one of my guy friends was working on my laptop he was putting linux on it temporarily and while he was working on it he happened to go through my recycle bin where i had some deleted nude photos of me....there were some pretty graphic ones in there and i was pretty embarrassed ..he even had the nerve to ask me Why i had nude photos...he thought it was funny!....i dunno if i should feel violated or if i shouldnt really care...
2007-12-27 06:01:07 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the better question is....why did you have naked pictures of yourself on your computer?
If you hadn't bothered to delete them from the recycle bin then I would call that careless and that he was not in the wrong.
2007-12-27 06:03:47 · answer #1 · answered by Lucy 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
A good question is why did you have nude photos?
It's a little careless to have those kinds of photos and not be certain they are totally in their grave. So it's not totally his fault, although what he was doing in the recycle bin, I don't know.
Other than that, if he's a good friend of yours, you shouldn't feel totally violated.
It's just a bit personal for him to have seen nude photos of you...
2007-12-27 13:17:14 · answer #2 · answered by Rose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't be mad. Going into the recycle bin is standard procedure when you're installing a new system, to ensure the files that have been "thrown away" are not actually needed, before they are permanently deleted. He wasn't snooping on your machine, he was doing a job to the best of his ability that you gave him permission to do.
The only person you have to blame for your embarrassment is yourself, for not permanently deleting them in the first place, if you really didn't want him to see them.
At this point, it would be best to just drop the matter and not talk of it again...and make sure they are permanently deleted, if that's what you want.
2007-12-27 06:06:04 · answer #3 · answered by Vangorn2000 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, you have to realize that people are naturally snoopy, especially men on computers! Don't ever let someone do "work" on your computer without expecting that they will look at it. If he is a computer wiz then he would have found it on your computer regardless of it being in your recycle bin.
You can get mad but it won't do any good. All guys do it!!! Just make sure you don't have work done when you have nude pictures on your desktop (recycle bin).
LS
2007-12-27 06:05:29 · answer #4 · answered by Bubblelips 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well why would you take nude pictures of yourself in the first place? Let alone put them onto your computer? You don't need to be mad at anyone but yourself for even making that decision. Next time be smart enough to know that taking nude pictures are bad enough but uploading them onto your computer for millions of people to see is just a big no no. That is if you want to be treated and referred to as a respectful young lady and not a slut or anything like that.
2007-12-27 07:59:02 · answer #5 · answered by Your Love Is One In A Million It goes On 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's not really much you can be mad about. He didn't go through nude pictures of you, he threw something into your Recycle Bin and they were already there. He didn't really have to go searching for them.
Next time, empty the bin of embarrassing things before you let your guy friend go through them.
Better yet, stop taking nude photos of yourself if you're self-conscious about anyone ever finding them.
Also, don't plan on running for political office.
2007-12-27 06:04:34 · answer #6 · answered by ninjaphobos 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well you're understandably upset but really it's no ones fault but your own. You shouldn't have left the pics on there (in the recycle bin or not) knowing that someone was going to be working on your laptop. Next time, delete or at least, keep them hidden.
2007-12-27 06:04:30 · answer #7 · answered by Seka L 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmmm........ well it is both of your falts. i mean, you should not have done that. you should know that like your parents might check your computer to see what you go on, then they would find it. commen sense. howerver your guy friend should not have been messing with your computer and looking at stuff. it is like hacking only not. and of course he would ask you why you had nude photos. it would be akward for him if he just stared at them and did not say anything. i am sure if you were him, you would ask the same question. don't be mad at him. it is mostly your own falt about it. if you a going to take pics, then do it on a digi camera so you can erase them sooner. i am sry this happened to you. MAJOR EMBERRASSMENT!!!
best of luck
xkerry
2007-12-27 06:10:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, needless to say, you let him work on your laptop which gave him access to whatever is on it. my husband fixes computers for a living and he normally scans the computer in order to know what's wrong with it. he comes across things like nude pix, porn, etc but he doesn't mention them to his clients. people know what are on their computers so when they go and get it fixed, it is highly likely that what they have on there will be seen by the technician.
this guy probably thought it wouldn't be a big deal if he mentioned it to you since you two are friends. maybe he thought you could laugh about it. who knows?
but next time, make sure you right click on the picture or item you want to remove and click on "erase". it will completely erase it from your comp..."deleting" it will only put it in your trash bin until you empty it out.
2007-12-27 06:11:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 01:49:11 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋