what do guys think before they molest little girls?

Question

i think i will never be able to see sexual things like any other person would. i know it has to do with the fact that i was touched when i was younger. i am a jehovah witness and we dont have sex until be are married which i know is the best way to go. but even now i know i wont have the desires my husband will have. my questions is why do these guys hurt little girls lije they do? how did this begin? how to get over it? mani hate when people tell me to see a doctor. i have not and will never tell anyone in my family.

Answer 1

It seems likely that many perversions result from the influence and efforts of the demons, who have long demonstrated an unnatural attraction to human sexuality.

(Ephesians 4:18-19) They are in darkness mentally, and alienated from the life that belongs to God, because of the ignorance that is in them, because of the insensibility of their hearts. Having come to be past all moral sense, they gave themselves over to loose conduct to work uncleanness of every sort with greediness.

(Genesis 6:4) [Certain demonic] sons of the true God continued to have relations with the daughters of men and they bore sons to them

(1 Peter 3:19-20) [The resurrected Jesus] also he went his way and preached to the spirits in [metaphorical] prison, who had once been disobedient when the patience of God was waiting in Noah’s days

(Jude 6) .And the angels that did not keep their original position but forsook their own proper dwelling place he has reserved with eternal bonds under dense darkness for the judgment of the great day.

Answer 2

They don't think. It is a power trip for very small people. And you are right you will never see sex like others.It doesn't matter what you believe, this is a profound invasion of your body. I am sorry to say there is noway to get over this, your best bet is to try to use this to better yourself. And yes I hear yea how in the world. Help others. Children, woman and even some man. And in the proses it will help you. And the more you talk the better you well fell. And if you need someone who has been molested I am here.My e-mail worthbertha@Yahool

Answer 3

Well, considering that you are a Jehovah Witness, the first thing that you should have thought of should have been giving it over to God. He has every answer that you will ever imagine could change your life in beneficial ways. Let him mend your heart, give him your all, and pray about it. I was molested as a little girl. I never thought that i could forgive him, but i found a way. Through the blood of Christ. He put forgiveness in my heart, and love that will stay forever. I hope and pray that you give it all over to Him, because i promise that it will be the best decision that you will ever make!

Answer 4

I can understand your hating being advised to see a doctor, but (religion aside) that was the best way to see to your safety...and to have collected evidence against your attacker. Sadly, now that option is gone. I can also understand your reluctance to tell anyone; many victims feel this way. But without shedding the light of day on sexual predators, they are free to continue their assaults. This predator has likely moved on to the next little girl, hoping she too will be too ashamed to speak publicly of the assault. By now I hope you realize you've done nothing to be ashamed of; you've done nothing wrong. But there are scars that result from any wound, and this is no different. If you have a sincere hope for a healthy adult existence, you need to find someone you can trust to discuss these matters with. Otherwise, they tend to come back on you when you least expect them to. As you try to reconcile your religious convictions against any desire to publicly address these issues, realize that God never intended you to be used this way. Good luck to you.

Answer 5

I, too am a Jehovah's Christian Witness who went through the same experience before I came into the truth.
Remember that all who suffer trauma can find comfort in God's Word, the Bible.
"Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of tender mercies and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort those in any sort of tribulation through the comfort with which we ourselves are being comforted by God." 2 Cor. 1:3-4

achtung_heiss has given you wonderful and accurate information that can be reflected upon.
Sexual harassment is nothing new. It is as universal as the imperfect, scheming, greedy human heart. Getting rid of sexual harassment requires a fundamental change of heart in people. (1 John 5:19) Only can deep love for Jehovah God and Bible truth cause that change. (Ephesians 4:22-24)

Maybe instead of a doctor, you could discuss this with a spiritual one in the congregation. (1 Thessalonians 5:14)

You may wonder: Do any in the Christian congregation have such disturbing thoughts? In a few lands, yes, and these dedicated ones may experience deep distress, anger, guilt, shame, or loneliness. Like David they may feel isolated from God and cry out: "Why, O Jehovah, do you keep standing afar off? Why do you keep yourself hid in times of distress?"—Psalm 10:1. Many aspects of these "memories" are not well understood by mental-health professionals. Still, such "memories" can affect the spirituality of dedicated Christians. So we look with confidence to God's Word for guidance in handling them. The Bible provides "discernment in all things." (2 Timothy 2:7; 3:16) It also helps all concerned to put faith in Jehovah, "the Father of tender mercies and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our tribulation."—2 Corinthians 1:3, 4.

One day the earth will be filled with men and women who hold to Bible standards. God-fearing people eagerly await that day, when there will be an end to all forms of mistreatment. (Isaiah 65:17) Until then, they cope as best as they can with today's ugly realities. (Isaiah 11:6-9)

For almost 10 years, I felt the same way you do now. Only through strength supplied by our Father, Jehovah God, was I able to overcome what happened to me.

I hope and pray the best for you sister.

Answer 6

I do not know the answer to your first question, it is rhetorical perhaps. If you choose the right partner, he will make your loving safe and intimate and a totally different experience far removed from molestation. Take your time in this decision and be honest with your life partner because you expect honesty in return.

Answer 7

i does not difficulty handing something in to the police besides. i found a bag of drugs as quickly as yet took it homestead and flushed it down the rest room. in case you start up handing products to the police you will get executed on quotes of possession basically for having it on you....then returned in case you depart it interior the line some new child could desire to p.c.. it up and supply it a circulate. you may desire to circulate with the 0.33 option and stand next to although is on the floor till the police arrive yet then returned for the period of the wait the owner could take place and stab you interior the gut. The device is incompetent as why somebody who makes new child porn could then hand it in to the police is previous me. needless to say the government being run by applying monkeys can no longer determine this out for themselves.

Answer 8

I dont know but in myopinion any gur who molests or rape a woman should be sent to jail until he dies doing hard labour in an maximum security prison