they say your woman is right even when she is wrong but is that really the case...should i jus get over it?

Question

i mean i love my girl... but its like i never can get my point across and no matter what i say it doesnt matter...as long as she is happy.the sad thing is all i hear is she is right even when she is wrong but i am stubbourn and i refuse to jus say i am wrong when i am right.....this causes alot of problems, i mean its nuttin i cant handle but is this somethin i should jus deal with and get over..because it wont change....i am willing to do whateva

Answer 1

Just tell her "okay, if you want to hear you're right and I'm wrong then I'll say it, however, that's not what I feel or believe." And leave it at that.

Answer 2

No dont get over it because it is not right. if you dont fix it its going to build up and when the time comes youre going to explode on her for all the times you backed down. If the two of you are adults then you should treat her like one...if shes spoiled then thats her problem how do you expect your relationship to work if there is no understanding or real communication. If you tell her she is right when shes wrong youre lying to her...did you know that. theres plenty of ways you can tell her wait until she calms down and patiently explain that you love her and you want your realtionship to work but you have needs which consist of expressing yourself and she needs to listen just as much as you listen to her. you have to learn when to back down and when not to. Dont let her punk you. No woman respects a man that cant put her in her place when she needs to. It will change you have to explain it to her and if you dont then things will just get worse

Good luck....update me

Answer 3

When everybody saying she is right that means she is right, people dont take somebody's side just like that. You yourself said you are stubborn that's why even if you are wron wont admit. If YOU cannot compromise why go with the relationship. I think you should leave tht poor girl for the sake of her.

Answer 4

Awww.... Women are not always right...
I actually am probably one of those women who can admit that she is wrong....
That's great that you love her and try to make her happy by agreeing with her, but if she is wrong then you have to speak up... When my guy and I disagree I will look up whatever it is and either prove him wrong (or right)... That way the argument that could have happened never does.
Don't loose your backbone because you want to please her.... Stick up for what you believe in and she will love you for that even more!

Answer 5

we all have opinions - and many differ - not a thing wrong with it. You can agree that she is right to herself but your opinion is different and to you it is right. when she says she is right say yes dear but here on planet earth then just smile.
if you really want to leave her stunned wait until she is finished giving her opinion and say oh well but you know ----oh never mind.

anyway it is ok to have different ways of looking at things just try not to take it too personal.

Answer 6

someone is right and someone is wrong just like there are winners and losers. question is are you ready to give in when the important questions come up like kids, marriage, its one thing to give in for the beter good. but are you willing to give in on things that really matter to you. if so stay if not bail.

Answer 7

You only have 2 choices, either get over it ,or get out of it.When it comes to a woman who always thinks she's right , you can't get anything into her head with a hammer.

Answer 8

After 25 yrs of this stuff I left

Answer 9

yeah

Answer 10

you two seem well matched for stubbornness.