Well i have this boyfriend and well..i think he only likes me for my body...and when i confront him about it and asks him if thats true he gets all romantic and says stuff like "no i luv u 4 u ur everything i could ask for. how could u think that" I just dont no wat 2 do i feel like crying somebody please help me i just need 2 no wats true...
2007-12-27 02:39:09 · 25 answers · asked by Kaela. ♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he only says stuff like "i love you" when you confront him, then i would leave him girl! find someone else who you dont need to ask him before he says it, you need someone who will just say it to you. dont let him upset you, and when you talk dont just let him say the same things and everyuthing go back to normal, you need to stand up and let him know that everything is not okay and its not working at the moment
2007-12-27 02:44:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The harsh reality is that I think you both might be immature.
You are probably right though. He does sound imature if he can't tell you why he likes you. Beauty is only skin deep and true beauty is within. Henceforth, there are beatiful people who look like a super model but some treat people like they are trash or beneath them. Remember the phrase, Don't judge a book by its book cover? So, I would move on and look for a more mature person. You should get the book (buy or check out from the library) Relationships for dummies.
2007-12-27 10:53:50 · answer #2 · answered by Robert Miller 95670 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're overly suspicious, of-course you have every rights to be as it concern your personal well being.
Ask yourself how much do you love him, you ask him a question and you doubted his answer. If you don't trust him probably you just likes him and not love that brought both of you together.
I don't know how old are both of you, if you both have reach a mature stage, maybe you can talk about your marriage plan in the near future and observed his reaction and answer to you. Whatever the outcome don't confront him coz it leads to nowhere but hated. Talk it out and see how could both of you could develop further, otherwise call it off and move on with no regrets.
2007-12-27 11:02:30 · answer #3 · answered by CYC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why has he been asking you to sleep with him or something? One of the tricks in knowing if he really loves you for who you are and nothing else is to keep distance and see how he reacts to the silence. "Keep the guy on his toes!" as my mother would always tell me when I have guy problems. If you are sure that he only loves you for your body, then get the hell out of that relationship and find someone true.
2007-12-27 10:47:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really did like you for your body, he wouldve start doing other stuff. guys can show when they're only interested in your body by trying to convince you to do something you're not comfortable on doing becuz hes not respecting you, and thats when you have to put a stop to it.
you have to start listening to him. seems to me that you are cautious around him and you start getting these ideas that are not even true. start listening to your heart. that means go with what u feel inside and if you think its something you dont want to follow, question yourself.
should i? why? is it going to affect him? you will start to loosen your problem.seems to me that this guy's being honest and hes the one getting hurt dear.
2007-12-27 10:47:34 · answer #5 · answered by ღ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he's obviously going to lie to your face and sweet talk you, but if he's doing things and acting in a certain way to make you feel as though he only wants you for your body, just leave him and find someone who will want you for you. Don't let him fool you.
2007-12-27 10:49:00 · answer #6 · answered by Sazz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well do this little test to find out. If you are sexually active hold off for a while and when hes around cover up more then usual and see how his attitude changes. And be lovey-dubby
2007-12-27 10:47:30 · answer #7 · answered by Young Vito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all you are doing is physical stuff, then hello... he is using you..
Yet, if you are doing things together, having fun outside the physical stuff and have an intellectual and emotional connection -- then no, its not just him using your body..
Why not just stop the physical and hang out for a awhiile and see...
2007-12-27 10:44:36 · answer #8 · answered by astutewoman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I may think you are not asking the right question. If he says that he loves you ask him why he loves what about you that he loves. If he thinks about it for a long time it is your body if not then he loves you for you.
2007-12-27 10:45:13 · answer #9 · answered by KRS-♥-JTB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are are phisical and women are emotional. Men show affection through sex and women through comunication. If he says he loves you for you. Then he does. Thats just his way of showing it. Lets face it in the end everyone is happy.
2007-12-27 10:44:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋