i am 13 and i am going out with an 8th grd. i go to a private school and he goes their. Well i saw him over christmas break and stuff and he forced me to do something inapporaite and i didn't want to and now he won't leave me alone and i told my mom and dad and they said to ignore it. I don't know what to do espeacially back at school. Help. I am in the 7th grd.
2007-12-27 06:19:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sweety, you really need to talk, and i mean really, to your parents because that is not something that you want to put up with. I dont know if you live in an environment where your parents just dont care, but if that doesnt help then talk to a teacher, principal, or counselor. Find some help. I know that kids your age dont like to i guess you would call tattle-tell, but even if it takes telling his parents, then do so. Hope i helped sweetie.
-a confident 15 Year Old
2007-12-27 06:25:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that your parents told you to ignore it. This is not something to ignore. Talk to your school counselor and if he ever tries to touch you at school yell at him to get away from you. This kind of thing happens when you are vulnerable/accessable. It is not your fault!
2007-12-27 14:28:21 · answer #2 · answered by hannahhonolulu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First make sure your parents know how much this bothers you.
Then contact the school administration and tell them your problem.
The last resort is to tell him that you know some one that will break his knee caps if he keeps bothering you.
The last statement was a joke, but it would be effective.
2007-12-27 14:25:57 · answer #3 · answered by Fred F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is WRONG with your parents??? If someone forces you to do something, and you were my child, I would be in that boy's face IMMEDIATELY. If they won't do anything, go to your school counselor and the principal, and see to it that they keep this boy away from you.
2007-12-27 14:25:44 · answer #4 · answered by kathi1vee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell your parents excactly what he did.because if you did i dont think they would tell you to ignore it i think they would call his parents.then you need to break up with him.and when you go to school be with a friend at all times so he cant do anything(i dont think he will though) and call a friend and tell her what he did and she will protect you.im so sorry that he did that(whatever he did)to you sweetie.and if he trys to do something again you know where to kick him.kick him HARD in the balls!!and he wont try it again.i promise you that. if you need anymore help you can email me. =]
2007-12-27 14:45:35 · answer #5 · answered by m0o0000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He forced you to do something inappropriate and your parents say to ignore him?
I'd talk to the school counselor.
2007-12-27 14:24:31 · answer #6 · answered by pinky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents "again", and let them know if they won't protect you, then you'll find someone will!! Then call a COP, don't wait, or mess around with this!! Get yourself ready to find people who will really care about you!!
2007-12-27 16:39:43 · answer #7 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all your parents need their *** kicked..second i would go to a guidance counselor or principle to see what they can do..and if all else fails contact social services or the police dept in your area...and tell your parents to help you,you need to explain to them how this is affecting you..good luck...if you would like to talk more please feel free to email me at vaehmommy@yahoo.com or on aim EVMMommy
2007-12-27 14:24:27 · answer #8 · answered by EVMMommy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents the WHOLE story. If what he did to you was seriously inappropriate, then they surely won't ignore it, nor will they tell you to do so.
2007-12-27 14:25:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Report it to the principle or trusted advisor.
2007-12-27 14:22:25 · answer #10 · answered by nobodytotalkabout 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋