I'm usually nice to her,and always compliment her, Just because i'm older,and i do mean it.But she hardly say Hi when i arrive, NEVER smile,she always looks mad at me.Like if i have done something,she's 14,and have a stupid attitide.Even if i compliment her, she gives me a stern look and say thank u.I told her once, and a nice way, u are so pretty u shoild smile often.Only once, she smile and gave me a hug, when she was asking for a coin.I didn't give her ! I don't want to see her,today! When i was little i was polite, to my uncles,and aunts.What do u advice ?????????????
2006-11-23 02:00:55 · 9 answers · asked by dersexy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you are the older, then you need to set an example and be sweet and polite. At worst, just avoid talking to her.
2006-11-23 02:04:34 · answer #1 · answered by snvffy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know what u mean my neice was 14 now 16.She loved being around me,till she had no respect for me & i put her in her place.
What u need to do is to ask her if she anything on her mind if she needs to talk about something that is bothering her, if u can help her with? Then tell her u can try & help the best u can.Spend more time with her take her places. Ask her if she would like to come over to ur place & spend time w/ her show her what a good aunt u are.i know i went thru all of this now my neice is so close to me its not fun.When she has a problem she should go to u if she has no one else.From what it sounds like to me she needs u if u dont do something she will push u out completely.Here is my email.nita7amber7kim7mike7@yahoo.comwe can chat look me up i can help u thru this okay,i am online now Thursday,pop in now.I dont know how long i will be on.
2006-11-23 12:06:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she doesn't like being complimented. Like, she could be a tomgirl that just hates being called "pretty." I've got friends like this, so I'm not making this up. How old are you? Anyway, today, try hanging out with the adults and just ignoring her. I'm only about a year older than her and I've never acted like that to anyone unless they act like that to me first. (but you haven't been, at least according to you) So, just say "hi" once and smile, then walk away and don't let her ruin your holiday. Happy Thanksgiving!
2006-11-23 10:06:59 · answer #3 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is going through puberty, so don't judge her. I was like that when I was around that age. My aunt and uncle would come visit and I would manage to utter a hello, but I would never say bye and somehow escape. I had a reason, though..... it was because they were disrespectful towards my Mom at times. I was very protective of my Mom..... and thought that I didn't have to pretend liking them as she did. My Dad used to say that my smile was very expensive, because I generally didn't smile much around that age.
My advice to you is: just back off-... stop complimenting her and be nice to the people she loves.
She will mature and wonder about herself one day.
It's just the way she is.... in fact, if she is anything like me.... she will show her true feelings towards people in her action way pass that age. I still am only friendly to people whom I truly love and appreciate. I hate people who kiss a_s to this day- for example.
2006-11-23 10:39:08 · answer #4 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are dealing with a 14-year old. As a rule, teenage girls are chock full of issues. It could be that she's just going through some stuff. Try asking her out for an 'aunt-niece day'. She might enjoy it and start being nicer to you.
2006-11-23 10:05:50 · answer #5 · answered by foxiee_chic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh well since your neice is a teen maybe she needs an attitude adjustment.. like talk to her mother. or if your not over 30 talk to your own mom.. maybe you should buy her jut a simple gift and tell her if you be good this week ill give you a bag of candy or something
2006-11-23 10:48:55 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♪Jenni♥♪ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her alone... im 14 to and can see both of your points. just ignore her, either that or be just as mean back to her, if she is being a b i t c h give it right back girl!
have a good thanksgiving : )
2006-11-23 10:06:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant do any thing. Her parents have to tell her that she is being impolite. Ignore her. She will bother you less.
2006-11-23 10:06:07 · answer #8 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't talk to her kids are brats at that age especially girls wait until she is 16 just be glad you are not her mother!
2006-11-23 10:05:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋