Could Life Be any worse??????

Question

Ok my parents are going threw their 2nd divorce with eachother i told this guy that is in love with me that i dont like him and now he thinks i played him my best friend is just not even caring about wut i am going threw and all i can say is i have no one to talk to sometimes.....i just wanna die

Answer 1

God never puts more on our shoulders than he knows we can handle it seems like alot sometimes but everything happens for a reason say your prayers but dont give up find someone to talk to that will listen to you and not turn you away when my son died last month i cant describe the hurt but i know that God needed him with him and it has helped tremendously to talk about it just please dont give up i will say a prayer for you look for one good thing that happens in your life each day even if its the fact that you woke up healthy today this will help you to start to heal and deal with life look for the simple things and treasure every good memory you have you wont regret it have a good weekend

Answer 2

Sugar Bean, life could be a lot better, but life could be a lot worse too. You cannot own your parent's stuff, if they divorced once and got back together it could happen again. There will be lots of guys. Your friend does not sound like much of a friend, but you do not know what might be going on in their life right now either, so you might want to cut them some slack. As for wanting to die....when you are thinking that way you should think about all the people who are dying of cancer and aids and other nasty diseases who would give anything for just one more day, so do not waste the time you do have wallowing....life is what you make it. Embrace the beauty and be thankful for the gift of life you have been given.

Answer 3

Life sucks sometimes and usually all the crappy stuff all happens at once. You'll get through it. Your parents divorce will happen no matter what and hopefully they are not giving you too much stress over it (and if they are, tell them!). Your boy problem... dont worry about that. That is the least of your problems right now. Your best freind really needs to know how you feel.. if you think she isnt being supportive enough, tell her. call her or write her a note or email or whatever.. just tell her that you feel like she doesnt care and its hurting your feelings. im sure she doesnt even realize shes coming off this way... if she really is a good friend she will understand what you need and will be there for you. But best advice i have is not to stress over this stuff. if you do your gonna talk about it all the time and drive people nutty over it. sure talk about it - but keep your mind occupied with good stuff too! you have to create a balance in your life.

Answer 4

Talk to a guidance counselor, take a deep breath. Sometimes friends have a hard time when their friends are going through something difficult, too. Apologize to the boy if you gave him the wrong idea, but tell him you really believe you just aren't the one for him, and you don't want to waste his time. Write in a diary, go ahead and cry into your pillow if you need to.
But life could definitely be worse, especially if you are feeling very depressed or even a little suicidal. TALK TO A GUIDANCE COUNSELOR!!! Just having someone to talk to will help you out, and they can help you deal with it.

Answer 5

Do you have a school counselor you can talk to? To answer your question, yes, things can always get worse. When I start feeling down or that life is unfair, I think about people who have it so much worse than me. I have a roof over my head and plenty to eat. I have family. I do not have a fatal disease. I am not in a war torn country. I am free. I think about my sister who was killed in a car wreck. thinking how she wouldn't mind being in my shoes right now. At least I am alive and able to raise my kids. So, hang in there and realize that things always pass and you learn something through every hardship.

Answer 6

Hey do something good for other people, but first have a ten minute and I mean minute selfpity party where you weep, scream and howl ;). Then you need to find someone that accept you as you are whenever you are and I know of only one Person like that and He will help you if you let him. You can't fix or even enjoy things if you are dead, so there is always tomorrow for us

Answer 7

Life can be tough. Be strong, your best friend probably doesn't know what to say when you talk to them. As far as the guy don't let it bother you. You are dealing with a divorce and just trying to let the world know your here. I' hear you and don't give up, things will right themselves in time.

Answer 8

When it rains, it pours, huh?
You're over sensitive because of what your parents are going through as well. What you need is to reach out to a lot of friends. Take the initiative to ask a friend to have lunch with you, go for a walk, etc. Often, when you do something nice for someone, you get the boost you need to deal with your own problems.

Good luck

Answer 9

You may think your life is terrible, and you want to know if it can get worse....hell ya it can.

You could find out you have terminal cancer, you could be the doctor having to tell someone they have terminal cancer.

You could have MS, you could be driving and have a child run out in front of your car....

There are a million more things worse than what you are going through. Be thankful for all the good things in your life and never...NEVER think you have it bad enough to give up.

Answer 10

Don't trip potatoe chip. I get hella stressed out too, sometimes maybe even feel like dying. But life is to precious. The only thing you can do is try to ignore the negative vibes in your life and keep busy.