Do You Really Think God Doesn't like Gays?

Question

I FEEL IT IN MY HEART THAT HE DOES LOVE ME...I MEAN WHY WOULD HE HAVE HOMOSEXUALS IN THIS WORLD AND LATER DESTROY THEM ALL?? I THINK HE PUTS MORE OF A TEST TO US BECUASE HE REALLY WANTS US TO HAVE TRUE FAITH IN HIM EVENTHOUGH THERE IS MUCH HATE AGAINST US. THOUGH WHEN I THINK ABOUT HOMOSEXUALITY, I PICTURE TWO GUYS WITH EACH OTHER AND I THINK IS THAT REALLY NATURAL? THEN I THINK ABOUT MY FEELINGS WITH A MAN, I KNOW I AM GAY BECAUSE I WANT THIS URGE FOR A GUY AND FEEL HIS ARMS AND CHEST AGAINST ME...AND FOR A WOMAN, I DON'T GET AROUSED BY THEM EVENTHOUGH THEY ACT SEXUALLY INTERESTED IN ME...I FEEL I NEED TO BE OPEN WITH MY PARENTS BECAUSE IT WILL MAKE ME HAPPIER AND I FEEL GUILTY FOR HOLDING A SECRET FROM THEM SINCE I TELL MY MOM EVERYTHING. I DON'T WANT TO HURT HER, BUT I DON'T WANT TO KNOW THE CONSEQUENCES OF WHAT WILL HAPPEN IF I DID TELL HER...I KNOW GOD LOVES, BUT WILL MY MOM?

Answer 1

Listen...
People say that God hates gays because they have a natural fear themselves...no one really knows what God wants
All I know is, if homosexuality is something that exists among his children in his world...why would he hate it? I mean, to me all homosexuality is is love between two people...honestly I don't even see what the big deal is, even though I am straight.
All I know is you would feel better if you told your mom...my best friend back in the 10th grade came out about it first when he told me...and because I supported him it gave him courage to come out in front of everyone. Your mom loves you, I'm sure she will gladly accept who you are and think nothing of it.

Answer 2

No, God loves Gays but he does not love their lifestyle. He made man and woman to have a pure, natural relationship, one that is full of blessings and where they are able to have children. He also made rules or commandments that are meant to protect humans from hardships and pain. When we break these commands or laws we experience pain. For example rape or sexual abuse, that is not natural. It causes pain emotionally and physically, sometimes so severe that a person really does know what is natural and what is not. Another example is divorce, God meant for men and women to be together forever and raise a family together. When men and women divorce pain and conflict come from the divorce. Such as children having to grow up without a father figure and as a result do not understand the natural relationship between a man and a woman. They lose the experience of having a loving caring father and having the blessing of feeling his arms around you in fatherly love. As a result his children have no concept of what is natural and what is pure. Instead they long for that father figure and it sometimes results in Homosexuality. Or a father that is married but does not loves his children may have the same effects. Homosexuality is not natural. It may seem right because of past events in your life that have made you think it is natural. When you break the laws that were meant to protect you then you do things like have to tell your mom and then have to deal with the consequences afterward. Friend, do you honestly know a homosexual that is truely happy and do not have front up? Please rethink this monumental decision because you happiness is at stake. Do not do something you will regret.

Answer 3

I agree with you, God does not hate homosexuals. I know what people will say about the bible and what it says but you put the definitive word there. Why would he put homosexuals in the world if he hated them. Do not tell me it is a choice because think of it why would anyone choose something that causes someone else to hate them and discriminate agents them. Yes some parents don't understand but if your mom and you are close she may have an idea already.

Answer 4

Hi,I feel for you...It must be very difficult situation for you.But you were referring to GOD and what he had thought,I cant tell you what he is thinking but I can direct you where you can read it for you self in the bible if you wish?God does love you no matter what you have done,As for your mother she also loves you.There is a special bond between mother and son like no other.Talk to her about your feelings in private.Im sure she will be shocked at frist .But she will come around in understanding of your heart!You sound like a great guy with an assume hart very caring .(Dont let others bring you down!You know deep down in your hart what to do about it,but that is easyer said then done) But God gave us the bible for under standing and direction in life,so here are some references for you on the subject(Remeber God does love you very much hes got you'r hand all the way through this ..(Sodom's angelic visitors,Genesis 19:5) ,(Forbidden relation ship Leviticus 18:22-23 ; 20:13),(Male prostitutes Deuteronomy 23:17),(Example of homosexual conduct Judges 19:22-24),(Approved masculine love 1st Samuel 18:1-4; 20:17-41); (2nd samuel 1:26;19:1-6);Eradication of deviates 1st Kings 15:12(see 14:24 also);(Male prostitutes enshrined Job 36:14);(Boy prostitutes Joel 3:3);(Unnatural passion and desire Romans 1:24-27);(Homosexual activity condemned 1st Corinthians 6:9-10);Sexual perversion 1st Timothy 1:10 see ab);Mother of perversion Revelation 17:5( GNB)

Answer 5

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Answer 6

God loves you!!!

HE loves everyone. Even if you believe that homosexuality is a sin, it doesn't matter. God sent Jesus to die for ALL of our sins. Everyone on earth has sinned. Every sin is equal to every other sin. A little kid lying to his teacher about his homework has sinned just the same as a murderer.

As for your mother, I don't know her, but I think that it would be impossible for her to stop loving you. It might take her awhile to adjust to the idea, but I don't think that she would want to lose you.

I know that when my best guy friend told me that he was gay, I cried the whole time that we were on the phone. But our relationship was never effected by it. It has been over 11 years since that day, but I love him just the same as I always have.

Also, in my life, my mother has been more hurt by my hiding my problems from her than whatever the issues actually did.

Answer 7

This is going to be a little harder for me to answer than I originally though, mostly because I'm not a believer in God and you sound like you are.

For the sake of this question, I will utilize my knowledge of the Bible (which may be limited compared to a few people out there) and my knowledge of other christian based beliefs so that I can help to put myself into your shoes.

If you are a true believer in God, then you understand that there is an old testament version of God and then a new testament version that includes Jesus as well.

The old testament version was very fire and brimstone, lots of deaths and behaviour that was sort of scary. The old testament version of God was one where it was basically his way or the highway and there was no other possible way unless it was as literally stated.

Then came Jesus, and in a nutshell, he appeared to have mellowed the big guy a little, causing him to create a softer kinder version of himself for his followers. Lots of love was mentioned and tolerance for others.

That's the version that you are going to want to go with for your point of view, as the new mellower version of God would accept you for who you are, as God loves everyone.

For those that want to throw the bible at you and state that it says that you cannot be gay, you can look at it closely and see that in the bible, there were things such as incest, animal sacrifice, killing, maiming, revenge, lust, and even hate.

People who quote the bible specifically, with the goal of showing that what you are doing is wrong, do not look any further typically than that one quote. They ignore all of the other parts of the bible, both happy and not so happy.

I don't know your mom, or your family, so I have no idea on how they will take it if you opt to announce to them your true feelings. I agree with you that secrets, especially big ones like this, are best left said. People should know what your feelings are, what you like, what you don't like, your loves and your hates, your desires and your fears.

I know that this is cliche, and it's easy for me to say as I'm hear and I don't have to go through what you are going through right now, but if your family truly loves you, then they will accept you for who and what you are, no matter what.

I wish you the best of luck with your decision and with the outcome.

Love as always,

Sebastian

As a side note, if you ever need to talk about it, or if you have questions outside of this on this subject, please feel free to ask, I will be happy to help as best possible.

Answer 8

God may not like your sin, but He does love you. As far as your parents go, I would pray about it before you talked to them. Ask for the guidance as to what to say to them so that they can better understand, without judgement.

Understand, though, if they have no clue, this will come as a huge shock to them. They may be angry at first or hurt at first or confused....whatever they may be... allow them time to react. Give them time to soak up what you told them. You have known about yourself longer than they will have and you are still struggling with it.... dont expect them to understand right away, either.

Just keep praying about it and God will take the rest into His hands.

Answer 9

She should. If my son whos currently two, told me he was gay when he grows up, I'd still love and accept him and I dont see why any parent would do otherwise! If she gives you problems, try to understand from her point of view and give her time. In the end if she still does not accept, then know that SHES the problem, NOT you. You can not help who you are! And regardless of your sexual orientation, she should always see you as HER CHILD.
Tell her
best wishes!

Answer 10

it doesn't matter what your mom thinks about god and gay people. Everyone has their own relationship with god. If your mom has a problem with your homosexuality, that's something you and she are going to have to deal with together. Your relationship with god is your own. Only your own feelings matter.