at my ultrasound today we found out we were having a girl.this is my second child with my husband. (from previous marriages he has 3 sons with me he has another daughter). he actually cried i felt so bad because i know he wanted another boy.hes been ignoring me and slamming things around the house wat should i do
2007-12-27 04:45:35 · 19 answers · asked by jelly bean 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First and foremost your hubby needs to grow the **** up and be praying for a healthy baby. Secondly, you don't determine the sex of your baby so why is he throwing shade your way. Lastly, he can get out of his feelings because your having a girl.. Tell him to be a man and get over that because you could have not only found out your having a girl but the baby could have had birth defects, stillborn, etc to name a few things people are more concerned about then the sex. Congrats on your baby and I hope you express yourself to your husband because it's sad for a grown *** man to act like a child making it seem as if you have 6 children instead of 5. Life is too short for that...Good Luck
2007-12-27 05:35:54 · answer #1 · answered by Flyyasever 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a grade A jerk to me. Doesn't he know that the man determines the sex of the baby??
What is he, a five year old?? He sure is acting like one, ignoring you and slamming things around....no wait, I have a 5 year old who is more mature than that!
I think you should just tell him to get the f*ck over himself....any baby is a gift, and he should just be happy with what God gave you.
2007-12-27 13:36:32 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. GTO 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can see why he's been divorced more than once. Lol
It's not your fault that it's another girl. These things aren't something that you can control. Plus, he already has three sons...Isn't that enough? If he continues to be a di-ck, then tell him to grow up and stop being such a baby.
2007-12-27 14:04:10 · answer #3 · answered by darkening_hope 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to just grow up! If he's old enough to be a father, then he's old enough to know that he won't always get what he wants. Any baby, boy or girl is a precious miracle and if he can't see that then he shouldn't be having children!
2007-12-27 12:56:15 · answer #4 · answered by terribrooke 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to grow up and realize that any child is a blessing. I am a divorced dad who loves being with his son. I feel fortunate. He sounds like he needs to grow up and realize how lucky he truly is.
2007-12-27 13:47:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down and tell him to grow the hell up. His sperm is what dertermines the sex of the baby. He needs to calm down and quit acting like a child throwing a temper tantrum. I sure as hell wouldn't be putting up with that childish crap from him that's for damn sure.
2007-12-27 13:10:43 · answer #6 · answered by adrianne M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take the time to ask him whats up, accept his answer as his truth, it has nothing to do with you. Remember he is having a hard time , not you. He is acting out an emotion, rather then telling you whats up, so ask him. Who is she mad at, you or himself. Get to that answer, and it will become alot easier for you to deal with the situation. There is an answer. you just have to be willing to rock the boat a little. You can do this, start asking. I wish you a wonderful life.
2007-12-27 13:00:45 · answer #7 · answered by bonnie f 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He needs to grow up it sounds like you have enough kids to take care of. He should feel lucky to have children. I know a few people close to me who could not have children and cannot have children, it is sad that your husband is so selfish.
2007-12-27 13:21:39 · answer #8 · answered by Canuck1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes' being a baby about it... A child is a blessing from God... Any child, some people would give their life to have any baby: boy or girl...
2007-12-27 12:51:53 · answer #9 · answered by etherberg 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should leave him alone. He needs to grow up and be a real man. It takes a real man to be a good father to a daughter. Shame on him.
Be thankful you are carrying a healthy child.
leave him be til he comes to his senses. His behaviour is shameful and unwarranted.
2007-12-27 12:53:15 · answer #10 · answered by teritaur 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋