No names, dates times, or places. Have you ever cheated on your spouse? If so, if you enjoyed yourself and what the person did for you and how they made you feel, what made you stop? Knowing that it was wrong to begin with and if found out you would lose your family, honestly what made you stop.
2007-12-27 02:41:45 · 33 answers · asked by april j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes I have. The reason it stopped when it did was because her husband found out so I told my wife. I did it to excape my life. I recently lost both of my parents, started my own business and our marriage sucked for many years. we have been married for 10 yrs in Aug. 07. This all happened about 2 months ago. I must say it was not about love....I love my wife more than anything....I truly do & don't let someone tell you that if you loved them you wouldn't have cheated. A marriage is work! communication was our issue. I actually went to get help before it blew up. I knew we were going to get caught it was just a matter of time. we all live in the same SMALL town.
Many things played into why i did what i did to many for this answer.
I will tell you this........the one thing i can offer you......we both wish we went to see someone sooner for help. I went to my doctor for a referral.
Since we have been seeing someone I have found out things about my wife that I never knew. Things are great between us but that pain will never go away for her I can tell you that.
Get Help Now!
2007-12-27 03:07:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-25 19:24:51 · answer #2 · answered by nastasi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cheated with my heart, but not my body. I stopped because I realized that I was being selfish, and that the physical part of cheating was something I would feel guilty about later.
Many might suggest that the emotional aspect is the important part, but since I hadn't shared my feelings, I never really fully cheated WITH anyone.
I knew the consequences, but I ALREADY knew the consequences before anything started happening. This all occurred just after my wife suggested that she was "possibly" going to divorce me, so I wasn't worried about losing everything. If nothing else, I kinda hoped I'd be weak enough to go for it, and hurry-up the process.
The reason I quit though was because I knew I had to face myself in the mirror and ask myself what kind of person I was. I wanted to get an answer I could live with.
When the divorce became a reality, I went looking to the one I'd been emotionally cheating with, and I stayed with her for two years.
2007-12-27 02:53:40 · answer #3 · answered by Deadguy71 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sure. many times. I did enjoy myself because I was getting what I wasn't getting at home. I stopped because I was at the end of my temporary assignment. If I could have I would have continued but I had a rule to never cheat within 50 miles of where I lived. Being in the military, this wasn't difficult.
2007-12-27 03:23:54 · answer #4 · answered by old-softy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I was found out. I had sex with her in my office at work, someone heard us, and later reported us to our boss. We were fired. This pretty much forced me to come clean with my wife and confess to my horrendous mistake. It was terrifying that I might lose my family, especially since I had already lost my job. The trauma of my cheating, and its aftermath, forced me to grow up a lot. This was 10 years ago, and I am now a much more accountable, trustworthy, and emotionally mature person than I was then. I am very grateful to my wife for staying with me. We celebrated 21 years of marriage this year.
2007-12-27 02:47:51 · answer #5 · answered by Happy-2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had an 'emotional affair' It would have gotten physical if I hadn't told on myself. I'm glad it never got physical because I'm having a really hard time getting over him like it is.. I felt so guilty and I confessed to my spouse 14 months ago and I regret ever telling.. I don't regret ending the affair because I was so confused and I felt like a bad person while it was going on but now my husband doesn't trust me and that causes problems for our marriage. The guy I was talking to listened to me and complimented me when my husband didn't. He was also an ex from high school.. He made me feel like he loved me unconditionally but I ended it because it started to sour. He started feeling guilty and started backing away from me and that really hurt me and made me angry... It basically just started to get ugly so I ended it but not on bad terms. Things are much better for me now although I do miss him still...
2007-12-27 02:51:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
No. Cheating is skanky and trashy on both sides. I've got a child and one on the way. I don't care if I hated my husband's guts, I'd divorce him before I go screw some other guy that will only make my life more f'ed up and complicated. Why be dumb. Most people who have cheated end up ruining their marriages and regretting it tremendously. If you don't take heed from the millions of idiots who have arealdy done it, then someone's just as dumb, I guess.
This isn't the movie, Unfaithful, people, where the woman meets some hunky European guy, bangs him to oblivion, and the husband forgives her. This is real life. In Real life, cheating sucks.
2007-12-27 02:45:21 · answer #7 · answered by Cesaria Barbarossa 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Yes - I did - many times & It was because I didnt' love him that i was able to cheat on him.
Sometimes it was a decent sexual experience, most of the time it was a big disappointment!!!
If you love your husband - you could enjoy innocent looking & flirting without cheating
Oh BTW - divorce cured that bad habit!!
I'm now with someone else that I truly love & I couldn't imagine sex or even fooling around with anyone else - ever...because I truly love him & only want him in that way
2007-12-27 02:48:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
No freaking way, & its probably because I have been cheated on in the past and it is very heart breaking and it tore up my self esteem big time. It took many years to heal, and thank GOD that I have a wonderful husband who helped me get through it.
2007-12-27 02:50:36 · answer #9 · answered by ••○ PitBuLL ○•• 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Never stopped and don't plan to. Trying to get divorced and the hubby won't let go, so until he does I'll continue cheating!
2007-12-27 02:45:44 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Pure Evil♥ 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋