Family - October 2006

We had a falling thru after my junior year of high school...i was causing trouble and didn't want to face the consequences; so, i moved two states away and lived with my dad. (parents divorced) I graduated high school there and met a guy (cody). Mom and I started talking again, cody and i took a trip back to mom's and visited. mom offered to pay for college if i moved back to town. cody & i got engaged. i moved back to mom's. cody moved a couple months later, i moved out of mom's again and into apartment w/ cody. cody's dad was very sick, we wanted to be w/ his parents during thanksgiving. mom thru a fit and quit talking to me again. moved back to IN w/ cody. mom started talking again. cody & i bought a house. cody & i got married. mom refused to come to wedding, so had it without her: her parents and brother came. mom stopped talking. mom started talking. cody's dad died. wanted to spend thanksgiving w/ mom but stay half the week w/ gma. mom thru a fit, quit talking.

2006-10-26 19:52:27 · 9 answers · asked by vickygrrl05 1

my husband died and i'm woundering which sight to go to read helpful things. an how to keep his memory alive within my daughter an unborn child and myself any ideas

2006-10-26 19:37:11 · 1 answers · asked by goo-goo girl 1

He walked out on my mother and brother and I when I was 12. I watched him walk away. He would maintain a relationship with my brother but not with me. He invites my brother for xmas and holidays, not me. He was supposed to look after me for 2 weeks when my mum was out of the country and I was 15, he dropped me off home alone after 2 days. I used to go out of my way to try and maintain contact with him but it became obvious he wanted nothing to do with me so the last 12 years have come and gone without him in my life at all. I am leaving in a few months, moving abraod, eloping, and I won;t be back. Should I contact him before i go? I am sure he will hear about it from my brother and I am sick of always being the bigger person when it comes to him.

2006-10-26 19:28:39 · 12 answers · asked by BlondeBarbie 4

That you feel like the world is on your sholders and if one more thing happens think it might be that straw that breaks the camals back i feel so lost and hurt these last couple days. He doen't realize how much i do for him. And he doen't see that i am bothered buy the things he does and doesn't do latly i have been left out and forgotten is the way i feel, we don't do things together cause when he gets home all he wants to do is play his games buy the time he is finished, i have already put baby to sleep and im in bed myself. how do i go about telling him that i want time for our family with out upsetting him? how do i tell him that family is a bout being together and everything else is extra?

2006-10-26 19:10:52 · 9 answers · asked by Shortie 4

Her father died when she was a baby and her mother and I married two years ago. She considers me to be her Dad but would love it if she could be more than a step-daughter.

2006-10-26 19:04:35 · 8 answers · asked by anikintyme 1

Tell me if this is crazy. I think women can sometimes read minds, especially men's. It's not like read read, but she can sense his motives and feelings. Is this true?

I live in a family full of females and lying was not all that easy, so I've developed a skill to totally blank out my mind whenever women try to sense my motives. Whey they try to feel and sense if I am true or not, they can't read out anything because my mind is at a total blank.

It's wired but that's my thoughts. Also, do women have the gift of seeing through peoples motives? I think it's call a woman's intuitions. Please share your insights.

2006-10-26 18:49:33 · 11 answers · asked by Inquisit 2

2006-10-26 18:47:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am trying to find my true self and live a Christian lifestyle. My problem is letting go of anger. I was abused growing up and had a father who's only way of communicating was yelling, throwing something across the room, hitting, punching, and calling myself, my sister, and I horrible names. My parents divorced three years ago and since then my Mom has become very ill mentally. She has always struggled, throughout my childhood, with bipolar disorder, neediness, and obsessive compulsive disorder; however, when she tried living alone, after my Dad left it just didn't work out so human services removed her from her home into a group home two years ago. I have so much anger and hate in me and blame my Dad for what my Mother has been going through; however, to truly live a Christian lifestyle I must forgive my Dad and move on. How can I do this? I have lifted up the phone several times to call him, but I can't bring myself to do it.

2006-10-26 18:39:42 · 9 answers · asked by Mom of One in Wisconsin 6

my little brother just made 14 yrs old. On his last report card he got 4 Fs and 2 Bs. this is his first year in highschool. my father has been asking for my lil bro to come live with him for a while now along with his 3 other sons, but my mother was not willing to give him up. Now, she is thinking about sending himto ATL because she does not feel there is much more she can do for My lil bro. My little brother and i are extremely close. i am his only sister and moms say we act like we are married. I am afraid that i will be lonely, but i do want what is best for Dino. (if this is even what is best for him) if i know my bro, i think he will be the same down there as he is up here. he is more of a friendly person who gets along with everybody anywhere he goes. he is a very popular person and I think that is what is distracting him because he is not at all stupid. he is just not focused enoughh. Like i said, him going to ATL will not solve much or nothing... *groans* what do you think?

2006-10-26 18:32:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

my daughter's dad has never been around and is in and out of prison - mostly in. his mom and family call ocassionally and send gifts,etc. but we're not super close and i flat out don't trust some people in the family - now that we've moved closer they want more to do w/ my daughter and i'm not sure what to do - i would never put my daughter in a bad position - i just don't know what to say to them. i have no problem taking her to see them but i don't want to leave her and they want her to stay weekends, etc. i need advice!

2006-10-26 18:28:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Suicide during your 20's or a lifetime of isolation...no spouse, no kids, no career?

2006-10-26 18:18:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi Im Brad,my parents are soo annoying they treat me like a baby?Why do parents do that?Im not that young they need to ease up.

2006-10-26 17:56:11 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-26 17:37:07 · 8 answers · asked by oneonlysellers 1

This is going to be kinda of long and I will probably have to post additional details but please bare with me, I really need advice.

My eldest son's father has been contacting me recently and has got me worried. Part of my worry is that he's a wanted murderer. A week and a half after his son was born I found out that he had broke into one of his coworkers house and stabbed her to death, and then fled the country. Even worse they approximated that she died only 2 days after our son was born. They never found out why he did it, and obviously they never took him into custody. The reason for that was by the time they found him he was already back in his home country and his country refused to hand him over to the authorities. Now this is where my other worries come from. When he first started to call again it was just simple 5 minute calls asking how his son was. Now they are getting to the point where he is questioning me about things, some of which I haven't told him.

2006-10-26 17:22:09 · 18 answers · asked by Chelle's Belle 4

When a child's behavior disrupts class and deprives other students of the right to learn is the parent guilty of failing to properly teach the child respect for others?

What if parents were fined or sentenced to community service?

2006-10-26 17:14:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been on my job for almost 2 years. I have a great boss and just got a raise. One of the girls that I work with, well me and her had a falling out last year, on the job. After we had our falling out, she was a no show and no call at work. She was fired, but then rehired, and now she is at work every day. Anyway, we talk now and get along good enough at least to work together. Her and another girl that I work with were suppose to go out for a girls night out. They did not ask me to go, I was hurt and a little mad but could not let it show.I am a hard worker, and am not worried about loosing my job , it is just now, I feel out of place. I am kind of quite, and a moody person. I am just not sure what to do anymore, if I should just find another job, although that is not what I want to do, I love my job and have a great boss.

2006-10-26 17:09:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-26 17:03:43 · 5 answers · asked by Samantha 1

2006-10-26 16:53:23 · 6 answers · asked by L 2

my future mother in law and her sisters are always on my back about the things that i wear and are always saying that i'm "so skinny" that i should eat more. i weigh 122lbs. i think this is a fine weight but they always tell me im too skinny. also, they always tell me how horrible my clothes are and how little they are; however, i do not wear anything revealing. they think i am ridiculous because i pay good money for my clothes & they cannot stand them because they are, i guess you could say, "in fashion". I think they are ridiculous because what is it to them if i have my OWN money to spend on my clothing? It's not like I'm taking all of her son's money and using it ridiculously. I'm not sure how to approach this problem because I don't want to cause any problems but it is really bothering me and I am not sure I can take the criticism much longer. Any ideas of how to go about this?

2006-10-26 16:48:41 · 16 answers · asked by love. 1

My grandmother is sick, possibly dying, and my younger brother is in Iraq. Do I email him now and prepare him, or do I wait and not worry him until it happens? She has alsheimer's and she's in the hospital so it's not like he can call her and say goodbye. She doesn't remember anybody or anything, not even her own kids. I don't know what to do.

2006-10-26 16:37:36 · 8 answers · asked by Laura 3

We just moved to Kansas, my husband got transfered here. I don't know any body except the 2 girls I work with at the court house. My husband is out of town. We have already had 2 tornados touch down with in 10 miles of use. I am alone in a mobile home with no basement or garage. The sirens have gone off twice since I got home. What do I do? I already called the 2 motel/hotels in town they are full. I am stuck in this trailer with my 6 month old son. What can I do if another one gets close to us. We are under a Tornado watch for another 2 hours. Someone please help.

2006-10-26 16:29:00 · 19 answers · asked by andysmom706 1

ok im going to list all the mean things i've done an u tell me if im mean
i fixed the special olympics
i killed my cat (not on prepose)
desytored my friends realationship with his gf
and i could keep going on but it would take 4ever

2006-10-26 16:26:51 · 9 answers · asked by little eddie 1

Not that I don't have friends but I just want to know people and have buddies. Anyone interested can email.

sammiyahudah@yahoo.com

I'm 24 year old woman. We can be friends. You can email me first since I have given my email address.

2006-10-26 16:11:28 · 4 answers · asked by Mr Business 3

2006-10-26 15:42:38 · 28 answers · asked by carolianian85 2

ok so when me and my cousin (i'm a girl and he's a boy) were little, we used to play this one game and we had what was called the octopus chair, and i would sit on his lap, and he would squeeze me as tight as he could, with one arm around me, and the other on my mouth, like i was stuck in an octopus' grip. we were like 4, 5, 6, and 7 doing this. then we stopped. and one day, when i was around 11 or 12. maybe 13. i dunno. he was at my house and we were in my room, and he kept pushing to do the octopus grip again "for old time's sake". and he wouldn't stop bugging me. so i was just like ok whatever. so i sat in front of him and he had his arm wrapped around me, squeezing my stomach, and the other on my mouth. and then i dunno how but the next thing i know his hand had moved from my stomach to my chest lol. and he was still squeezin and breathing kinda heavy lol and he kept scooting me more towards him (wow this embarrassing lol). and i was feeling REALLY uncomfortable and finally

2006-10-26 15:34:36 · 18 answers · asked by lifeistough_period 1

Ok my parents are going threw their 2nd divorce with eachother i told this guy that is in love with me that i dont like him and now he thinks i played him my best friend is just not even caring about wut i am going threw and all i can say is i have no one to talk to sometimes.....i just wanna die

2006-10-26 15:34:36 · 23 answers · asked by I<3CSI:MIAMI 2

My father in law hates me and he turned my sister in law against me as well. That bothers me so much, that I need a pill to come down every time I think of him or hear of him. How do I get rid of that feeling that is poisoning my life?

2006-10-26 15:30:53 · 14 answers · asked by sheba 3

Leave their daughter and go on her birthday dinner with out her? They were too hungary to wait for her boyfriend to get off work so they left without her. On her own birthday!!!
Who does that????

2006-10-26 15:28:43 · 5 answers · asked by wonderful 2

she is a kind lady but a controll freak she is making my marriage diffcult i love my husband but all i want to do is move away from her any one have any advice on how i can live my life free oh ya ,my daughter is the only granchid

2006-10-26 15:16:50 · 13 answers · asked by gracttt 1

went age can you be to say you want to live with your mom instead of dad

2006-10-26 15:05:31 · 9 answers · asked by Danny 1