Like would they hate the pain, the blood and stuff?
2007-12-27 06:15:36 · 81 answers · asked by indigo♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't hate it then, what do you like about it? =/
2007-12-27 06:19:18 · update #1
Well most of the guys i know do.
2007-12-27 06:18:41 · answer #1 · answered by chantelle m 1 · 1⤊ 6⤋
Stop worrying about whether the guy is gonna want you if you're a virgin or not. Worry more about whether he's going to break your heart, instead. When you give it away, you want it to be with somebody who's going to care enough about you to make it special and good for you and do what it takes to make it that, not just pop himself off, walk away and never see you again. The only reason there's a thing with some guys and virgins is the whole 'i am a conqueror' horsesh-t complex and the tightness thing. But if you're with somebody who can't put you at such ease that you can relax completely (especially down there) and enjoy it the way it's supposed to be enjoyed, you're not getting anything out of it, and heartbreak on top of that.
2007-12-27 06:25:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Most guys feel a sense of power when they "do" a virgin. As a general rule I doubt they would mind the blood, after all it is there fault. The woman is really the only one that feels the pain. A virgin as a general rule is really tight, guys like tight. Hope this helped.
2007-12-27 06:18:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
My dream is to marry a virgin. So many reasons why i think virgins rule. First and foremost, they know how to save all of themselves for their soulmate meaning they give everything they got to the relationship.
Secondly because of their self control and willpower they can be trusted in almost any situation to never ever cheat.
3rd they have strong convictions and are almost never wannabees with no mind of their own(very individualistic people)
5th they actually see relationships and sex as special things to be shared with only one person. Their chances fo divorce would be very low because they would always try their best to keep the relationship strong.
6th because im a male virgin (by choice and waiting till marriage) and who better to understand a male virgin then a female virgin.
2007-12-27 18:38:38 · answer #4 · answered by virgin guy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow you are a virgin. The only time that you experience any of that is when you have someone that does not get you aroused properly. There is not that much blood, @ the most a spot or two and again this happens because you are so tense anticipating contact.
I dont know what the other stuff is.
2007-12-27 06:19:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some guys who are creepy like seeing a girl in pain and tears, so yes, some guys love virgins.
2014-02-20 15:36:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 28 now, but when I was 15-16, i did it with two virgins, and it was awesome only because I could brag about it to my friends. In reality it is not that good because the girl is obviously not enjoying 100%. Maybe cuz i'm slightly bigger than avg. guys w/ small ones would prolly love it. When you do it w/ a virgin, you have to go slow and gentle. I don't believe in "making love", I enjoy long, hard, rough sx that makes her moan with tears and pleasure. That is truly the best!
2007-12-27 06:30:45 · answer #7 · answered by Heyo 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There isn't always pain and blood and "stuff".
However, some guys dislike virgins because they are only looking for a "piece" and they think a virgin will fall in love with her first.
My advice, WAIT. Find someone that you truly LOVE and who TRULY LOVES YOU!
Do not just rush off and find someone who is simply "willing to do a virgin" so you can get rid of that title.
Trust me, your first should be memorable.
You don't want to look back in your 30's and not be able to remember his name.
(Ideally, you want to look back in your 30's and you are happily married to that guy, but I know that is not reality anymore.)
2007-12-27 06:24:54 · answer #8 · answered by LelandMM 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
With the emotional baggage that you have to carry as "the one" who took it, it's best to make sure that the guy wants her to be "the one" for a while.
If it's a one-night-stand, or a "friend w/benefits" that turned out to be something regretful, I wouldn't like it at all.
If I knew she's going to be with me for a long, long time, it's much different.
My experience was with a girl that I dated for a while, but things deteriorated after I took her virginity. There was so much pressure on each other after that step was taken that it killed the relationship. In hindsight, I wish we didn't do it.
2007-12-27 06:23:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
My guy didn't mind that I was a virgin. He took his time, and it fits' perfect', if u know what I mean, lol. Plus, there was NO BLOOD when I lost my virginity, it was painful don't get me wrong (the first couple times) but def. no blood. I remember having cramps the next day too, but nothing that grossed me out or him. :oP
2007-12-27 06:21:48 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some males don't mind at all. Others do, but its rare. I mean, its very tight as oppose to someone who is very loose as a goose. Some guys are just ******* when it comes down to it. All they do is stress the female on getting some. If you ask me, I work with what she feels inside of her and comply with that. But overall its a great feeling. Just make sure you that person is very special to you.
2007-12-27 06:46:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋