I love my bf a lot.. Im a virgin and I feel ready for it. What do you think?
2007-12-27 03:40:57 · 38 answers · asked by indigo♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-12-27 03:43:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Honestly sweetheart, you might want to think about that. T.V. and society these days makes sex seem so easy and uncomplicated for those who are not married. Bottom line is that that is when it becomes complicated. Sex was not intended for those outside of marriage...You don't want to lose your virginity to someone at a young age...that can be emotionally, physically and mentally damaging. If you lose it to this guy and say he leaves you in a few months. You gave up the goodies!!! Never again can you get them back and now you aren't even with the guy you thought you were meant to be with...imagine how that may make you feel. At 16, you run the chance of having a good 4 or 5 different loves by the time you hit 25yrs old...if you are lucky, he might be the ONE. Just wait and find out first when you are ready to be married. I promise you, that is the easiest way not to worry about having sex.
2007-12-27 04:13:01 · answer #2 · answered by JC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask then probably you need more time, sex is not about getting off its about emotions, especially for a girl. I was 14 when I had sex the first time and if I could change that I would because I didnt understand just how special the first time should be. I will never have another first time and neither will you. The girl I was with had sex before and I did it because I wanted to prove to myself I was an adult. But now I am in a really special relationship after many years of looking, I am 27. If I were still a virgin it would have been so special to share my first time with them the person I know I love. I have a friend who is 24 and she hasnt had sex yet and she is getting married, now I know this is not for everyone but she is thankful she listened to my advice when she wanted to do it. I say your virginity is yours to keep or use how you wish but remember it can never be taken back and it will always be remembered for better or worse. Good Luck and please if you do use a condom it protects from more than just babies and AIDS. Keep well
2007-12-27 03:50:17 · answer #3 · answered by Steven C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is up to you. personally i think you are ready. i think if you are at least 15 you are ready for sex. Althought most people do when they are married or around 25, younger is fine as long as you take care not to hurt yourself! Safe sex is definitly the best way to go. If you feel you are ready then go for it. Sex strenghthens your realationship and it is fun for both of you.But do consider pregnancy, if you are not ready for a child, then dont really go far with it. Casual sex is also an option. While having sex just take your time and look on the bright side. If you do become pregnant and you do not want a child you can usually get your parents to raise the child for you. If the pregnancy wasn't intended you can always do one of two things. Have your parents help bringing up the child. Or donate the egg to another person at the hospital.
2007-12-27 12:54:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he has pressured you in any way, then you should not go for it. If he hasn't, then you it's up to you where you want to go next.
If you feel ready for it tell him so. Once you have both discussed having sex, be sure to take all of the necessary precautions.
As a secondary precaution (this one to guard your feelings), hold off the sex for at least one month after you and your boyfriend have had your discussion and don't tell him how much longer you'll be putting off having sex with him. If he respects your decision to wait an undefined amount of time and sticks around without pressuring you to have sex, then have at him!
2007-12-27 03:51:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you are ready for the emotional part of having sex then go for it...if not then wait. But I think its too young...why wont you wait for marriage?? There is nothing like having her husband be the first and last!!
2007-12-27 03:44:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are too young. Think of it this way, if you are not ready for the responsibility of a child, then don't have sex.
2007-12-27 03:45:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I was 17 and wished I waited a little while longer. Maybe 18. I recommend waiting. You may feel different in a few years. But if you are going to do it, insist he use a condom. I know you love and trust him, but insist! And maybe start birth control.
2007-12-27 03:44:28 · answer #8 · answered by Snapdragon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it, just wait until you get married, if you do he might just leave you, just because you "love" your boyfriend doesn't mean you have to give up your virginity. Be wise, if he loves you, then he'll marry you. There are other ways to show that you love someone besides sex, don't sell yourself short. Don't you want to marry as a virgin? I know I do.
2007-12-27 03:49:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are
a) a minor
b) not living on your own yet
c) without a stable job and stable income
d) and substantial amount of independence and social skills
then yes, you ARE too young for sex. Sorry, dear.
2007-12-27 03:44:51 · answer #10 · answered by Shooting STELLAR Press (MISAWA) 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋