Family - July 2006

Im tired of leaving at home and i want to get an apartment .Im 19 and have a job is it worth it moving out?

2006-07-01 19:51:46 · 14 answers · asked by Jonathan I 1

I do not get along with my mother in law because she is very nosy and like get into our private buisness, and more, she likes to tell everyone about anything that she finds out about my husband and I so i have no privacy.
It is really making me sick of her, I do not like visiting her, I do not like chatting with her but all the same I do not want to hurt my husband so i do not complain but all the same he notices that I am silent around her and comments on it.

2006-07-01 19:31:24 · 13 answers · asked by Gal in red 3

My Mother has Borderline Personality Disorder, has all of my life. It's not something I can explain very well, but the book "Stop Walking on Eggshells" is about dealing with a parent like that. All of my life my Mother was putting me down and telling me how bad I was. She would ignore me for hours and then come downstairs and drag me around by my hair or scream at me for no reason. I was suicidal at 5, and have been diagnosed twice with Major Depressive Disorder. I function pretty fine and am good at putting on a facade, but the way she is has effected me a lot. There have been many minor incidents where she hit me or screamed at me, and she's never thought I was good enough. There were two events worse than the rest. Both of them I ended up being taken away from her by children protective services. The first time she just kind of spazzed out and acted like a possessed person, she scared me half to death but didn't do any real physical damage, she just threatened to kill me and all...

2006-07-01 19:22:33 · 12 answers · asked by Skitz628 2

i mean i love my girl... but its like i never can get my point across and no matter what i say it doesnt matter...as long as she is happy.the sad thing is all i hear is she is right even when she is wrong but i am stubbourn and i refuse to jus say i am wrong when i am right.....this causes alot of problems, i mean its nuttin i cant handle but is this somethin i should jus deal with and get over..because it wont change....i am willing to do whateva

2006-07-01 19:17:24 · 10 answers · asked by Mike C. 1

2006-07-01 19:03:11 · 11 answers · asked by noname247 2

I have 2 daughters 2 months and 19 months and he is in prison for fraud and the trial will start in like 5 months..I can't find a job and I am kinda homeless..I am helpless

2006-07-01 18:53:50 · 20 answers · asked by meemo 2

(With the parent paying for the bill- just 10$ a month, to join the family plan and share minutes, with free mobile to mobile and unlimited nights and weekends).

2006-07-01 18:28:02 · 20 answers · asked by twingal01 4

Im 19 and all my life my dad has intimidated me and made me feel small. He doesnt let me do anything, i cant go to my friends houses i cant go shopping without my mum or dad and im seen even sitting in the same room as a guy let along speaking to one my dad quickly comes and sweeps me away. he wont let me get a job and he made me leave school early i had to finish the rest of my education by distance. Im so scared of him i cant talk to him, im too afraid to ask him if i want something because he will yell at me, i try to get courage but i cant find it. My mum is great and probably the only good thing in my life but he wont listen to her either, he is stubborn and set in his ways and hes ruining my life. The only way i can leave is to find a nice boyfriend, go steady and get married, until then i cant have a life, but i cant even do that because no one hardly knows who i am, im stuck and i dont know what to do

2006-07-01 18:21:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-01 18:16:39 · 12 answers · asked by Kristen Michelle 2

I FEEL IT IN MY HEART THAT HE DOES LOVE ME...I MEAN WHY WOULD HE HAVE HOMOSEXUALS IN THIS WORLD AND LATER DESTROY THEM ALL?? I THINK HE PUTS MORE OF A TEST TO US BECUASE HE REALLY WANTS US TO HAVE TRUE FAITH IN HIM EVENTHOUGH THERE IS MUCH HATE AGAINST US. THOUGH WHEN I THINK ABOUT HOMOSEXUALITY, I PICTURE TWO GUYS WITH EACH OTHER AND I THINK IS THAT REALLY NATURAL? THEN I THINK ABOUT MY FEELINGS WITH A MAN, I KNOW I AM GAY BECAUSE I WANT THIS URGE FOR A GUY AND FEEL HIS ARMS AND CHEST AGAINST ME...AND FOR A WOMAN, I DON'T GET AROUSED BY THEM EVENTHOUGH THEY ACT SEXUALLY INTERESTED IN ME...I FEEL I NEED TO BE OPEN WITH MY PARENTS BECAUSE IT WILL MAKE ME HAPPIER AND I FEEL GUILTY FOR HOLDING A SECRET FROM THEM SINCE I TELL MY MOM EVERYTHING. I DON'T WANT TO HURT HER, BUT I DON'T WANT TO KNOW THE CONSEQUENCES OF WHAT WILL HAPPEN IF I DID TELL HER...I KNOW GOD LOVES, BUT WILL MY MOM?

2006-07-01 18:14:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-01 18:02:18 · 3 answers · asked by steff m 3

My mother was invited to her Sister's son's wedding.My mom had to respond back June 18.The Wedding is July 8.She responded June 29 & told her sister that me & my mom & my dad were going.My mom's sister said "its too late your off the guest list & their isnt any room left & they all ready ordered the food."My mom's sister gave me a check for $50 for my graduation & now my mom wants to send the check back & write to her "I dont need your charity." My mom called nine days early & we're family so it shouldn't matter that we called a little late or not you can't say no to a family member.

2006-07-01 17:52:25 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I sometimes will really have to control myself when dealing with my kids.I will find myself wanting to punch them in the face,I have a 9 yr,5 yr and a 6 month old.I find the older I get the more they irritate me.I have never done it,But I worry I will lose my temper ,and I do'nt want to do that.I love my kids.Help me understand how to reduce my anger please.

2006-07-01 17:46:51 · 19 answers · asked by michaelmoss30054 4

hey well I need help finding a website on thank u poems or sorry poems for my mom you see its her birthday 4th of july and she has been threw a lot and I put her threw a lot within the years and i just wanna say sorry and thanks for always being there so please help me out

2006-07-01 17:39:48 · 5 answers · asked by mimi 1

I always question death when someone dies that is close to me. I just cannot understand if the person is here with us and in a split second their body is lifeless -- where did they go?

2006-07-01 17:35:57 · 31 answers · asked by Patches 5

I have worked for the past 20 years, non stop, (I'm 35),supporting my family, with the money I worked D@!*&^ hard for. Now the past 4 Months I decided to spend some time at home and go back to school. I have raised a doughter and a son (16&17), and have been there for every career change and move (we have moved about 15 times) that my husband wanted because he was unhappy with his job or his life or whatever the excuse was.
We have always had electricity, water, phone ....even if it was hard at times for me to pay for. They all have thir toys and gadgets and Motorcycles, Now then......Why is it my fault? Why do they act as if I have never done anything for them? There's no food in the house, the bills haven't been paid, but yet the money to do these things with is gone....my husband works, he gets paid, (way more than I ever have) but I guess thats HIS money,right? I Feel Bad....
but at the sme time THIS ANGERS ME!!!!!! AM I WRONG TO BE ANGRY? THEY SAID THEY WOULD HELP!

2006-07-01 17:18:34 · 17 answers · asked by ciw71 1

My parents have been hitting me for the past 2 months. They slap me, punch me, and sometimes beat me with a brush. My teachers ask me where I got the scrapes and bruises and I just say I fell off my bike. I don't want to tell anyone, because they're my parents. How do I stop their behavior without getting them put in jail?

2006-07-01 17:04:35 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently quit my job to work from home (which is more money!!!) but my family (in particular my sister) thinks this means that I a maid who is open to do things for them. In the last two months I have babysat, went grocery shopping, typed out college papers, paid bills, and numerous other mindless tasks. While I by no means mind helping them out, I feel that they are sticking me with too many things because I don't have to go and check in at a regular 9-5. I have said no to them but if I do "I am being bitchy and unreasonable" in their eyes. I am comptiplating moving to a different city 35 miles aay just to get away from them.

2006-07-01 16:50:29 · 19 answers · asked by ohiodiva 3

mean parents dont want to buy it i'm too young to work and no credit card for me to take from mothers purse...life sucks.

2006-07-01 16:50:13 · 12 answers · asked by Queen Omari G 1

2006-07-01 16:48:22 · 7 answers · asked by tinygirl_04000 1

She also peed her self once during the day, and i haven't spoken to her parents yet, should I? By the way she is 13 and she is really embarrassed about it so i haven't had a good dicussion with her about it, any convo starters but mainly what should i do?

2006-07-01 16:42:18 · 15 answers · asked by Joey G 2

2006-07-01 16:40:26 · 45 answers · asked by sam f 1

Before, when I hung out with her she would always say, "My (foster) sister told me____." "She said I should do this." "She said this store is the best one to shop." "She told me I shouldn't do this." Now that she has a boyfriend, it's "My bf said I shouldn't dye my hair." "My bf say I shouldn't spend my money on this but I should buy this instead." "My bf doesn't like me have posters of guy celebs on the wall." "My bf said..." You guys get the point. Everytime, she repeats what they say to her and what she should do and she always take thier advice. When I give her advice, she thinks its bs. When her sister give the same advice, it's brilliant and should be followed. I told her today she should think for herself and shes not her sister/bf. She admitted that she does that and cant think for herself.

2006-07-01 16:40:08 · 5 answers · asked by Trinity 1

nagging is such a small word but has a very vague meaning. It could be persistent, insisting, reminding, etc. I have been accused of being a nag when all I wanted is to get this over and done with. But he is being a jerk and not doing anything about it. So we can both go on with our lives. I am doing this because 1) my daughter is turning of age and I am running out of time 2) Financially, I have supported my daughter all her life and I think he should give his share 3) My daughter wanted to know him.

2006-07-01 16:38:55 · 5 answers · asked by Zail-Em 2

whats your favorite holiday?

2006-07-01 16:37:57 · 38 answers · asked by kates best friend! 1

i had an argument with my sister i think the internet is taring us apart cuz we never had internet before! and we never argued so much! i'm worried! should i be? or ami just being stupid!

2006-07-01 16:37:54 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 16 years old, an only child, a girl, and daddy's little girl at heart but i still want to date and have my dad be not so up tight about it. I am aloud to date guys but my dad is overprotective and i understand but, i was just wondering if anyone had any sujestions for me on how to make him more comfortable with the whole thing.

2006-07-01 16:32:18 · 10 answers · asked by portrower 1

NOT for birthdays or anything!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
They really need it!!!!!

2006-07-01 16:23:23 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband thinks that he is only inlaws with my brother, and not who he is married too. I always thought it was that your spouse is related to all members of your family, by marriage. Am I wrong?

2006-07-01 16:19:09 · 13 answers · asked by greeneyes_jorgensen 1

i know guys in there thritys who still have a room at moms and dads. too scared to leave home maybe?

2006-07-01 16:18:55 · 28 answers · asked by noname247 2