I have tried getting her every type of broom, etc but she says that it's difficult coz she lost her legs and I am like, "Sweety, you lost your legs and not your hands." If she wants to stay in this marriage, then she has to contribute somehow. She is not working to feed her mouth, she doesn't do housework, and so on. And I am tired of having to take her to the washroom and hold her while she does her smelly disgusting business and opening doors for her and ...
Should I divorce and dump her? I will not do that right away coz I don't like sleeping alone (coz i m scared of sleeping alone at night and i work during the day, so have 2 sleep at night) until i find a woman with sexy legs. i really love her and that's y i m struggling with the "To dump or not do dump" thing. Also she and her family don't have much but i have spent over a hundred thousand dollars on this useless thing's medical bills alone but will I be able to successfully sue her and her family for the medical bills,
2007-12-27 04:48:12 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sue her and her family for medical bills (I have saved the receipts for this), food, spending so much time and money on taking care of her, etc. if she had no legs b4 marriage, i wud never have touched her but now i m stuck. but i really love her. Help me with your advice, plz.
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2007-12-27 04:49:50 · update #1
i know that she and they can't come with the money right away but I am going nowhere, i m sure that they can pay it to me over a period of 20 years and do so with interest.
2007-12-27 04:51:02 · update #2
Don't marriage vows say... for better for worse and in sickness and in health?
You also say that you spent a lot of money on her. Doesn't your job have health/medical insurance? And why didn't you add her to your plan after you two got married? Additionally, you will be unable to sue her parents for her medical bills, as SHE is YOUR spouse and hence YOUR responsibility.
That's about as much time that I want to waste on this useless TROLL question.
Good luck to you. I hope that you do divorce her, so that she can RAKE in the alimony payemts from your sorry a s s!!
2007-12-27 04:56:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can sue her for medical. Are you out of your mind? When you signed the marriage contract you obligated yourself to take care of this woman under any condition. This means it's your legal and moral responsibility to look after her health. In fact,she can sue you if you don't... And by the way, good luck explaining the judge "Umm I'm dumping her, now that she needs me more than ever, because I'm an *** and she lost her leg".
You don't know young man (I assume you're under 22) what it's like to be handy capped for a couple of days, nor for all your life...
Get her a maid! that's the least you can do.. and you.. You get some therapy...
Oh! by the way, I'm a man, 35, and you're an Inmature kid with to much time to loose and not many resposibilities... I really hope she dumps you....
2007-12-27 05:08:52 · answer #2 · answered by etherberg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that lazy woman. what the hell is wrong with her. Maybe you can put a leash around her neck and a terry cloth robe on her and just use her as a dust mop and drag her across the floor you moron! Is this the same drunken fiance that signed the pre-nup? Maybe thats why she was drunk. Maybe she was in mourning for her legs. get a life loser, and stop wasting precious space. there are real people out there with real problems and your just playing around.
2007-12-27 05:10:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 39. She needs professional counseling. I'm sure it's difficult to be in her position. It looks as if she's lost her identity as a worthwhile human being. Unfortunately, you're the one getting the flak! I have to admire you for hanging in there, and working hard to keep things together. Yes, you're frustrated and angry!
But if you love her, then help her to regain her life. In doing that, you'll regain yours as well.
I am not sure about this, but I don't believe you can sue her family for her medical bills even if you divorce. As your wife, you are legally and financially responsible for her.
Best of luck to you! You have a hard road ahead, but I'm sure you'll be fine.
Ivy
2007-12-27 04:57:26 · answer #4 · answered by ivykunecke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all im 22 , second of all your story doesnt make any sense...you have a very vivid imagination i dont think this is a true life story...if this is a true story then you dont really love her...if you loved her you would do anythign for her..youd go through thick and thin for her...you really took alot of time just to write this question thats probly not even true ...was it just to get a reaction from ppl?
2007-12-27 04:56:12 · answer #5 · answered by jamie l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could be grew to become on if I caught a bloke having a w*nk, on an identical time as sniffing my unwashed undies, yet no longer wearing it, that could in simple terms placed me in to hysterics!! possibly a ideal guy doing the home household projects bare could however!
2016-11-25 19:42:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women will do just about anything to get out of their duties. Lost her legs, thats a poor excuse.
2007-12-27 05:00:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just in case this is all true and not bull...t as I first thought:
housework - cleaner
alone sleeping - inflatable doll
the wife should divorce you by the way.
oh yes and you do not love her!
2007-12-27 05:03:56 · answer #8 · answered by Sam 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can always get your poor invalid wife a housekeeper. Then the housekeeper can sleep in your bed so you won't be so lonely. Your wife should divorce you!
2007-12-27 04:57:31 · answer #9 · answered by Nancy M 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am on to you. You ask questions to incite people. You are probably in your dorm room jerking off to the angry answers, and for that I applaud you. Congratulations on your creativity.
2007-12-27 04:52:33 · answer #10 · answered by lyndsaym2003 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋