Family & Relationships - 27 December 2007

We just got married. He took the virginity of 600 young women. He would go to clubs, libraries, colleges and parks and then bring home a girl. Sometimes he would get the girl drunk.He spoke the lingo and he is very handsome.and we just got married 3 months ago. He had about 2000 young women. I can give you circumstances, dates, names. I read a book about sociopathy and he fits the bill. Do I have to try harder ? What can I expect ? How do I love such a man? What are sociopaths like ? He has already threatened leaving after 2 serious arguments. How can I change such a man ? He was badly sexually abused as a child. How should I act ? Yes, I found this out before we married and I married him because I thought no one else would.

2007-12-27 04:05:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what would you do?

2007-12-27 04:05:38 · 29 answers · asked by Qqq 4 in Singles & Dating

After the break up with the guy I am in love with I got a rebound guy to make him jealous. The guy was cute, but treated me bad. My ex had told me he wanted to focus on college and that he loved me but we couldnt be together. When I got my rebound guy he was angry (hey, he sent me off). I am now married to and have a baby with the rebound guy. I am really in love with my ex and we still talk. Ive asked my husband for a divorce on many occasions but he wont give me one because of child support and he says "Im kidding".I just dont want to be with him. How can he come between two people like this> Why wont he divorce me? I think its selfish to do this, make me miserable with him when I am always wanting someone else.

2007-12-27 04:00:24 · 26 answers · asked by Retired Punk 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What's up with that? I don't understand women sometimes...

2007-12-27 03:59:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay im 20 and hes 24 we were together for a year and then we broke up out of the blue he ended it the next thing i know hes seeing someone else 2 days later now he tells me he wants me back and he doesnt at the same time i dont understand whats going on he hurt me really bad my heart was crushed And i still love him but i am not sure if i should hang out with him or not cuz it will be playing with my feelings what does this mean when they said i want you but i dont im lost please help

2007-12-27 03:59:09 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My grandmas dating and I dont like him.....She seems so happy what do I do?

2007-12-27 03:58:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it easier to date while your living in your parents house or outside of it.

2007-12-27 03:57:52 · 15 answers · asked by Mommy! 2 in Singles & Dating

We are recently back together after a 12 year split. We were kids back then and when I ask him he says he really doesn't have spots on him that drive him nuts so I need help!! I've tried talking about it with him and it got me no where. Any sugestions? I will not bring in someone else and When it comes to Oral I have no clue really on what to do. The man I was with before said he didn't like it so I never even tried to do it.

2007-12-27 03:56:24 · 44 answers · asked by twistedtoad03 2 in Singles & Dating

I ran into a very nice guy a week ago, He was upfront honest about the fact he had a son and seemed genuine,so no harm done we swapped numbers.
He contacted me straightaway next day and spent next few days together relaxing.He even took me to see an ill family member, bought me food and wasnt after my body. It felt like we had known each other for ages, got on great and brill chemistry. HE asked ME if wanted to have a go at a very steady relationship since it felt so right. I agreed.
Christmas eve, however, he started to act strange and said I was acting strange when i had sent nothing. Ringing him back up after a lot of drinks to see why, i ended up getting very upset at him and what i can remember accusing him bad things.The next day he rang me up saying i had ruined his xmas we was over. Later that day he rang me again very erratic suddenly wanting me to stopover &calling me a psycho.He rang again next day but i missed it.
What is going off??I know im alch problem &he does drugs?

2007-12-27 03:55:59 · 2 answers · asked by Skye_Babez 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

This is so silly and I have no idea if I just have PMS or if i have a right to be mad. My fiance wants to take private tutoring language sessions. He told me that his soon to be teacher is a man but I just found out that it is a woman. I specifically had asked him if it was a woman prior to me finding out and he said no. Do I have a right to be mad?

2007-12-27 03:54:55 · 2 answers · asked by missy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

It's just over a week before our requested RSVP date. We mailed 100 invitations, but have received only 15 - 20 RSVPs so far. The caterer needs a headcount in about 2.5 weeks. I'm thinking of sending a short, friendly e-mail this weekend or early next week to remind people to please mail in their RSVP cards by January 5th. Is that ok, or is it rude? We have some friends/family who are notorious for not replying and making a decision at the last minute.

I know that it's perfectly acceptable to call people *after* the RSVP date and ask them whether or not they're coming, but I don't want to wait until that date and then have to make a few dozen phone calls in the span of a couple of evenings

Opinions?

2007-12-27 03:54:24 · 26 answers · asked by SE 5 in Weddings

Do you need an appt? I just got engaged and getting married 6.15.08 and theres a bridal shop accross from my work. do i need to make one if i want to seriously look at them? not really to turn them on NOW (could come back of course)
How does going to a bridal shop work for a wedding gown?

2007-12-27 03:52:42 · 11 answers · asked by Mom to one cute boy! 6 in Weddings

2007-12-27 03:50:10 · 34 answers · asked by tulip 4 in Singles & Dating

i m 24 she is 25 it was her 4th engagment with me mine was first but we loved eachother so much i had lost my business after engagment and problem started in us i have done mistake that i had blem her for all my lost so many times..i realised my mistake and i m in hell without her but she is not ready to come back after apologising so much at her home everyone in saying she dont wants you she will never get marry anyone now..what do i do i cant live without her..i think she knows now that i m poor is this the reason?..but i love her..y i have given her pressure for my lost..i dont know how to get her back..i cant call her anymore her family given me this warrning..what should i do i see her enjoying with friends after leaving me in this pain..what do i do..?my heart is not ready to except that she is gone..i dont know why i m waiting for her..but i love her.she has not given me one more chance to live with her..plz guys how do i get her back now ?

2007-12-27 03:49:34 · 12 answers · asked by Rex 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm just wondering who pays for the honeymoon?? I have to know because my sweetheart thanks that my parents are suppose to pay for it all.. I'm paying for most of the wedding my self because my parents aren't happy and think that i need a very very small wedding.

2007-12-27 03:48:42 · 17 answers · asked by kdrck1 2 in Weddings

I love my bf a lot.. Im a virgin and I feel ready for it. What do you think?

2007-12-27 03:40:57 · 38 answers · asked by indigo♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

anything goes?

2007-12-27 03:38:55 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had unprotected sex (he pulled out) a few weeks ago. I could potentially be pregnant. My period was soposued to come this week, but hasn't yet. I am still feeling PMS symptoms such as moodiness, bloating, munchies, backaches...all the usual. Just no bleeding yet. Is it a good sign that I'm not if I'm having PMS symptoms? Do you usually keep PMS symptoms even if you could be pregnant? OR should I worry and go buy a pregnancy test?

2007-12-27 03:37:55 · 5 answers · asked by ---- 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

wat should i do?

2007-12-27 03:37:11 · 7 answers · asked by \m/ 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm 23 and am planning on going to college two years from now. (I'm moving and I want to get resident tuition so I'm waiting a year before I enroll). Anyway, my husband wants to wait until I graduate before we start a family but I plan on getting a doctorate (Psychology-- and yes I can-- I don't need the rubbish saying it's hard and I won't be able to-- that's not the question) and I'll be at least 35 before I do. I think that's a little late to have children and besides-- it's gonna be hard to try and NOT have a kid during the 10 years I'm in school. Anyone have a similar dilemma? I want to have a family and a career that pays well but I don't want to work for a company-- which is why I'd be a Psychologist and set my own hours. Is it possible to juggle everything all at once: my marriage, school, a career, kids? Serious answers please.

2007-12-27 03:34:33 · 15 answers · asked by Avelyn 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-27 03:34:05 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married Sunday. I started planning the wedding only 4 weeks ago. I bought my dress off the rack and it fitted perfectly except for the length. I can wear a 2.5" heal and it wouldn't drag the ground, but my groom is already a half inch shorter than me. I don't have time to get the hem taken up, so should I wear the shoes that I have and be 2" taller than he is or let the dress drag the ground and wear slippers? I'm really open to either option at this time. I figure I can raise the dress whenever I go outside, so it won't get too dirty. After the wedding can a cleaner get the bottom clean enough? What do you think???? Thanks :)

2007-12-27 03:33:57 · 21 answers · asked by momof5 2 in Weddings

2007-12-27 03:33:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy I was seeing was with a girl for 2 years. He wanted to marry her, but she wasn't ready. He asked me where I thought our relationship was going. This kind of freaked me out becuase we had only been on a few dates. I said lets just have fun. During the night, he got really drunk and made out with another girl. I left and he left me all these messages saying "I'm sorry. I love you." Obviously, this is still baggage from his ex, right? Anyway, I agreed to meet him and he said that he was really hurt that I didn't see the relationship going anywhere. Time passes and he eventually dumps me because I was so insecure about this ex. Along with emotional games, I freaked out when she falsely claimed they were back together on facebook. He said I have trust issues, which is probably right, but hasn't he given me reason to doubt him?

2007-12-27 03:31:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just ended a relationship of 20 years and the empathizer in me can't get over the guilt at the hurt he's feeling.

2007-12-27 03:31:36 · 16 answers · asked by djjroberts 3 in Marriage & Divorce

it was maybe at age 8 my aunt died and i was adopted at age 5 do you think that my aunt that i got close to first in my new family may have something to do with my depression or is it something else my question is what do you think makes me feel depressed every christmas and then it goes away after words and how can i make it not come back or is it always just going to be part of my life. i feel so fresh and happy now. but around november it will return once again.
so what do you think about it?
just a thought so be nice i know alot of people try to be mean but, try to understand others feelings on things and good luck with the question......Happy New Years!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-12-27 03:30:40 · 10 answers · asked by daisy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ok very long story short----

met this bloke a few wks ago-he still had a house with his ex but he worked days and she worked night so they never see each other-he said he sleeps on the settee now and the only thing he loves in that house is his new TV lol.

i REALLY like him-i am a different person when i think of him-caring, romantic etc (i'm usually cold and hard lol). he says he feels the same way as me and he tells me im 'amazing' etc. he has also told his friends and family about me even though he is technically still living with someone.

he said in the new year things will be different and he said he wants us to be together properly (which is what i want) obviously i wouldnt expect him to move out over christmas as that wouldnt be fair. should i wait? i have a feeling he could be a very special person after many failed relationships.

2007-12-27 03:27:58 · 12 answers · asked by BscHons 6 in Singles & Dating

He has been to the doctor and HE said that he said to spice things up. I have tried everything. He just seems like he doesn't want sex from me. I don't understand. He is 46 and I am 47. I keep in shape and dress sexy. Sex was good for the first year after that nothing. We might have sex every 2 or 3 months...HELP. I don't want a sexless relationship

2007-12-27 03:27:04 · 8 answers · asked by Cindy C 1 in Singles & Dating

He took the virginity of over 600 women. How should I pray for those women. What kind of man was my husband and how should I act around him ? How do I quit the comparison game with all those young women ? My husband was sexually abused when he was a child. Me and my husband just got married, how easy will it be for him to leave me if we have a big argument ? Should I try harder. He was with other young women, lots of them who were nonvirgins when he was younger. I read a book about sociopaths and my husband fits the bill. How should I act ?

2007-12-27 03:26:36 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend has been depressed lately and last night he said he was staying at his friends house since we live on the other side of town and his car is broke and he has to go into work early and didn't want to bother me. Well at 3:15am his boss left a message asking why he hasn't shown up for work and that he is mad that he has done this a couple times lately. I talked with his boss this morning and he never showed up. So should I confront him about not going to work or wait and give him a chance to come clean?

2007-12-27 03:25:09 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating