Sensible answers only please! I am 18 and have come from a religious and over protective family.As soon as I went to University I started rebelling. I have been there for 3 months and so far I have had sexual intercourse with one man(my boyfriend of 2 years who I don't really love but who I know loves me) and have been sexually intimate with 4 men overall (all one night stands). The reason I never had sex with my bf before was because I wasn't allowed out of my house for long enough. I wanted to lose my virginity to a man that was a virgin too which is why I waited to lose it to my boyfriend but now it's gone I don't know how I'll react the next time someone tries it on. I feel awful after I'm sexually intimate with guys because they just leave and forget all about you. I feel used. My bf never makes me feel like that.So am I a ****?
2007-12-27 01:48:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
your not the only one but if your behavior doesnt stop and you keep doing this you will feel terrible about yourself so be careful and use protection because you are only 18 you still have alot of life lessons ahead of you like who are you going to trust and who is going to use you
2007-12-27 01:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by dreamweaver 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not a ****, your just experiencing life. Tons of college guys do it all the time, so your no different than them.
However if you don't like the road your going down maybe you should pull back a bit. It's one thing to have be in a faithful relationship and be sexually active, but to have numerous one night stands and still a boyfriend... maybe you should pick and choose your life.
Coming into this semester make it your mission to make the right decisions and try not to do anything you won't regret. If you don't want to feel use, pick and choose the people you want to be with. Make a lasting relationship with them, instead of a half of minute encounter.
2007-12-27 01:57:48 · answer #2 · answered by Destin2be 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it seems you are not an unmentionable just confused. Split with boyf cos what you are doing isn't fair to him. Take some time out be single and get to know yourself as a person. Then go and find a fella that will satisfy you on every level but don't fall into bed with them straight away. Any fella worth their salt will wait for you.
2007-12-28 04:20:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have had sex with 5 different men in the course of 3 months? Yes you are and you need to stop or you will get pregnant. If your virginity was so important to you then why did you do it and do it with so many men?
2007-12-27 01:54:05 · answer #4 · answered by Lex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having one night stands while dating someone is cheating, and yes that makes you a ****. I just hope you're using protection. A good Religious raising and not being allowed to have sex at your house is irrelevant to this behavior of yours. I had the same background and am far from that lifestyle. Just please be careful!
2007-12-27 02:07:03 · answer #5 · answered by MrsMarshall=) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were curious. you did what you did. get on with your life. you may not even end up with your boyfriend so let it go. it is sad though. i always root for those high school sweetheart , happy ending things. i did the same thing to my gf many years ago and wishe i had not, but thats life in the big city. dont ever tell him, see if it works out and if it doesnt, it doesnt.
2007-12-27 01:54:28 · answer #6 · answered by Johnny U 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no , not really , your just exploring your sexuality and as you say , rebelling.
just please make sure its safe sex , ie, condoms , and getting yourself on the pill probly wouldn't go amiss.
might want to consider slowing it down just a bit tho , you dont really want to pick up a reputation , its ok to say no sometimes lol
2007-12-27 01:55:57 · answer #7 · answered by david h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r a ****... u r also very unappreciative of ur bf's luv if u dont care about him leave him alone, let him go find another girl who wont just use him
2007-12-27 01:55:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you made a wrong choice.
You should have waited until you were married.
Your virginity is something you can never get back.
2007-12-27 01:54:18 · answer #9 · answered by J T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i believe you are
cheating is the reason you are not because you had sex
if you were single and doing it you wouldnt be a S-l-u-t
but because of the boyfriend you are a trashy w-h-o-re in my humble opinion
2007-12-27 01:54:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋