This is so silly and I have no idea if I just have PMS or if i have a right to be mad. My fiance wants to take private tutoring language sessions. He told me that his soon to be teacher is a man but I just found out that it is a woman. I specifically had asked him if it was a woman prior to me finding out and he said no. Do I have a right to be mad?
2007-12-27 03:54:55 · 2 answers · asked by missy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am feeling like he has something to hide..... would you or am I overreacting? He is going to this lady's home to learn.
2007-12-27 03:57:45 · update #1
I wouldn't be happy that he lied- but I would also ask myself what I might have done to make him lie. What made you ask that question to begin with? If you treat him with suspicion, he is going to lie alot, just to avoid an argument. What would you have said if he had told you the truth the first time? Would you have questioned him about whether she was atractive, if she was single, etc? If you ask those kinds of questions a lot, you are setting yourself up for a bad situation. You need to trust him.
2007-12-27 04:19:14 · answer #1 · answered by sarah jane 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I say your over reacting just a bit. He lied to you because he was afrid you would react this way and you did. On the other hand he did lie, but you are marrying this man, you need to learn to trust each other.
2007-12-27 12:00:22 · answer #2 · answered by Dogna M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋