my x husband sent me a court order agreement, for him to see his son for a month. My son is supposed to be back jan 4th..... but the x cant get him back til the 6th..... now reasoning cause he in military and has training on the 4th... well before he went on leave shouldnt he have knwn about this training? Plus i would like my son back on the 4th cause he has school on the7th and has not done xmas with my fiance and I...(also my fiance leaves thee 7th for training as well) i wnated some rest time in bet changes from one home to another and school........I dont have the cash for a lawyer.... do i have to agree to have my son back on the 6th? and can i still keep my orignial agreement for the 4th?
2007-12-27 02:13:23 · 8 answers · asked by prettiekittie1983 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should be able to keep your original dates. Focus on the child only not you nor your fiance. The child needs to rest and prepare for school. There is no need for the child to be pulled around the day before school. Your ex needs to make arrangements to see his son on the orginal date and if that does not happen ask for a in home visitation and be done.
2007-12-27 02:23:11 · answer #1 · answered by sxymamasora 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the problem with court orders they are not really enforceable except in a court of law. However, if your the "custodial" parent then you have some special enforcement privileges that the non-custodial parent don't have, that is IF he don't return the child on the ordered date you CAN have him charged with parental kidnapping. Certainly this is extreme but you may have to use that as leverage to motivate him to make arrangements to bring your kid back on time.
If you dont have a problem with him being away other than you and your new fiance spending time with him then I would say let him stay till the 6th. this should be all about the child spending time with dad and since you get him most the time give up a couple days and move on. I think time with dad trumps time with fiances and BFs.
good luck!
2007-12-27 02:46:42 · answer #2 · answered by Slick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the court order says it is for the 4th then he needs to have him back. If he can't then he needs to bring him home on the 3rd not after. You can always make arrangements for him to have him an extra day later on. Also he can bring him home on the 6th in the morning? That way you have some time with him to do Christmas?
2007-12-27 02:22:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the order says the 4th then that is when your son is required to be back unless you two verbally agree otherwise. You might need to go pick him up or something.
2007-12-27 02:19:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he has to come back on the 4th if that's what the court order states. And its HIS problem not yours, he needs to find whatever means he has to to return your son. Don't let him bully you around, once you give in it will be a constant thing.
2007-12-27 02:17:45 · answer #5 · answered by LilSunbeam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ought to rfile each and every time that she is meant to have her newborn and does not instruct. additionally get the female into counseling, apparently a sort of abuse is going on as a procedures through fact the mummy is in touch. Use all of this techniques mutually to get sole custody. it extremely is considerable for her to enhance up in a happy and wholesome ecosystem, if the mummy isn't offering that, then it extremely is going to be dealt with for this reason. Your fiance's daughter would be happier interior the long-term if she has a wholesome, sturdy and ordinary ecosystem to stay in.
2016-10-20 01:20:52 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's in the military for crying out loud. Orders change in a short time period. He's not deliberately doing anything wrong. Give the man a break.
2007-12-27 02:58:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if his court ordered agreement superceeds yours, you have to abide by his. Good luck.
2007-12-27 02:18:00 · answer #8 · answered by Dani Bosco 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋