We have been marred 1yr and half I’m 22 he is 30 we have 6 month old baby. I lost all the baby weight right after I had my baby. I work out I’m a good looking girl I get that a lot. We had more sex when I was 9month pregnant than now. My husbands sex drive is very low his on depression medication which lowers his sex drive and even when has one is hard for him to get hard. Any how what makes me upset is that his not taking any pills to enhance his sex drive in the other hands he takes pills for almost everything else for working out to get bigger for sleeping for depression but he doesn’t want take any thing for his low sex drive. He knows and his worried that I may cheat on him sense I hardly get anything from his and he is very sensitive about it, but he won’t do anything about it he said he will b he never does. I never try to push him ‘cuase is should come from him. Help???
2007-12-27 06:22:00 · 4 answers · asked by Leyla 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Talk,talk and more talk is what's needed.
You've just had a baby, your husband is on medication and thoughts of adultery are about.
Both of you need to focus on the other person's needs as well as what is best for the baby. Often, there just isn't anything left 'in the pot' after a long day of work and taking care of the family. Maybe your husband is consumed by the new responsibilities of family, maybe he's frightened of the possibilities of you getting pregnant again. Open dialogue - and I mean HONEST discussions about what you each feel and want, with each of you being more compassionate about the other than with yourself, will usually bring out the problem. Once identified, the solution can be discussed. Both of you to remember that there's a third person who needs you both.
2007-12-27 06:39:31 · answer #1 · answered by Rob O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, twice a month huh? That's 2 more times than my wife and I have sex a month. I have the same problem as you.
He might need to lay off the other pills for a while, even the depression meds if possible. Get his system cleansed and then try some libido increasing pills.
Good luck.
2007-12-27 06:41:13 · answer #2 · answered by D.I.L.L.I.G.A.F. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Toss the meds. the pills, and use natural remidies that have no side effects !
2007-12-27 08:36:31 · answer #3 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him time.
2007-12-27 07:29:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋