My wife and I of over 16 years , have been going to counseling.
She says it was a build up over the years and now has developed a hatred to me. We have 2 young sons ( 9& 13) and she says "they'll be okay" , ( they may be or not ), I can not bear the thought of not being with them
I have done everything to try to make things better , but she can not live like this! She says she is tired of being mean to me , I told her she does not have to be , she says she can't help it. She does not want to go in the same car to councelling , she does not really want to go , cause she will cry the whole time. She does love the kids , but not me . I have several questions here but mostly confused , and advice is appreciated , additionally if we do get divorced , there will be only debt , and probably no more decent house for our boys , why can't she change her mind ?
I have never cheated , always provided , and never abused her.
2007-12-27
09:27:49
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royalcres
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Marriage & Divorce