her and threatened her life and to make my niece a oprhan! GET OUT NOW!!!
2006-11-23 08:02:00 · answer #7 · answered by ~Niecee~ âË» âË» ♂ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE and tell the POLICE it is against the law to hit women as it is called DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
2006-11-23 11:58:50 · answer #8 · answered by dan k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be careful, not to make him angry, it is due to annoyance he has to hit u. just do things that pleases and he not even dream to do that to u
2006-11-23 08:00:00 · answer #9 · answered by Jecs O 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well ye if he cnt cntrol hmself, but its also wrong to hit u, agn he shud be able to cntrol his temper!
2006-11-23 07:59:13 · answer #10 · answered by monaUK 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋