2007-12-27 06:12:09 · 23 answers · asked by Marina_del_Sol 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thank you for your answers, to some of you please don't be sarcastic....I am the wife and yes I am going through the emotional stress.....I am not dumb and I wanted to see what other people think...not for them to mock me.....thanks to the ones who are trying to help.
2007-12-27 06:24:38 · update #1
Thank you for your answers, to some of you please don't be sarcastic....I am the wife and yes I am going through the emotional stress.....I am not dumb and I wanted to see what other people think...not for them to mock me.....thanks to the ones who are trying to help.
Yes, I have confronted him the first time he admitted to writing and said that he did it because he was mad.....this time I have not show him what I know but have asked him if he is happy and if he loves me and both answers were yes.
2007-12-27 07:00:44 · update #2
Definitely. Most women would agree that the hardest part of cheating to overcome is the emotion attachment...the intimate details being shared. While sex is devastating in its own right, the sharing of emails, chats, text messages can be just as heartbreaking because it takes more thought and emotional investment than the actual act of sex.
2007-12-27 06:17:04 · answer #1 · answered by Jay S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how one defines cheating.
One thing I do know is that some of the following might apply: deceptive, two-faced, and dishonourable to name a handful.
Not to mention that it is not fair to the woman outside the marriage either. He can be stringing her along thinking she may end up with him after he divorces. It has been known to happen, but running around e-mailing on the sly is never a full blown relationship.
Hope this helps.....Finn.
2007-12-27 14:17:19 · answer #2 · answered by Finn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes to me that is called cheating emotionally and hurts just the same as cheating any other kind of way. I mean my husband tells me it makes him feel better because really his life is not where he wish it was but on there the women think he is this great hero or something but it is still cheating.
2007-12-27 14:59:59 · answer #3 · answered by baby girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a man and I think that this IS NOT cheating, HOWEVER, you need to confront your husband on this situation. dont approach it with a negative attitude(i know that you are pissed and hurt) ask him if there is anything that he wants to discuss about your marriage and if not then what are these emails that you found. explain that you werent snooping you just stumbled upon them. nobody likes to feel like they are being checked up on. talk to him and let him know that its not ruight and that you want to see what the TWO of you can don make things work. It sounds like you are in it for love. there are times in marriages that one person may not love the other equally, that it turn ends up being the burden of you and you need to make it easier for him to talk with you about whatever is othering him and driving him to other woman. the big question what can they provide that you dont already. best of luck to you and have faith. it all works out in the end.
2007-12-27 14:47:43 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything a man does in private with another woman that he would NOT do if his spouse was present is considered cheating.
It is still a betrayal and reasons for a complete re-evaluation of the marriage relationship.
2007-12-27 14:23:01 · answer #5 · answered by princessdemeesa2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes....could be worse because he is putting his emotions and feelings into it....when they meet just imagine what he'll do.....I think the emotional affair is worse even though as a woman, we think that him touching another woman is the worst thing in the world.......I am a heart and soul kinda person.....he is giving the heart to another....NO EXCUSE!!!!!!
2007-12-27 14:17:48 · answer #6 · answered by trainergirl30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor, poor, wife of yours. I feel extremely sorry for her. Tell her that Divorce Court comes on at 3pm et and to go ahead and write the number down for her.
2007-12-27 14:18:57 · answer #7 · answered by crystal g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he is acting out in his mind. He just hasn't physically fulfilled the desires that are in his heart. The outward act of any sin is not the beginning of the problem. It starts when we decide we want to do it. The desire in the heart is the problem.
2007-12-27 14:23:37 · answer #8 · answered by Danny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one is saying your dumb however if he is exchanging love emails with another woman he is sleeping with her it is that simple. What is so hard to understand about that? Emails are not cheating but a man won't email a woman love emails if he isn't sleeping with her?!??!?!
2007-12-27 15:43:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, whenever someone shows any sign of affections for another it is cheating. In my opinion, it is also cheating when someone has unpure thoughts of another person.
God bless and best wishes!
2007-12-27 14:35:15 · answer #10 · answered by nimbus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋