Family & Relationships - 27 December 2007

I don't want to seem cold, but it's just not natural for me to talk so much syrup, and I feel a bit uncomfortable when they say I love you all the time and I don't say I love you too.
I you've ever been in this situation, what did you do? BTW, I don't doubt their sincerity, and they're not out to get anything, just SOOO dramatic and expressive.

2007-12-27 02:26:10 · 6 answers · asked by topink 6 in Friends

I've heard that there are serious health risks at stake. How can I stop her ? I don't want anything bad to happen.

2007-12-27 02:25:50 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Yesterday I walked in on my girlfriend cheating on me with some bloke. I wasn't too annoyed b/c I was kind of bored with the way things were going. Anyway, I walked right out her place and called up one of her co-workers, one of the Auditors actually who had been giving me a bit of attention for the past 3 months(although we hadn't done anything). We had a drink, talked a bit and shagged.

Can you believe that she's got the nerve to be upset with me now as if I had done something wrong or cheated on HER?! Where's the logic in that?!

2007-12-27 02:23:30 · 37 answers · asked by Ferker 1 in Singles & Dating

I was married for 7 years and have a child from the union. We had a court officer come to our house to officiate the marriage. Unfortunately I had to end it after years of emotional abuse. I could not be any happier now that I am mature enough to know I met my soulmate, even my son is really excited!! Now we are planning a summer wedding and my first religious marriage. I am looking at brides magazines and I see all those beautiful white gowns and ask myself if it would be in good taste to wear one or should I just pick another color?

2007-12-27 02:19:11 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Does this mean that she is into him or just checking out the country he lives in? I mean looking for 'free accomodation'? They kissed in the past...and flirted.. and they have stayed in contact?

2007-12-27 02:17:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She doesnt let us see her we love her dearly shes only 2 and we have a pending court date to enforce the visitation order (which she violates) he pays child support, and all we want is to drop off her xmas presents. Heres the thing she lives SUPER close so my husband simply went in the middle of the night and left them on the door step to be found in the morning, he didnt knock or ring the doorbell he just left them. The crazy b***h started texting him the next morning never to go by her house again other wise she would come to our house and act like a b***h. Can she really do anything? I usually mail her things at least once a month but it costs like $9.00 & thats just for a small box. Now we have more presents for her from the rest of the family and all we want is for her to recieve them without out us spending an arm and a leg.

2007-12-27 02:17:19 · 29 answers · asked by cluadia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if a guy goes for a girl who is a bit slutty,whoreish
and is easy, is it beacause they just want her to get things for a short term realtionship,

or do guys want that kinda girl for the future?

2007-12-27 02:16:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or is it just a story made up by smart women?

2007-12-27 02:15:06 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

No resolutions!!! I am going to try to be more patient.

2007-12-27 02:13:30 · 4 answers · asked by Lily 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my x husband sent me a court order agreement, for him to see his son for a month. My son is supposed to be back jan 4th..... but the x cant get him back til the 6th..... now reasoning cause he in military and has training on the 4th... well before he went on leave shouldnt he have knwn about this training? Plus i would like my son back on the 4th cause he has school on the7th and has not done xmas with my fiance and I...(also my fiance leaves thee 7th for training as well) i wnated some rest time in bet changes from one home to another and school........I dont have the cash for a lawyer.... do i have to agree to have my son back on the 6th? and can i still keep my orignial agreement for the 4th?

2007-12-27 02:13:23 · 8 answers · asked by prettiekittie1983 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I know there aren't nearly as many men who answer questions in the wedding section, but:

1.Guys did/will you purpose on a holiday? Or did/will you do it on a special occasions? Or on just any old day?

2.Girls were you purposed to on a holiday or special occasion? Would you prefer one over the other? Or would you like a regular day to be all your own?

This questions is assuming that you have found that special someone and will in the end marry him/her or have already done so. I just want to know if you had the choice what would it be without telling me that love and the right person are all that matter. (I don't care how my man will officially ask, but if I got to choose I would want it to be on any old day to make that day special for the two of us and not feel like it is cliche'. I would also like it to be an idea all his own and not a romantic seen that someone else thought up)

2007-12-27 02:12:16 · 11 answers · asked by Sunshine 4 in Weddings

are kinda slutty...wear waaayyy tooo much makeup...totally out there....when in reality they prefer something a little more decent???


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2007-12-27 02:11:56 · 32 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I was at a party last night.... me and my friend was havin' a discussion about relationships. I went over to these girls to get a female opinion about what they think is the biggest problems in relationship today. I even said that I don't wanna be too long because I really have to get back to where I am. You could SEE that they were just trying to ignore... I turned to the other one, I was like "what about you, what do you think?" Her response was "can you please leave me alone?" I mean.................. what more do you girls want?? I wasn't even coming on to her. Just a simple opinion, and there were attitude problems.

2007-12-27 02:10:53 · 2 answers · asked by Ryder 1 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine, he's sexually attracted, I always wanted more than sex, so we remained friends for 10+ yrs. He'd touch & feel my a*ss at times, I never liked that but never confronted him bcz I was afraid he'd get mad & we'd argue. A couple of wks ago I saw him. He hugged me, grabbed/felt my a*ss with both hands. I HATED it. I didnt say nothing bcz I fear an argument. But it bothered me so much that last night I called & tried to talk to him about it. I didnt yell, didnt get nasty, I wasnt belligerent, I was TALKING to him. I told him I felt violated & disrespected when he feels on my a*ss. His response was short, with attitude. He said, "You read too deep into things" & "Trust me it'll never happen again" & he hung up on me. I was still talking. That hurt my feelings. From there we argued FOR A LONG TIME & it got NASTY & I'm the bad guy. See? This is why I hesitated to confront him. Shouldnt he had've responded with more respect & talked to me instead of hanging up on me???

2007-12-27 02:09:47 · 12 answers · asked by Lala 1 in Singles & Dating

i just turned 21 and i still have never been in a relationship with a guy. ive been told im a cute, smart and fun girl to be around but no one seems to want to be more than friends with me. i go out a lot with my friends and i occasionally meet some new people, but like i said it never really gets past friendship status. when i do find a guy i like who likes me back, he usually doesnt want to do anything more than hook up or fool around or whatever and thats just not what im looking for. i just need some advice to where i could be going wrong.. people just keep telling me to wait but im getting pretty impatient and i want to do something about it. why cant i find someone who wants to be in a relationship?

2007-12-27 02:07:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to start out fresh in a relationship since I don't have much experience in this area or life. Out of curiosity I had met up with 10 girls that were my age. I noticed that 9 of them had kids, 7 of them had been married before and 6 of them were bad drug addicts. I'm not saying young single mothers are bad so don't get yourself upset over nothing. What I'm saying is that I've not had much experience with dating. I've only been with a few girls that didn't last long, just wanted to piss someone else off by sleeping with you and didn't want to talk to you when it was over. That's all well and great when your young but when you get older, look for something more and want to start out with someone that with the same experience it seems impossible. I thought I was just attracting the wrong type of girl but now I see the alternative doesn't seem to exist.

2007-12-27 02:05:46 · 8 answers · asked by Hilow H 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 19 y/o guy and in my second semester of college and never kissed or touched a girl at all. I think girls are really attractive just always to shy and no girl ever interested in me. I like many things but the one thing I have done most my life is box. I am damn good at it too when I was about 15 started sparring guys most were 40 pounds + over my weight and in there 20s. Boxing has been natural for me unlike girls. So I will probably go pro. haha so I guess I got off topic just how much I like boxing. ALright so I think its time I just gave up hope on ever finding a girl. I have never even been able to talk to girls much. I dont know I guess I was just meant to be alone. I dont know there is just a part of me that is always thinking about girls and some day getting married. I am slowly getting rid of that feeling though. NO girl has ever been interested and I think its time to just forget aboutit and move on. What do you think?????

2007-12-27 02:05:31 · 11 answers · asked by I like to drink 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met this one girl at a club. She told me she's 22 and she looks so youthful she probably could've passed for that age. However, she made the mistake of giving me her email address, which allowed me to collect a fairly comprehensive dossier on her and it turns out she's really in her 30's. What gives?

2007-12-27 02:00:59 · 36 answers · asked by scandal917 2 in Singles & Dating

Hello friends, for New years eve, i want to go out and have a good time. party and stuff. In the mean time my husband says he wants to stay home and hang out with his mother & stepfather. I dont want to stay home, ecspecially with them. I am 22 and he is 26. I think we should go have a good time together. I think is mother is bossy and crazy. If she doesnt get her way she gets all bitchy. I dont want to ring in the New Year like that. Now he is mad at me. He said its our last new year in FL, and i think we should spend it with them, well if its out last new years in south Fl, then we should be on south beach partying! lol. Am i being selfish??? please dont be rude! only honest answers

2007-12-27 02:00:43 · 22 answers · asked by kittenthemagician 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we have a six year old daughter together and she resents him right now and is yet to meet him. he has been absent from her life for the las three years. he is now married and has two kids and a wife. everytime we talk we argue. sometimes right in front of our daughter. i want to file for full custody of her. do you think i should?

2007-12-27 01:56:10 · 9 answers · asked by Hmmmmmm 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Sensible answers only please! I am 18 and have come from a religious and over protective family.As soon as I went to University I started rebelling. I have been there for 3 months and so far I have had sexual intercourse with one man(my boyfriend of 2 years who I don't really love but who I know loves me) and have been sexually intimate with 4 men overall (all one night stands). The reason I never had sex with my bf before was because I wasn't allowed out of my house for long enough. I wanted to lose my virginity to a man that was a virgin too which is why I waited to lose it to my boyfriend but now it's gone I don't know how I'll react the next time someone tries it on. I feel awful after I'm sexually intimate with guys because they just leave and forget all about you. I feel used. My bf never makes me feel like that.So am I a ****?

2007-12-27 01:48:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-27 01:24:52 · 19 answers · asked by Foolish Hieght 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend wants me to come to Vermont with her and her friends in about a week for vacation, and believe me I would love to go, cause its free lodging in a log cabin, but I've already committed to playing a gig with my band on the 4th, and I'm a man of my word. My girlfriend is absoulutely wonderful and the best girl I've ever been with, and it would mean a lot to her if I went, and I don't want a guilt trip. I would really like to go, but like I said I'm a man of my word, how do I help her understand that I have to do this, my band needs me without making her feel bad, because she said she wouldn;t go unless I went, but she really wants to vacation with me. Any advice would be great. Thanks guys.

2007-12-27 01:24:08 · 17 answers · asked by chrisj7682 2 in Singles & Dating

How do you forgive yourself after you say your sorry for what youve done wrong?

2007-12-27 01:18:47 · 8 answers · asked by twina246 2 in Singles & Dating

There's a boy in one of my classes, he's a senior (almost 18) and I'm a freshman (14 1/2). Anyway, he's super nice, giving me hugs and playing with me when the lesson hasn't started or has finished early (like poking and coming up and tickling me). Sometimes he flirts with me, but other times he's rude and obnoxious. He's not the most attractive person in the world, but neither am I.

So...is he into me? And if so, why? He's a senior. If he's not into me, than why does he act like it?

2007-12-27 01:18:10 · 5 answers · asked by janeyyet 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Due to separation wife is in agreement?
Natwest

Cheers

2007-12-27 01:17:32 · 2 answers · asked by john a 2 in Marriage & Divorce

it's an ancient question but I've changed it-you have to choose to help your father or your teacher

2007-12-27 01:14:23 · 3 answers · asked by spring_262 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-27 01:10:29 · 12 answers · asked by raju 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-27 01:02:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-27 00:59:10 · 6 answers · asked by STEPHANIE D 1 in Other - Family & Relationships