Family & Relationships - 27 December 2007

They are viewed as exotic and sexually attractive in Europe. But asian men are at the bottom of the dating game in the US.

Kind of strange ?

2007-12-27 06:23:35 · 45 answers · asked by Dado libre 2 in Singles & Dating

i spent around 200 cad

2007-12-27 06:22:35 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i think i will never be able to see sexual things like any other person would. i know it has to do with the fact that i was touched when i was younger. i am a jehovah witness and we dont have sex until be are married which i know is the best way to go. but even now i know i wont have the desires my husband will have. my questions is why do these guys hurt little girls lije they do? how did this begin? how to get over it? mani hate when people tell me to see a doctor. i have not and will never tell anyone in my family.

2007-12-27 06:22:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i am a teen with a brother that is a todler. he never folows directions or quite frankly does what we want him to do. i cannot hit him or anything like that of course. so what can i do?

2007-12-27 06:22:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We have been marred 1yr and half I’m 22 he is 30 we have 6 month old baby. I lost all the baby weight right after I had my baby. I work out I’m a good looking girl I get that a lot. We had more sex when I was 9month pregnant than now. My husbands sex drive is very low his on depression medication which lowers his sex drive and even when has one is hard for him to get hard. Any how what makes me upset is that his not taking any pills to enhance his sex drive in the other hands he takes pills for almost everything else for working out to get bigger for sleeping for depression but he doesn’t want take any thing for his low sex drive. He knows and his worried that I may cheat on him sense I hardly get anything from his and he is very sensitive about it, but he won’t do anything about it he said he will b he never does. I never try to push him ‘cuase is should come from him. Help???

2007-12-27 06:22:00 · 4 answers · asked by Leyla 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

hi i have been married for 4 years, i think that my husband might be cheating on me, i wanted to know if there is a way to read his e- mails and find out if he has any dateing sits, he has cheated on me in the past, i for gave him because he is my son's father but if i find out that he is again its over, so my question is, is there a way for me to read his e-emails?

2007-12-27 06:20:38 · 52 answers · asked by NENA82 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am 13 and i am going out with an 8th grd. i go to a private school and he goes their. Well i saw him over christmas break and stuff and he forced me to do something inapporaite and i didn't want to and now he won't leave me alone and i told my mom and dad and they said to ignore it. I don't know what to do espeacially back at school. Help. I am in the 7th grd.

2007-12-27 06:19:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 18 yrs old for about a week now my father has been ganging up on me, he calls me stupid, idiot and that i'll fail in life. i never get n2 trouble and i don't curse at any of my parents. and he says i don't honor him, define honor 4 me please.

2007-12-27 06:17:55 · 28 answers · asked by mott08 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We got married when we were 19, were married for 4 years. We got divorced and I moved back to our hometown. We have been talking about getting back together I just dont want to get hurt again!

2007-12-27 06:17:43 · 20 answers · asked by scionsteve2005 1 in Marriage & Divorce

because he doesn't show me any affection or attention, he say's he loves me, but he doesn't show it and I don't feel loved. We don't go out together on date's or spend quality time with each other, I feel lonely, even when he's around, he can spend the whole evening and night not saying one word to me. I've talked to him about my feelings so many times and the conversation always ends with me crying myself to sleep. I have asked him if he's truly happy and he says he is, but I'm not! I do love him and want to be with him, if he would change. I sometimes wonder if I should just live this way, the rest of my life, or get a divorce. I would rather be lonely and not married, than lonely and married! At least that way there would be a chance of meeting someone new. I want someone to cherish me and think I'm wonderful. I know there is no such thing as a perfect relationship, that's not what I want, I just want to feel loved!

2007-12-27 06:17:42 · 17 answers · asked by DINO 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Like would they hate the pain, the blood and stuff?

2007-12-27 06:15:36 · 81 answers · asked by indigo♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-27 06:15:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need a quote to put in my profile for a past someone and it has to be about likeing him before but not anymore because he changed or something good and simple like that, that people will inderstand
and i dont want it that long just a few sentance can u help me with that?

2007-12-27 06:15:26 · 7 answers · asked by yo 2 in Singles & Dating

he stopped looking @ them since we started going out together(something he said won't needed no more) I dont like that type of things. but reacently my husband got fired at his job, one of the reason they gived him was, because he looked at womens pics in netscape,we work it out,he promise no't do anything like that againg, and just couple days ago he was looking on one of those MAXIM magazine @ a friend house saying that's not porn,and tha's is normal once a while cause others married man does! so we all know what's in this f.... magazine....this time I'm want out. what can i do?

2007-12-27 06:14:57 · 12 answers · asked by yeibe 2 in Marriage & Divorce

even though my mom is on a diet, she bought clam dip...and sent me to the store for chips...

she doesn't eat junk food when she's on a diet...but she told me that i had to finish the rest of our ranch dip before i could open the clam dip.

is she just trying to make herself a lot skinnier than me?

2007-12-27 06:13:57 · 8 answers · asked by *autumn*rustle* 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-27 06:12:09 · 23 answers · asked by Marina_del_Sol 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so every time i don't talk to my boyfriend like on the phone or
i dont see him or hear from him i get really mad @ him.
when he didn't do anything. i didnt talk too him in 3 days know
and i dont even want too because it seems like he doesnt care. he doesnt bother know why should he later. i keep calling him but his dad's like he's at his cousins its like he hangs out with him more then me. and i keep having all these nightmares about him which makes it WORSE. but then when we do end up talkingg i get over it. WHY?
do i miss him too much? seems like i love him then i don't
what's up with me????!!!!!!

2007-12-27 06:11:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

The past couple of months have been hell in my marriage. My husband stopped working. He doesnt help out with the cleaning, financially, or emotionaly. He only helps me with the kids really. He hangs out with these losers down the street who just drink, smoke, and dont work. He disrespects me in front of everyone. I am so stressed out with work. I work 8 hours a day and will be taking a state test to get licensed for the field of work that I do. I have been trying to study and I never have time. I get home to cook, clean, take care of kids, and study. All he does is tell me how lazy I am. He doesnt even care if I lose my job. People tell me to make him work for the family because he is the man. I feel that I cant stand his arrogant way of being anymore. I cry because I love him but I cant stand him. I cant leave him because its my home. I pay the bills so I feel he should leave. I noticed he's become more of a jerk. Should I leave or can we save this relationship? Or doesnt he love me

2007-12-27 06:11:43 · 12 answers · asked by cocoa 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My family fights bad..at least once a day..i cry myself to sleep almost every night. My father died when I was at a young age. I am fourteen now and my mom has been remarried to a nice man..but she thinks that i hate him because we are always fighting. My mom will stick up for me just a little bit and he will just just jump down her throat about it. And he yells at me about the littlelest things. and I will admit that i usually do yell back..i try not to but it just comes out because i am so frusturated. Some mornings I wake up to my parents fighting so I just stay up in my bed because I know they are either fighting about me or my stepbrother. I try to go up to my room and just cool down but my mom and stepdad dont let me. Please give me advice to stop my family from fighting before they fall apart!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-12-27 06:10:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

In your experience, what works and what doesn't work when trying to devise a plan to share the bills and manage money in the household?
What do most people think about both spouses contributing an equal % of their salaries into a joint account, used for household bills and groceries etc. and keeping the remainder in a personal account for personal expenditures such as clothing etc?
Those who've been married for years please tell me what works best!

2007-12-27 06:09:24 · 15 answers · asked by Jada 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My guy friend is threatening to put charges on me for this so I'm worried, because I've never been arrested before. I need some advice.

Okay I was tired of people praising others for having kids and then telling me that they could just never see me as being able to financially provide. I felt hurt and insulted. I was also hurt that guys were dissing me. My ultra cute guy friend doesn't want anything to do with me as more than a friend, but I wish he gave me a chance. I don't want to be alone this lifetime, I want to pass my genes on and prove to everyone how good of a parent I can actually be.

I did something very naughty. One weekend a bunch of us slept over and watched movies. The next morning, my best guy friend was in one of the bedrooms, getting it on with a girl he's been meeting up with for sex lately. When he was done, I saw him very quickly leave the room for an instant, wearing a towel, to quick throw out the used condom in the wastebasket right outside the room. I was

2007-12-27 06:08:26 · 25 answers · asked by I Hate my haters 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been in a relationship for a long time now and found out my bf of 6 yrs was cheating... so i dumped him as i have no tolerance for cheaters. the thing is everytime we had a fight while i was in this relationship he always said to me: "oh my phone is going to get cut off" and it never happened.. or he would tell me he is going to kill himself if i left. I was so scared so i never left him but i finally have the courage to leave. Oh ya he would also tell me everytime we had a fight that he was going to move to another city and that we would never see each other again.. again i would worry and stay with him..... but now i am strong and dont care if he cuts off his phone or moves or does whaever.... my question is do you think he would actually do these things? why do ppl say these things to ppl? I just dont understand why he tells me this.

2007-12-27 06:06:18 · 16 answers · asked by star 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, the short version - destination wedding, been planning it a long time but due to many unexpected complications, my fiance and I are now eloping instead. It almost seems like fate b/c it was what we wanted to do anyway, then changed our plans to include others, and then had to cancel our other plans. Our invitations even arrived late, so we want to change them to announcements instead. Here is the wording for our message in a bottle announcement, would love some feedback:

"Far away from snow and the cold winter wind’s howl, barefoot on the beach they will be excited for what is about to follow.
They knew it from the day they met that fate had played a role. They were just so right for each other, two halves destined to become one beloved soul.
Beside the ocean hand in hand, casting shadows amidst the tide, he will become her loving husband and she will forever be his bride.
"Bride" and "Groom" joyfully announce that they will be married at a private beach ceremony... etc."

2007-12-27 06:06:17 · 10 answers · asked by TWBensgirl 2 in Weddings

one of my guy friends was working on my laptop he was putting linux on it temporarily and while he was working on it he happened to go through my recycle bin where i had some deleted nude photos of me....there were some pretty graphic ones in there and i was pretty embarrassed ..he even had the nerve to ask me Why i had nude photos...he thought it was funny!....i dunno if i should feel violated or if i shouldnt really care...

2007-12-27 06:01:07 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother in law has helped me emotionally for 10 years, She was a wonderful kind, loving soul. Now she is bitter mean nasty, hateful and she thinks I am poisioning her food, sleeping with her husband and stealing her money (she hasn't got any...). My father in law still works as a truck driver due to the fact that before her illness (CAA, Cerebreal Amyloid Angiopathy) she ran up 150,000 in credit card debt and morgaged their house. My sister in law is a paraplegic with mental retardation....There are no family members willing to help and I thought I could help out, but it has become so demanding that I do not know who to turn to. An assisted living facility is out, no onewill discuss it. My husband can't see that the problem is as serious as it is (he remained at our home as I was able to leave my job and he isn't able to realistically). Please tell me where to find a support group, I am losing sleep, weight and my mind.....

2007-12-27 05:56:34 · 7 answers · asked by suzieg 3 in Family

Me and my best guy friend of 6 years hooked up last night. He was *((wasted))* to say the least.. and he has a girlfriend that I'm not particularly fond of. We were just talking at first, and one thing lead to another and the next thing I know, we're having sex in the back on my car. A few minutes ago, he called me and told me he didnt remember anything.. so I told him what happened and we agreed to not say anything to anyone. How can I keep this from effecting our friendship?

2007-12-27 05:54:37 · 26 answers · asked by Lana♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy in my grade and he asked me to slow dance wit him at our school dance and the next day he texted me and asked me out...i dont really like him but i dont know wut to say and i dont wanna hurt his feelings....id concider him a friend and i just want it to stay like that....nothing more...wut should i tell him...im gonna tell him when we go to the mall-or something 2morrow...HELP!!!! :P lol...thanx

2007-12-27 05:54:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's too hard to not think about it when I see things on television or in movies about certain situations that I have been in. So how do you move on with a positive out look on such a painful past? Any suggestions and advice would be strongly appreciated.

2007-12-27 05:53:13 · 8 answers · asked by God Bless America!~ 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

We are currently separated, and I live in the house that we bought together. Both of our names are on the deed and the loan. Can I make him pay half of the mortgage payment while I am living in the house since, legally, the house is still half his? The house is on the market, and I can't afford to keep up the payments and the upkeep by myself.
Mature answers only please!

2007-12-27 05:52:43 · 13 answers · asked by takemymulligan 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Being with someone who loves you and give everything you need but no matter how hard u try, you still don't love that person...

or

Being with someone whom u really love but that person has an average love for you...

Justify your answer..

2007-12-27 05:52:21 · 9 answers · asked by t|nE 2 in Singles & Dating