I am 19 y/o guy and in my second semester of college and never kissed or touched a girl at all. I think girls are really attractive just always to shy and no girl ever interested in me. I like many things but the one thing I have done most my life is box. I am damn good at it too when I was about 15 started sparring guys most were 40 pounds + over my weight and in there 20s. Boxing has been natural for me unlike girls. So I will probably go pro. haha so I guess I got off topic just how much I like boxing. ALright so I think its time I just gave up hope on ever finding a girl. I have never even been able to talk to girls much. I dont know I guess I was just meant to be alone. I dont know there is just a part of me that is always thinking about girls and some day getting married. I am slowly getting rid of that feeling though. NO girl has ever been interested and I think its time to just forget aboutit and move on. What do you think?????
2007-12-27 02:05:31 · 11 answers · asked by I like to drink 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I dont think I was meant to fall in love. I am just not very social and I guess I really dont need anyone, so I think I was made to be able to handle life on my own.
2007-12-27 02:10:23 · update #1
Well if you "forget about it and give up on girls" then whats next? "Move on" to guys? (not that there's anything wrong with that) C'mon - you cannot give up on something you want so badly - you just have to find someone that interested in you - and likes you for who you are - it's not a bad thing waiting - best of luck - xoxo
2007-12-27 02:10:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I think you are just a tad bit young to throw in the towel just yet.
Have some confidence about yourself. I find it hard to believe that No girl has ever been interested. With your low self esteem, you probably have just never noticed. If you want to have someone in your life then you need to make that a priority. Putt yourself out there and start looking. You will need to open up a bit and try to get over your shyness. Girls won't always come to you so you need to make an effort on your part. Good Luck.
2007-12-27 02:18:18 · answer #2 · answered by Teresa S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should give up on anything at the age of 19- your life is just beginning. It might not seem that way, but believe me, there is a whole world out there waiting for you.
If you want to find a girl who is interested in you, start by being interested in a girl- be interested in what she has to say, what she is doing with her life, become her friend- and then see what happens. A girl isn't going to come knocking on your door out of the blue.
2007-12-27 02:11:43 · answer #3 · answered by sarah jane 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't give up, but it is time to focus on other things for the time being. You are 19 years old and the "priorities" of the girls you meet will begin to change as you get older. Keep yourself happy and keep your mind open. My guess is you will find someone for you when you least expect it.
BTW, don't think that you have to latch on to the first girl that shows interest, I have seen many "late blooming" guys fall for that and it is rough. Keep your chin up and I am sure it will work out just fine.
2007-12-27 02:21:47 · answer #4 · answered by JA in SC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me when I say... Your too young to give up on love. I didnt find "love" until I was 28 and am now 31 and very happy with who I am and my husband. There is someone out there for you that likes the same things you do and that you will feel comfortable talking to and going with. Dont give up. Thats is the last thing you want to do. Concentrate on your love for boxing and the rest will come with time
2007-12-27 02:20:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sounds like you have desided already that you will be alone. but from the way you talk you give off the impression you dont want to get to know anyone. beleive me there are girls out there that noticed you and interrested but you have this invisable wall up that says in big letters. i dont need anyone. and boxing there are girls that like it to. just try to open up smile make eye contact hell if if a class with one you want to talk to act like you didnt understand something or get all the homework notes wrote down and ask if she did you will have to put forth effort in this to talk to girls to. once you start to open up a new world will to. nothing wrong with late bloomers sometimes they make the best lovers. good luck and hang in there.
2007-12-27 02:40:59 · answer #6 · answered by tweettreat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look Sweetheart.Keep your virginity until you get married. Focus on your boxing b/c trust me females and sex and relationships will throw you off course if you wanna go PRO.It sounds like your dream. Realize it and the women will come in time. Trust me. Stay sweet and be Safe. This is so refreshing.
2007-12-27 02:14:03 · answer #7 · answered by sxymamasora 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all your nineteen! yes i think you should give up for a while, but dont shut yourself down. Let them come to you. Be a social butterfly and they will flock to you. You dont need a girl now anyways, you still have palmela handerson. I'm smoking hot and 20 (yes i'm female) and it works for me. i dont really want a guy and dont have one, but i get hit on alot and that oddly enough seems to saticfy me, good luck
2007-12-27 02:25:10 · answer #8 · answered by Christine D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both my fiance and I are really shy and neither of us notice when people are hitting on us. We both stepped out of our comfort zone, managed a first date, and fate took over from there. You will find your soul mate one day when you are ready to find her and she is ready to be found.
2007-12-27 02:38:18 · answer #9 · answered by Angela O 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your WAY to young to give up on girls. Just don't focus on it and it will come naturally. Just when you don't think so it will come. In fact you can give up on girls all you want but one of these days............there she will be!
2007-12-27 02:14:28 · answer #10 · answered by LilSunbeam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋