Okay im 20 and hes 24 we were together for a year and then we broke up out of the blue he ended it the next thing i know hes seeing someone else 2 days later now he tells me he wants me back and he doesnt at the same time i dont understand whats going on he hurt me really bad my heart was crushed And i still love him but i am not sure if i should hang out with him or not cuz it will be playing with my feelings what does this mean when they said i want you but i dont im lost please help
2007-12-27 03:59:09 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't go back out with him because he broke your heart and he's your ex for reason, right? try to move on, okay?
-ConfusedGirlForever *(Diane N)*
2007-12-27 04:02:50 · answer #1 · answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Odds are if it was "two days later" something was going on before the break up. Now things are a bit not-so-greener on the otherside of the fence for whatever reason, he probably wants the better of the two worlds... what happens the next time though? Can you go through this again after you get back together? He broke up for a reason, and you are both young to explore.
2007-12-27 04:02:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
this just happened to me im 22 and hes 25. DONT GO BACK! Dont even see him things will happen that you regret, it is way too soon. chances are he does miss you and realized he made a mistake but he may just want to hook up. The fact that there was another girl involved so soon means he is still out to have fun and not for love and commitment. Let him go!
2007-12-27 04:04:21 · answer #3 · answered by MOOCHY 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow! this one is plain and simple and right out in the open! Does anyone else see this. Ok you break up out of the blue and hes seeing someone else two days later? you just dont see someone else two days later hhhmmmm he was already seeing her and he just didnt know how to end it with you before hand. next up..now his relationship with her has gone bunk and he wants some *** from you! How do I know this? Because hes telling you he wnats to be with you again but at the same time he doesnt wnat to be with you. he's keeping you confused about him but that one part of him still wnats you..his pecker! Drop him and send him packing!
2007-12-27 04:03:28 · answer #4 · answered by I Love Me a Freakin Good Burrito 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Do not take this man back. He left for greener pastures and now that things aren't working out, he wants to come back to you--until he finds another Miss Right. He wants to be assured of having regular sex, in the meantime. You may still love him, but he doesn't love you and if you're foolish enough to take him back, he'll break your heart again.
When they say I want you but I don't, it means they want you until the right girl comes along. Don't fall into this guys trap again!
2007-12-27 04:07:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He wants new sex for lack of a better phrasing that would just be bleeped out. Did he screw her yet? Don't go back into this relationship - I personally think that it will only end in more heartache for you, and you are too young for that. Go out and be single for a while, find out who you are, do some soul searching (I know it can be tough at your age, hell its tough at my age!). If you were my sister (who is about 6 years older than you) I'd tell her to move on (not that she'd listen to me). He doesn't know what he wants so while he mires in the confusion he strings you along with this I want you and I don't crap. That's a lame a-ss head game. You deserve better and you need to believe it and treat yourself accordingly.
2007-12-27 04:11:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it could mean a bunch of things....like he could be jelous as in since you two arent a couple no more maybe he dont want to see you with another man, or it could also mean he has feelings for you and for this other woman but doesnt want to chose......in other words this isnt the first man out there in the world to confuse a woman (or in this case two women)....go with your heart if you think he is going to leave you again then say you dont want him back and try to move on if you sure you still have feelings for him and you think he would never do that again then maybe give him a second chance. good luck!
2007-12-27 04:06:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Although everyone deserves a second chance, I wouldn't commit to anything right off. The two of you should hang out for a while, get to know each other again. You'll want to make sure that it's for real and he's not gonna just up and leave you again. Be friends first and then consider moving it up a notch. Good luck
2007-12-27 04:06:44 · answer #8 · answered by Mikey D 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Hmmm, I feel like I've been there before. And it didn't have a happy ending for me. I think from my experience you should ignore him and stay away from him. He seems confused and selfish. It's like he wants you because he doesn't want to be alone , but he doesn't want a relationship from you. He is being honest with you now so you don't act surprise later on when he tells you he doesn't want a relationship with you.
2007-12-27 04:05:09 · answer #9 · answered by Bittersweet_emotions 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't be fooled twice, continue to be the "X". Don't be his emotional punching bag!! I'll bet in a few more weeks he'll move right on the someone else. He may have a couple you don't know anything about right now! Just stand back & watch!
2007-12-27 04:01:48 · answer #10 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Think of how much he hurt you. if he was really kind to you in the past except for that one incident, maybe you two should try being together again. Just make sure he doesn't hurt you ever again. if he does, forget him and move on. good luck!
2007-12-27 04:02:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋