if a girl didn't "do it" with you would you
A.respect her and like her more
B.be mad or upset with her a break up
C.respect her but not like her anymore
...please be honest
2007-12-27 04:52:44 · 25 answers · asked by Sugarrr. :) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A for sure and you better keep it up like that, if your relationship with a guy is based on whether you put out or not he is not the right guy for you, a guy that really likes you will wait as you should also
2007-12-27 04:58:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is not a question that is simply answered because there are many subsections an honest answer would evoke, all of which stem from how this guy views the woman at the outset. I'm not sure I'm up to such an enormous undertaking (explaining the differences with any degree of credibility), but I'll humbly give it a try.
If this lady represented someone he was deeply feeling; that is, they connected on a really intense level, then yes, he would respect her and like her even more. (This doesn't mean any other woman he meets couldn't evolve to that level, but this type of lady has an early edge in his heart.)
Other women are perceived as gyrating nerve-endings and sirens of potential sensual experience. That was the initial attraction (whether real or imagined), and he's tunnel-vision focused on getting her, and he at times is incapable of seeing anything past that. This type of guy with this type of girl may do either B or C, dependent on his level of maturity and sensitivity. Realize that what I said is only one man's opinion, and only true in the most general of ways. Guys, like ladies are all unique and complex. I hope this sheds light on the subject in a way that will do you some good. Happy New Year, and good luck.
2007-12-27 16:45:44 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"A" all the way... total respect. Everyone likes a challenge anyways... plus you would become more desired if they really care for you. Its actually a good way to weed out the Romeos versus the one that will cherish you... but if you like a certain guy, be sure to compliment his physical attributes so he doesnt get too confused, ie: chest, hair, eyes, arms, etc... someting to reinforce his confidence... its important coming from you.
2007-12-27 13:05:40 · answer #3 · answered by chequemate 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll be completely honest, and say a bit of A & C- however I would NOT dump her. I would be patient and wait it out a while (when 'doing it' is concerned).
I have nobody to 'do it' with now, so its not all that bad on a guy really- he would live.
2007-12-27 12:58:06 · answer #4 · answered by Diadem 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be A. if it was me, but some guys think that if a girl doesn't "do it" then they don't love them. If your boyfriend tries pressuring you into doing something you don't want to or not ready for then you need to tell him honestly that if he cannot respect your wishes, then you and he aren't meant to be together. Think about it, if he is pressuring you into this what will he want you to do next?
2007-12-27 13:14:15 · answer #5 · answered by wildfire78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would all depend on how she turned me down. In cases like this honesty will always be helpful. Before sex comes up tell exactly why you don't feel ready, if he likes you he will try to wait. If he feels that you are leading him on then problems might occur, so just be upfront.
2007-12-27 12:58:41 · answer #6 · answered by Jon C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i'd go with A. Because well hey what if i'm not ready to then i'd get mad over nothing. You sould still like her even if she says no thats my opinion. If another guys doesn't like your opinion then he ain't the right guy.
2007-12-27 13:01:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on the situtation, if i just met you then yea i'll respect you more, but if we've been dating for a couple of months and you're leading me on then it might upset me, if you're not going to do it or don't feel comfortable taking that step you should just let him know, don't just keep stopping him in the middle of foreplay or something like that
2007-12-27 12:58:03 · answer #8 · answered by Smiley 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A, respect is a lot more, if the girl doesn't want to "do it" then don't push it, it will ruin your friendship and you could end up in trouble with the law.
2007-12-27 13:17:24 · answer #9 · answered by Archer10002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A
When my ex gf and I went into a slump in our sex life it was frustrating but there are many different reasons, busy and stress are a big part of it. So I was patient and really sex isn't everything. Unfortunately we aren't dating anymore, perhaps she choose a different letter?
2007-12-27 12:57:01 · answer #10 · answered by Karce 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋