Why are asian men considered unattractive in the US ?

Question

They are viewed as exotic and sexually attractive in Europe. But asian men are at the bottom of the dating game in the US.

Kind of strange ?

Answer 1

Wow, I never knew that they were view sexually attractive in Europe. LOL.
Well, I guess asian men are considered unattractice in the US because they have small "bags". And they all have the same haircuts but, people never bother trying to look at their faces.
But, I think asian men are hot... Most of them. Haha, depends, reallly. I'm asian, too. I love the asian guys but, most of the time, I'm looking for a guy who respect me. ^^

Answer 2

I personally don't see Asian men as unattractive. I would certainly date one if I was single. Could it be your choices in dating preference? Are you limiting yourself to what race of women you are willing to date? And just to throw this out there, a lot of Americans have race issues more so than other countries. There are a lot of white people in America who disapprove of interracial dating and race mixing. And to them, as bigotted as it may sound, you are not good enough. But keep an open mind and maybe consider somebody you wouldn't ordinarily see as your type. All racial issues in the US stem from negative stereotypes associated with different races. Don't buy into generalizations about any group of people just as you wouldn't want someone to generalize you based on some negative perception about Asian men. Would you date an African-American woman?

Answer 3

Not true at all, I think Asian men are attractive and I know lots of women of all races who are married to Asian guys. The only thing that maybe hurts is the height thing - some Asian guys are shorter than some women of other races. But height shouldn't matter, so if someone cares about that, who needs her?

Answer 4

It is the case, and I've wondered about it too. Having lived in Asia and the Far East for several years, I observed that the males there are less masculine than western men. Asian females tend to be delicate and petite; at the same time, Asian men tend to be less blatantly masculine than western men. Since occidentals -- Americans in particular -- place great emphasis on machismo qualities in men, Asian males are, in general, not as attractive to American women as Asian females are to American men. I am not being racist here -- I am simply noting a real difference that exists in the real world.

Answer 5

The reason is that Asian men rarely use performance-enhancing drugs.

I work at a Gas Station, and I know what kind of people use these drugs.

Again, I have 2 Indian friends, one is engaged to a White girl and the other is dating one!

Answer 6

im white, and my bf is latino. we've been at the same time 2 years, have a alluring daughter, toddler #2 on the way. we are chuffed. he's familiar with that i'm sturdy to him, so of course it rather is no longer in basic terms asian men who take excitement in white/latina females. you may't positioned a label on anybody for something one guy or woman does. no 2 anybody is the comparable, and you will't label by skill of race.

Answer 7

I have met quite a few Asian guys that were very, very attractive. My friends also have some guys they like that are Asian. I could believe that the U.S. would have that thought though, but not me and definately not my friends. I guess it is just a personal thing, but the Europeans have it right!

Answer 8

its because of the limited outside exposure the US gets to other cultures. the USA is very self absorbed, an leaves other cultural influences to national geographic. basically all most americans know about other cultures, in general, are the stereotypes that are misconceptions and prejudgments based on their limited exposure to other cultures. and in the "american is best" attitude, they mock it because its different, which is even worse.
i consider asian men to be extremely sexy, some Japanese and south korean actors i think are the prettiest men ive ever seen. but i've been to Japan, studied Japanese, im into other cultures, i take anthropology courses, and i watch foreign movies an television.
i think the US tends to be in its own little world when it comes to a world wide awareness, which is sort of shocking, its not in the place to make a valid judgment when all is seen of asians is a few pictures in their social studies book, and the occasional one on TV, or at school ♥

Answer 9

Since when?? Some the asians i know are hawwwtiess, and tons of girls like them and want to be with them. But, some aren't that attractive, those are usually the ones that end up on the bottom of the dating game.

Answer 10

I think it's the height thing. My really tall friend says she'll never date an Asian man but I don't feel the same. It may also have to do with misconceptions about the differences in cultures.