Family & Relationships - 27 December 2007

I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year and a half. I am a school teacher with a Master's Degree and am very successful. His Dad (who is divorced and shallow about women) is always saying rude things about me to my boyfriend and his sisters. He hopes that his son will ditch me or find someone better. The dad is nice to my face, but turns around and acts differently. My boyfriend and I are active together and really enjoy each other's company. I despise being around his family because I know they will turn around and say mean things about me. I am not sure what I should do...do I end this relationship because of this problem with his dad and sisters? Will this last forever? My family is not like his, so this is hard for me to deal with.

2007-12-27 10:14:28 · 3 answers · asked by Sarah 1 in Singles & Dating

I am the type of girl that laughs at everything. I have a great sense of humor, but people look at me funny when I laugh at somethng i find funny. Sometimes i act really crazy and spazzy. My bf loves my personality and so do my friends. I laugh really loudly (something i inhereted from my mother) and I get stares from people at school when I laugh. It bugs me because the "popular" girls can do that but the "normal" people can. I was just wondering if other guys find it annoying when a girl acts like i do...

2007-12-27 10:12:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I caught my husband cheating on me and we're now separated. He hasn't decided if he wants a divorce yet. I'm trying to be scripturally correct. The Bible says that its the HUSBAND that gives the wife a certificate of divorce. Is what he's done/doing equal to a certificate of divorce?

2007-12-27 10:12:27 · 38 answers · asked by Kayla 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I caught my husband cheating on me and we're now separated. He hasn't decided if he wants a divorce yet. I'm trying to be scripturally correct. The Bible says that its the HUSBAND that gives the wife a certificate of divorce. Is what he's done/doing equal to a certificate of divorce?

2007-12-27 10:10:48 · 11 answers · asked by joes1girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If I inherit stuff AFTER I marry and it is willed to my name, is it still marital property? How much do prenuptial agreements hold up if they are scrutinized with good and expensive attorneys? How can one prevent the pitfall of someone saying "I signed it under duress, b/c I wanted to get married?" I can understand the social statement of commitment to marriage, but is there no guarantee of protection of assets?

2007-12-27 10:10:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

?? How long does it take to put it on?

2007-12-27 10:09:49 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for instance on christmas my dad gave me a laptop and every since then she has yelled at me and all this stuff and i don't know why she does it!!
HELP!!!

2007-12-27 10:08:29 · 2 answers · asked by rcm69901994 1 in Family

okay well me and this guy are pretty close but im scared to tell
him how i feel cause were close friends =/ and i've been liking him for the past year theres so many guys out there but he's the only one i want. He knew that i liked him but i told him that i didnt anymore!!!! so now im caught in the middle =[
wat should i do you you think i should tell him i like him AGAIN or keep it to myself and be miserable for the rest of my life oh oh && im going to see him on New Years do you think i should tell him then??? Or No??

2007-12-27 10:06:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-27 10:05:14 · 6 answers · asked by mmmmyeah 3 in Singles & Dating

ok this is all i did i went home at 7pm ,i shave my eyebrows cuz they were mess up,and i put wax from a candle on a control and my parents took my christmas money and my cell phone away and i cant go out anymore do u think they had the right to do that

2007-12-27 10:04:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

well i used to think that i was in love with him. he is 3 years older than me.

he never knew my feelings because i just won't be able to tell him for some reasons.
later on i found out that he was using drugs but they are not sure if he is still using it.
when i heard that i hated him.
but just a few days later i can't take him out of my mind. i have feelings towards him again, but i dont know what those feelings are.
he keeps on staring at me and when he sees me looking at him he quickly chnges his glance, he never talks to me i don't know what he is feeling for me.
i am just so confused even though i tried to take him out of my mind it wont work.

when i see him i have this smile on my face and when i dont see him he is on my mind.

am i in love???

help
do you think he has feelings towards me?

2007-12-27 10:03:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well i am close friends with 2 girls who are both flatmates. Now i know both of them for 2 years. We as a group are close friends and trust each other a lot. For sometime i have noticed that the girls act differently around me.
One of the girls (A) likes to joke around with me and tease me. She is also the girl who will more willing come to me in the time of difficulty. She is also more readily honest with me. For example she will more willing say something to me which the other girl (B) would want to say ( i can tell by her face that she wants to say something) but is a bit scared for some reason. On the other hand B is more caring towards me more often. She is a bit reserved and only come to ask me for help when she is really needs it. For example one day her drink get spiked and she came to me for help. Both these girls do trust me. Both of these girls love to talk to me and spend time with me. B is more readily willing to spend time with me alone rather than A.

2007-12-27 10:02:26 · 1 answers · asked by Adam 3 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy I really like. He's nice and sweet. We're sort of friends and he doesn't know I like him. I can talk to him normally, but sometimes I spit out random stuff and I look like an idiot. When I say I really like him, I mean I really like him. We get along and he's one of the few guys I feel comfortable actually uttering a sentence to. He's not the best looking guy, but I think he's cute in his own way. His sister is one of my bffs though so it's weird at the same time, but that doesn't mean I wouldn't try if I could with him, but I can't. It's complicated, but I want to know if he likes me back and if he doesn't how to make him like me so please help me!!!!!!!!! How can I know if he likes me and how do you make a guy like you if he doesn't? I need to know how to make him like me if he doesn't!

2007-12-27 10:02:09 · 18 answers · asked by Casey A 1 in Singles & Dating

A common misinterpretation prevails that friends will be there to help when your pocket is empty. huh.., I disagree with this concept and to me, I think they were real people who can (always) accompany me, when I am broken, when I booze, when I am caught, when I am in total trouble.

2007-12-27 10:01:23 · 1 answers · asked by bright 2 in Friends

the guy is dark and he has brown skinned kids with a light skinned girl and then all of a sudden he supposedly gets a dark skinned girl pregnant and her baby comes out light. the dark skinned chick has 2 other kids and they're dark with her light skinned ex hubby...how can this be possible? is it possible for 2 darks to make a light when their other kids aren't even light? what do you think?

2007-12-27 10:00:03 · 24 answers · asked by lele 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Re-born because I have not had sex for almost 6 months. I'm in a new country. I will be back to the U.S. in July. There is a guy. I was seeing him for 2yrs. When I return I plan to be with him again and in a more serious relationship. We talked about moving in together. No I love you yet. No promise ring. Nothing like that. What's up? Sex is Awesome and we do like to do many things together.

2007-12-27 09:59:41 · 31 answers · asked by nava 2 in Singles & Dating

Dont' they understand that eventually a guy needs more than that for a real relationship? Not to mention that, eventually, exterior beauty fades while internal beauty is everlasting.

Beauty, unaccompanied by virtue, is as a flower without perfume. -French proverb

2007-12-27 09:57:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who has been a total jerk to me. He called me names and dissed me here and there. He said I'm a horrible friend and that he "left me" for these other people. He acts as if I can't live without him. He thinks that my life revolved around him. So I need to tell him that it's over in the meanest way possible, so he realizes that I don't need him and I'm actually better off without him. HELP!! I have no idea how to.

2007-12-27 09:57:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

when a cheating man takes his "friend with benefits" to his grand mas house and his aunt doesn't say anything...the guy has 2 kids and a fiance at home and the fiance just finds out about his cheating and finds out that the "friend" may have just had a baby with him...

2007-12-27 09:56:23 · 11 answers · asked by lele 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so i was txtn her telling her that i cant....i cant trust her....and im goin to give the fiancee another chance cuz i have cheated on him in the way begining of the relationship....well she told me that her parents are letting her live in thier other house for free and wants me and my daughter to move in with her! not my fiance just me and my daughter! what is she trying to pull?
and she told me she loved me and ****! did i mention shes bi..i swear once things get figured out....more **** comes! what do i do??

2007-12-27 09:56:21 · 1 answers · asked by soinlove081706 1 in Singles & Dating

I see these questions about relationships, love, etc. The simple answer is, if you are out there looking for love, have sex with the person. Don't play games. I continually get reported for answering these questions like that. If you are one of these preteen girls, go ask your parents. Don't waste your time with advice from strangers.

2007-12-27 09:53:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When im talking to this other personality i cant handle it she drives me crazy. I love my girl so much but when she changes I dont like who im talking to at all. the only way she can go back to normal is when she cuts herself, but i dont want her to cut herself however i do want to talk to the one that i love again. I dont know if shes just making the whole thing up for attention but, i dobt it cause thats not how she is....God i dont know what to do its driving me insane please please help me.

2007-12-27 09:53:39 · 36 answers · asked by Drew S 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been dating and going out partying with other men ever since my husband left a year ago. He came home from work in a foriegn country with the first stage of transgender reassignment. Is it wrong that I have started to rebuild my life even though we are not divorced yet? I'm sure he expects me to pay for divorce but I don't think so. I get a lot of flack from my family, who think that just because I'm 52, I should stay home. Still crazy after all these years and for the first time in 25 years I'm having a good life time.

2007-12-27 09:52:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay.I had to buy this DVD-box for my boyfriend as a christmas present and im gonna see him tomorrow, but now here's the problem: I havent bought the DVD box yet even though I told him i had and now there isn't any of those boxes left in that store where i had to buy it like a week ago(i didnt have money at that time) and now i dunno what to do I mean,i told him that i had bought it already and that i'll give it to him next time we meet. Now I seriously dunno what to do cause he knows what the gift is so i cant buy anything else now... I know, it was stupid to tell it to him ESPECIALLY when i didnt have the ****** dvd box yet.. I am so fkin pissed right now. One might even say that im completely FKED. Im really stressed about this...i know it sounds stupid but please,anyone have any ideas what to do or what to say to him because his expecting this dvd box from me,and i also told him that i have bought it already.i need good excuses,lies etc. why i dont have it and thanks in advance. =

2007-12-27 09:51:05 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I met this amazing guy over the internet. We met on a fansite for the TV show heroes and we've been e-dating for about 6 mons. I think I'm in love with him. But a few problems
1. He lives in Australia
2. How would I tell my parents?
3. How can I be so sure he loves me as much as he says?
4. Is e-dating smart?

2007-12-27 09:50:11 · 7 answers · asked by MissV 2 in Singles & Dating

Well I usually answer these but the tides have changed so here we go. My ex (broke up 4-5mths ago) and me have been going in circles with our break up and she wanted to stay talking, hang out one day a week, and maybe even be intimate. I thought I would be ok with this until I found out she was going on dates, making out with guys, and being pretty active. I can't even think about this without almost puking, Why is she doing this? Does she want her cake and Ice cream? I told her that I was not going to talk to her until summer time (been 2 weeks so far) because we needed that time to heal and not be so bitter towards each other. I miss her dearly as a friend everyday and feel like this is a little game we are still playing to see who gives in first. Wish it wasn't that way. Do I give in? Do I keep my word? Do I try and get her back if I still love her? She has made herself very clear about not getting back but keeps giving me mixed messages? What would you do ladies? IS this a Game?

2007-12-27 09:46:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-27 09:44:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He said that his battery died, i got upset and not talking to him , what would you do

2007-12-27 09:44:18 · 22 answers · asked by paz 1 in Singles & Dating

when me and my boyfriend have sex, it doesnt really do much for me like i never reach orgasm...im not a child but this is the first man ive been with and i was wondering why it doesnt feel that great, it sometimes even burns after a while...hes not that big could that have something to do with it? or is there something wrong with me? please help...

2007-12-27 09:44:16 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have worked for this co. for 7 years and have worked with this person for the same amount of time. She's started crap between me & another lady here at work, she belittles me in front of people, tells me that everyone hates me, makes fun of the way that I look, but will turn around and be super charming and friendly...she's always calling me throwed off but I think it's her? my boss is on her side and they're very chummy. What do I do? I don't want to be seen as a trouble maker or drama queen? I just want to come to work and go home. I can avoid her but she always tries to talk to me and makes me feel guilty for not waiting for her after work (she can't go anywhere by her self). We're adults...I figure that if she's such a backstabber and doesn't like me, then why try and be nice to me? I feel as if I'm in junior high again.

2007-12-27 09:44:04 · 2 answers · asked by Di Di 3 in Other - Family & Relationships