Unfortunately, this is a true story, people!
I'll keep this is as short as possible! :)
Christmas Eve ... I cooked dinner for my BF and kids. He fell asleep on the couch while I was putting kids to bed .... After, he woke up very CRANKY! We wrapped all of the Santa gifts, and he was a jerk the whole time .... in a foul mood and not talking to me. When we finished, he started to watch t.v, so I said: "I'm going to bed now!"
I woke up at midnight to find he had up and LEFT and went home w/o telling me!! :( So, I sent I called his cell (no answer) and sent him 10 text messages that ranged from: "How could you ruin my Christmas this way?" ..... to "Please let me know you at least made it home safely!" (he lives 1 hr. away)
FINALLY - at 5am he sends me this text: "I'm home"
WTF.....? I am sooo MAD! He is now in Fla. visiting family ... and is now sending me text messages ... but I am too angry to respond.
What is the BEST course of action for me to take ??
2007-12-27 04:41:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In his text messages he has NOT apologized .... :( One said: "Thinking of you! XOXOX"
Big deal, right .... ?
2007-12-27 04:43:27 · update #1
Be patient and wait until you can talk to him face to face. It's hard to explain oneself in text messages.
If after you've had the opportunity to speak face to face he's still being a horse's patoot then kick him to the curb and move on!
xoxo
2007-12-27 04:52:31 · answer #1 · answered by Durga sings the classics 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just cuddle him like the way that i do to my love ones!
Added:
AW! I've been out for several days! I can't keep up with posting answers and questions. I'd better get some well- deserved timeout. I don't know how long will it last but i'm sure i'll be back some other time.
2007-12-27 12:45:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would just ignore it (his rude actions) for now, which i'm sure is next to impossible. unless you want to break up with him over it. is he always a jerk? i'm not the best one to give advise because i've stuck with the same guy through all sorts of b.s. what your bf did is really cold though. when he gets back you have to have a talk with him and find out just what is going on. if you love each other things have a way of working out. i'm sorry he did this to you on christmas, mine has ruined several holidays for me so i can sympathize, hang in there.. :) (i would answer his messages though )
2007-12-27 12:52:08 · answer #3 · answered by adrienne ant 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump him and date me .....but before you do ......my job sucks ,,well money any way right now .....i rent a room from my ex girl friend...were very good friends though...i dont have a car ....and my drivers license is suspended....
sooooo your best course of action .....dump him and date me
also i guess you didnt do what i suggested on your other question .....just tinsel and santa clause hat remember....oh yea and pictures for me lol
but if you want a serious answer.....wait until he gets back and ask him what his effin problem is ....if he doesnt like christmas oh well get over it hes in a relationship with a woman that has kids start acting the way he should.
2007-12-27 13:23:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sucks when you give all you have, yet it's never enough. One day he'll see how hard you tried... It may be too late by then though. Sorry. I do hope you have a very happy new year!
2007-12-27 13:02:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know, some people sometimes doeasnt realise that they did something wrong. if you think this relationship is worth, take a deep breath. and doing something nice with him, yeah like cuddle or something. till you're not mad anymore. then if you calm already, ask him and tell him what you feel. and that what he did just so wrong.
2007-12-27 12:49:01 · answer #6 · answered by syubidupapap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe just once in your life temporarily be a not-so-nice-girl and go out with a guy you know is hung like a horse!
2007-12-27 21:42:44 · answer #7 · answered by Kentucky Dave 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wait and have a face to face when he gets back. You deserve an explanation. But anger makes us say some things we wish we hadn't. Cool down and talk it out when he gets back.
2007-12-27 12:59:34 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Pretty♥ ♥Kitty♥ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
maybe something happened that is too hard for him to talk about. or maybe he is just a big jerk off that you deserve much better than. just confront him about it and asks if everything is ok.
good luck =]
2007-12-27 12:45:58 · answer #9 · answered by kendra (: 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men, what can I say. I can tell you holidays are very hard for people to deal with. Follow your heart.
2007-12-27 13:49:29 · answer #10 · answered by wolfkiss 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋