Family & Relationships - 27 December 2007

I find myself making up stories even. It`s crazy. I have had a very tohgh life, I really don`t need to make things up or to lie. Yet I find myself on the verdge of loosing my soul mate, not being able to stop.Yes I am Bipolar have known pretty much all my life.Please addvice I could really use , now more than ever!

2007-12-27 05:10:17 · 13 answers · asked by Penny R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My uncels daughter has a car and never uses it and when my uncel asked her why she dont uses it she says I whant to show my work mates that I can have a beter car than them. Is she daft?

2007-12-27 05:10:05 · 7 answers · asked by Phillip K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-27 05:08:48 · 5 answers · asked by lend322 4 in Singles & Dating

please help not sure if i need a wedding planner or not or if ishould do it my self its just going to be a church wedding with family and friends but wont it to be nice

2007-12-27 05:07:22 · 16 answers · asked by Marie21 2 in Weddings

If you were dating a woman for 3 months - and she was your girlfriend officially for 2 months and you still hadn't had sex, what would you think? Would this cause you to respect her more or less or like her more or less?
Then after you have sex would it change your relationship/your desire to sleep with her because you'll already know what it's like?
The woman is 21, and the man is 24.
Thanks guys!

2007-12-27 05:05:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1. We BOTH want a small wedding (and have already scraficed what we want to spare feelings), he has 3 sisters, I have none but am having my best friend and sister in law stand up for me, he is having his 2 best friends, everyone is telling me I should include his sisters, I would add one more person but NOT 3. So am I ok by not having any?

2. Is it wise to get a banquett center, just so I dont have to worry about, catering, security, bar tending ect....
It is way out of our budget, but do able.

3 Anything else you can pass along would be great
Thanks
Oh yeah we only have 5 months to plan this......

2007-12-27 05:05:08 · 10 answers · asked by metallica_rocks0122 6 in Weddings

i cannot help my flatulence. i eat alot of cruciferous veggies, and my husband has almost vomited at times due to the stench. this is not a joke, as he is threatening to leave the marriage. i have tried everything available including "Beano" please help and fast.

2007-12-27 05:00:37 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Husband is self-employed, and work has been slow during the holidays. His business depends on getting an appointment with the business owner of different companies. In late October, he had some business where he says he made $1500. However, the money never showed up in the bank, and he insists that the business has been pending due to applications that were not filled out correctly. He says he has to track the people down to get the apps corrected. Well, the apps were "corrected" last Thursday, but the money still hasn't showed up in our account yet. It was supposed to be there Monday. We really need the money due to our new mortgage payment and can't live off of my income alone. I'm starting to think he's lying. Do you think he's lying and what should I do? Should I accuse him of lying?

2007-12-27 04:59:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

REPOST: He has an addiction problem, it has affected the house for 5 years, lost everything 3 times, lost my company, lost my home, and almost lost my salvation dealing with it. Children are out of control, he is never home, we have moved 12 times since 2002. He wanted me to stay home with the children, I have no where to go, no money. My credit is shot now and pregnant again. I am very attractive, had it going on when he met me now I have no friends, no job and 6 children, got my looks, thats it. whats the problem?

2007-12-27 04:58:01 · 9 answers · asked by mom3x2 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

if a girl didn't "do it" with you would you
A.respect her and like her more
B.be mad or upset with her a break up
C.respect her but not like her anymore
...please be honest

2007-12-27 04:52:44 · 25 answers · asked by Sugarrr. :) 2 in Singles & Dating

ll time i have to do everything cook clean and put up with his moaning tele loud machine making noise etc fed up shall i leave him he retires soon have it all time then

2007-12-27 04:51:51 · 45 answers · asked by spurs 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do I get out of this marriage? We both want the divorce. I filed and he answered all late and wrong. Now he is in Iraq and we already don't communicate. I just want it over. Any others going through this? The judge just ordered my default non-valid. The law protects soldiers from any civil cases including divorce. Does anyone know of a good lawyer that can get me out of this? Are there any loopholes? I don't want to be legally tied to this person. How do I get out?!!!!??? Serious answers please.

2007-12-27 04:51:25 · 9 answers · asked by new life abundant 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What is the first thing you would buy?

2007-12-27 04:50:29 · 48 answers · asked by SpoiledPrincess 2 in Family

We have been together for a year and a half and are quite happy together. However, our sex life has kinda flatlined a bit. We used to have great, consistent sex, where we would both climax, but lately she doesnt ever seem to want it. I get alot of the "Im tired" stuff, and when we do have it, she just gives me "Its okay, you just go" line which pretty much means hurry up and get it over with...

I try to be romantic and try different things (foreplay, bought her lingerie, etc) to bring her around, but nothing seems to work. As you can imagine, I am a guy who likes sex alot and this makes me feel unwanted and insecure. Ive talked to her about how it makes me feel and that I would love if she initiated it from time to time, instead of me having to ask (which is really tacky). I make sure that I do things to make her feel loved and wanted, but is it too much to ask for in return? What should I do?

2007-12-27 04:50:02 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A nice wedding present I could buy my friend? The wedding is on Saturday. She's not registered anywhere, as far as I know.

My budget is about $100.

2007-12-27 04:48:13 · 14 answers · asked by Lanani 6 in Weddings

I have tried getting her every type of broom, etc but she says that it's difficult coz she lost her legs and I am like, "Sweety, you lost your legs and not your hands." If she wants to stay in this marriage, then she has to contribute somehow. She is not working to feed her mouth, she doesn't do housework, and so on. And I am tired of having to take her to the washroom and hold her while she does her smelly disgusting business and opening doors for her and ...

Should I divorce and dump her? I will not do that right away coz I don't like sleeping alone (coz i m scared of sleeping alone at night and i work during the day, so have 2 sleep at night) until i find a woman with sexy legs. i really love her and that's y i m struggling with the "To dump or not do dump" thing. Also she and her family don't have much but i have spent over a hundred thousand dollars on this useless thing's medical bills alone but will I be able to successfully sue her and her family for the medical bills,

2007-12-27 04:48:12 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The breasts ... what do they mean to you?

2007-12-27 04:47:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is the one thing that you always wanted for Christmas when you were a kid but you never got it?

2007-12-27 04:47:01 · 9 answers · asked by SpoiledPrincess 2 in Family

On christmas day this year, my boyfriend waited until all the gifts were unwrapped, then hands me a box from a real jeweler (from the mother's ring he had given me 2 years ago) inside was an engagement ring

I wasnt sure at first why he would do that, and didnt know how to react. He knows I really dont want to get married again, I was just really confused - he even gave me a look (but didnt say anything) to prompt me to say something.

After careful examination (he still hadnt said anything) I pulled the ring out of the box & saw it was 4 sizes too big for me. Then I realized he could never afford a ring like that (about 1.5 carats total, 5 "diamonds"

My daughter finally blurted out that he had bought it at Wal-Mart for $10. All the time I wasthinking that I didnt want to embarrass him by saying no in front of my kids, thats why I didnt say anything

Has anyone ever heard of someone doing something like this? Im all for a good joke, but I feel weird about this one...

2007-12-27 04:46:56 · 4 answers · asked by cre8ivgurl 1 in Singles & Dating

Im not quite sure why this happens but everytime my boyfriend and I get with his family they make a comment about his friends being married and with kidsand imply that why aren't we married yet. and how much they want to be grandparents!! Now I am 20 years old and he is 27, we have been dating for 2 years. I am not looking to get married right now I would love to but not til after I finish school. My question is what is the big deal about him and I not being married with his family. We don't live with each other, We don't have any kids . Could someone help me understand why? I don't know if I should ever say anything. All I can ever do is just sit there and smile because I feel that is all I really can do cuz it isn't my family its his.

2007-12-27 04:45:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

at my ultrasound today we found out we were having a girl.this is my second child with my husband. (from previous marriages he has 3 sons with me he has another daughter). he actually cried i felt so bad because i know he wanted another boy.hes been ignoring me and slamming things around the house wat should i do

2007-12-27 04:45:35 · 19 answers · asked by jelly bean 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well there's this boy we hang out all the time and i keep having dreams me and him are going out or were getting married. What does this mean?

2007-12-27 04:43:36 · 3 answers · asked by Meggy meg 1 in Singles & Dating

My husbad and I are going through child custody battle for our 4 children. Unfortunately, I left them with him temporary to relocate in another state and plan on returning for them. He now wants to fight for custody. The thing is he is a state trooper and he is very irresponsible and I feel unfit to continue to have custody of our children. When he comes home he leaves his gun out all over the place (kitchen counter, kitchen table, top of the frig, and even in the middle of the bahtroom floor!). Our son once was found showing it off to a friend. He also leaves the house wide open, the doors unlocked, the windows up, the curtains wide open, all the lights on at night when everyone is asleep in bed while he leaves the house to go run errors and thinks it's ok. I am the one primarily involved in their lives, school work and activities. Since I left grades have dropped to D's and F's from A's & B's. Is this enough to get custody even though he has them now and will try to claim abandonment

2007-12-27 04:43:13 · 16 answers · asked by Bnice2me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have raised my stepdaughter has my own since she was three years old, her real mother had passed away.Now she is getting married and wants a picture to be present of her real mother. I feel very hurt because at three yrs old what memories can she have of her real mother.I am the one that has been there all these years and now she is 28 yrs old. and still there for her.i feel this is disrespect to me. she can carry her mother in her heart and keep all the pictures she wants but why bring it to her wedding?need some opinions..

2007-12-27 04:41:29 · 28 answers · asked by Cheryl 2 in Weddings

Unfortunately, this is a true story, people!
I'll keep this is as short as possible! :)

Christmas Eve ... I cooked dinner for my BF and kids. He fell asleep on the couch while I was putting kids to bed .... After, he woke up very CRANKY! We wrapped all of the Santa gifts, and he was a jerk the whole time .... in a foul mood and not talking to me. When we finished, he started to watch t.v, so I said: "I'm going to bed now!"

I woke up at midnight to find he had up and LEFT and went home w/o telling me!! :( So, I sent I called his cell (no answer) and sent him 10 text messages that ranged from: "How could you ruin my Christmas this way?" ..... to "Please let me know you at least made it home safely!" (he lives 1 hr. away)

FINALLY - at 5am he sends me this text: "I'm home"

WTF.....? I am sooo MAD! He is now in Fla. visiting family ... and is now sending me text messages ... but I am too angry to respond.

What is the BEST course of action for me to take ??

2007-12-27 04:41:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughter's father and I split when she was 1 yrs. old. He is very involved with my daughter. He recently married a very nice woman whome I like very much and so does my daughter. I know he is cheating on her but I don't know if it's my place to inform her. I don't want her to get hurt and I especially don't want my daughter to have to suffer through when she loses her step-mom that she is close too. I feel guilty knowing what he is doing and not saying anything....

2007-12-27 04:40:09 · 17 answers · asked by klynn598 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I recieved i missed call from a random number, while i was at work. So the next day i called twice( from my mums phone) to see who it was, no answer!
The next day i get a text asking whos this? So i text back saying: I should be asking you the same question, i had a missed call the other night, and i said who i was and i asked who are u? So he text back sayin sorry i thought u called me cause i didnt have this number before. So then i text from my phone, sayin yea u did call me from this number, and whats ur name? the person said sorry for bothering me and it was maybe a wrong number, so then i text back well have a happy new year who ever u are, wish u would tell me your name. He text back sayin, i find it best to keep it mysterious have a great year all the best.
Then found out going through my mates phone it was my ex's number, he obviously changed his number, but he rang me, then didnt wanna say who he was. Why did he ring me in the first place? We havent spoke in 5 months.

2007-12-27 04:39:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm terrified to be in my own house, and i dont know what to do. I'm home alone today with my brother, and he scares me so much. less then an hour ago he squeezed my arms really really hard, and i was trapped since he is much stronger than me. he can easily hurt me, and often times does. my mom doesnt seem to give a crap, but im afraid one day he'll kill me. what do i do?

2007-12-27 04:39:27 · 11 answers · asked by Whatupdawg 3 in Family

I was eating rice last night and my girlfriend made me laugh so hard that I snorted rice right into my nose canal...how do i remove the damn rice...I tried sneezing it out and its stuck. HELP!!!!

2007-12-27 04:39:06 · 7 answers · asked by Cerealkiller 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My 15 year old cousin is dating a guy I went to high school with (hes 26ish). As if that weren't bad enough, she got preggo, and had a miscarriage. She is devistated, and I am just looking for some advice on what to do here. I want to tell her shes ruining her life, and that hes a peice of crap for dating a girl so young, and that losing that baby was most likely the greatest thing to happen in her life. I also know that I don't want to push her away forever, as we're pretty close and she confides a lot in me, so I can't just fly off the handle and say these things to her. Anyone know how to handle this delicate situation without crushing her feelings? And, yes, her parents are now aware of the situation...her older brother, whom the pedophile also went to school with, is also aware of the situation. Just looking for some sensitive advice here, and save us both the time on the hate mail and insensitive comments. I dont need that right now. Thanks!

2007-12-27 04:38:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships