Family & Relationships - 27 December 2007

so me and my bf were having this debate last nite, i say men cheat because of the physical, because they arent getting what they want physically from their gf or they just want more of what they already have, and i say that women cheat because we arent getting something emotionally from a bf (and sometimes physically), he disagrees saying that men cheat because of the same reason women cheat. so my question is: why do you guys and gals think men and women cheat?

2007-12-27 03:23:01 · 15 answers · asked by Melle Mel 1 in Singles & Dating

True on false? And why... What are your thoughts on that?

2007-12-27 03:21:30 · 57 answers · asked by YinxSphinxmen 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-27 03:19:27 · 15 answers · asked by ryugeneral 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-27 03:17:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I’ve liked girl A since elementary school (we're 18 now). About 2 weeks ago we were talking on the phone bout girl B I currently also liked (I didn't tell girl A I liked her) and I said that I can’t be mean to girl B since I’m teasing her (girl A). Then girl A said "well u can’t like me then since u tease me, right? I didn’t want to tell her so I said "ya, sure". I didn’t really think much bout it until yesterday night when we were talking on msn when I was saying a bunch of stories bout us in elementary and she didn’t remember so she said "well u remember since u liked me right?" I said "no, where did u get that from and then I said "I thought u like me" and told her another story. She then didn’t answer for 5 or 6 minutes and when she did she 'accused' me of liking her again. I just answered "lol" and she responded why I didn’t tell her that b4 and didn’t answer for 10 minutes. I changed the subject and then logged off. Does she know and why does she keep on asking? I want to deny it at least until we're face to face. well we haven’t seen each other in years. 6 years to be exact. In between those 6 years saw her twice (once on the bus, another time when she was walking past my house).got into contact with her last year in August.

2007-12-27 03:16:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my boyfriend for 9 months. Things have gotten serious in the past few months and we are starting to integrate our lives together. I am a regional manager for a construction supply company. My career is such a big part of my life so my boyfriend has been anxious to see where I work. He plans to visit one of the retail locations that I manage today for a grand tour and then will take me to lunch.

When he gets here should I introduce him to my staff or should I just walk around with him as if he is a client? If I do formally introduce him to my coworkers should I introduce him as my friend or boyfriend?

Because I’m in a management role, I keep my personal life out of the workplace as much as possible. I’ve never even mentioned that I have a boyfriend and it will be big news that my staff will whisper about for weeks. I’m uncomfortable mixing the two but I’m happy to do this because it is so important to my boyfriend.

2007-12-27 03:10:39 · 18 answers · asked by Red 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-27 03:09:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know this guy sort of in a way because he goes to school 9.5 miles from me and we talked on facebook and he asked me out we never met in real life but he knows what i look like and i know what he looks like and he is already saying "i love you'' does this sound like a bad idea or will it work out?

2007-12-27 03:08:08 · 16 answers · asked by Megan L. Rinehart 2 in Singles & Dating

i really have no friends. one and i see her like every 4-6 months. can my mom be my maid of honor? but i know she'll be cryin and all upset and i dont really want her to be up there because of that. can cousins be brides maids? i dont know what to do...ahhhhh

2007-12-27 03:07:23 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

God, I hope so. lol.

What do you think? Is this possible, or is this an oxymoron?

2007-12-27 03:07:14 · 9 answers · asked by Indi 4 in Singles & Dating

I am newly divorced, and not looking for anything serious right now. I met a man who is also newly divorced and he just recently moved in with his girlfriend (which is rocky at times).
He wants a fling, and honestly I do too - I'm not looking for marriage or a lifetime committment. This can go 2 ways, we have a fling and end it - no harm no foul... or we have a fling and the girlfriend finds out - which means they weren't that strong to begin with. What do I do???

2007-12-27 03:07:06 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

...as a result of falling in love

Is it normal to hurt so bad?

Thanks for your answer =)

2007-12-27 03:05:18 · 5 answers · asked by Hornet One 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-27 03:04:33 · 18 answers · asked by marilyn m 1 in Weddings

I had a friend who has previously been married for about 5 years, and recently had gotten divorced. She came into my store asking me what she should do with the ring. I felt like she should have the diamonds reset into something new. She felt as if it represented a bad relationship and brought back bad memories. What is the right protocol on this one?

We recently asked this question on our blog and as always I like getting more opinions from the Yahoo community. View the full post here and post comments. http://www.kanemarie.com/blog/lifestyled/so_what_to_do_with_the_ring/

What is the right thing to do?

2007-12-27 03:03:13 · 83 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

rember looks change and fade but personalty is what makes us shine the question is what do you look for in a bf/gf personalty or looks

2007-12-27 03:02:59 · 28 answers · asked by irish_matt 7 in Singles & Dating

I got married to years back and when I met the gal before the marriage I told her and her parents that my income was very less and as such I was not in position to bear the expenses of two persons as such I wanted my wife to do some job, on which the girl and her parents told me that the was a graduate and had done many computer courses and was getting many jobs offers, I was also told that the gal was a very good cook and cooking was her hobby. Though I wanted to marry a post graduate gal, but I agreed as I thought if I refuse the proposal the gal will feel bad. But soon my marriage I came to know that my wife is not even 10th and she doesn’t know how to cook she and her mother are very quarrelsome and they always try to do all sorts of black magic on me and my family. When they did not succeed in all their so called black magic they fabricated a tape recording in which she tried to involve me in false rape case (Sex with my minor maid servant whom I treated as my daughter) Now day by day I getting poor as my wife is a spend thrift, and steals my money, and goes on telling people that I don’t give her money, but the truth is I spend more money on her then any body else. I have don’t have much income and my wife is not willing to earn even a single penny. I don’t want to divorce her as my daughter life will be ruined, as my wife doesn’t take much care of her. I want to know how to make wife loyal and hard working and stop her from quarreling with people. My in laws are considered to be the worst people in town. My wife was not a virgin before marriage though I was. Some times she says I have illicit relations with my client and some times with my sis in law. Im dying slowly. I have been duped

2007-12-27 03:00:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my live in boyfriend of 2 yrs resently went out with his best friend for his birhtday which I was fine with. I even offered to watch his friends daugher. When he returned later that night we made love then he went to lay downstairs instead of staying in bed. I thought maybe he was getting sick from drinking. I got ready for bed his cell phone rang and I answered it and was hung up on. I dialed the # back and it went to voice mail for a Julie. I then checked his phone and found 4 test messages from this Julie they had a flirtatious tone to them. when i questioned him he said that his friend was the one talking to the women not him and that he never saw the messages. My boyfriend hasn't offered to have is friend call me to confirm. My boyfriend hasn't done anything like this before if he was out and made a mistake should I forgive him. HELP

2007-12-27 02:57:50 · 4 answers · asked by frankie 1 in Singles & Dating

The most unusual resolution I ever heard was made by a 16 year old boy {when I was about 15}, friend of mine, sware that he wouldn't masterbate for the entire year. He kept getting caught by his mother, and she couldn't stop bringing it up during family get togethers.

2007-12-27 02:57:15 · 12 answers · asked by msnoonespecial 2 in Friends

Like, I really haven't a boyfriend in a serious realationship in some years. I'm usually the one who breaks up all my realationships once, I get into them because the guys I usually date are jerks and I have no fling for them; I actually don't know why I don't give them a chance. I'm 19 and I have no boyfriend; it sucks because everyone in my family thinks I'm a geek who doesn't have a life or a boyfriend. I'm a beautiful girl and I'm not really ready for a boyfriend; is what I really want to tell them. It makes me feel kinda bad to see some of my sisters with boyfriends and hubsands. It's like they don't want to see me with a boyfriend or something. I even get the gay label sometimes because I hang out with my best friend Brittany so much, but I'm not gay. I hate it when people asks me, " Chloe where's your boyfriend at?" It's like a joke to them, but it's a serious matter to me. I tell them, " Oh, I don't have one." Like, how do I ignore what people say like this?

2007-12-27 02:49:06 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiancé and I are paying for our wedding. However, the invitation will say we request the honor of your presence along with our parents. When my sister got married, my parents got the RSVP's. However, they also paid for the wedding. Because we are paying for it, and they are just an honorable mention, should we still get them?

2007-12-27 02:46:07 · 16 answers · asked by Wendy G 1 in Weddings

What do you do to put your marriage back together after something tore it apart. You have both forgiven each other and are trying to move forward, but how. Going to church has, and communication is already taking place, but there still seems to be something messing, what do you do?

2007-12-27 02:44:51 · 16 answers · asked by april j 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ive dated a few , met a bunch, but never fell in love....is it possible?

2007-12-27 02:44:11 · 33 answers · asked by King J 2 in Singles & Dating

No names, dates times, or places. Have you ever cheated on your spouse? If so, if you enjoyed yourself and what the person did for you and how they made you feel, what made you stop? Knowing that it was wrong to begin with and if found out you would lose your family, honestly what made you stop.

2007-12-27 02:41:45 · 33 answers · asked by april j 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well i have this boyfriend and well..i think he only likes me for my body...and when i confront him about it and asks him if thats true he gets all romantic and says stuff like "no i luv u 4 u ur everything i could ask for. how could u think that" I just dont no wat 2 do i feel like crying somebody please help me i just need 2 no wats true...

2007-12-27 02:39:09 · 25 answers · asked by Kaela. ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-27 02:38:57 · 24 answers · asked by Rainbowsssss 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have no idea what a Wedding Photographer costs. Can anyone give me a rough estimate? I live in Oklahoma if that helps.

2007-12-27 02:34:59 · 12 answers · asked by Due May 17, 2009! 2 in Weddings

This is giving me a major complex. It makes me feel very unattractive. My boyfriend says that is normal for men. Men out there, is this true?

2007-12-27 02:34:10 · 26 answers · asked by woman.in.red 2 in Singles & Dating

how do feel whhen ur around yyour crush,boyfriend?

2007-12-27 02:30:54 · 2 answers · asked by That's a secret 3 in Friends

I don't think I am fat I wear a 9 to a 10 so is that a good thing in your guys opinion would you ever date a girl that wore that size and if not guys just say no don't be rude thanks

2007-12-27 02:28:09 · 27 answers · asked by Mommy! 2 in Singles & Dating

We are getting married in May, my parents said its okay to ask for an HDTV on our registry, but I think that is too expensive. However, she stated people ask for China, and that is expensive. I already have my mothers’ china, so we will not have anything else that is outrageously expensive. We will be registering at Sears, as it is a common store. In light of the fact HDTV’s will be the only source of television come March of 2009, unless you want to buy a converter, which costs almost as much as a new TV. Is a new TV appropriate?

2007-12-27 02:28:03 · 25 answers · asked by Wendy G 1 in Weddings