well i used to think that i was in love with him. he is 3 years older than me.
he never knew my feelings because i just won't be able to tell him for some reasons.
later on i found out that he was using drugs but they are not sure if he is still using it.
when i heard that i hated him.
but just a few days later i can't take him out of my mind. i have feelings towards him again, but i dont know what those feelings are.
he keeps on staring at me and when he sees me looking at him he quickly chnges his glance, he never talks to me i don't know what he is feeling for me.
i am just so confused even though i tried to take him out of my mind it wont work.
when i see him i have this smile on my face and when i dont see him he is on my mind.
am i in love???
help
do you think he has feelings towards me?
2007-12-27 10:03:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I AM 15. I'VE KNOWN HIM FOR 4 YEARS NOW. HOW LONG COULD A CRUSH LAST FOR?
2007-12-27 10:13:52 · update #1
Well it looks like u both have feelings for each other still, but cant really display it to one another. Just relax and let time take its course. But however if he is taking drugs there is the chance that he could be just going through this mood swing that happens when ppl of this type take drugs, so if i were u just try and be safe and make the right descion if u wanna continue this relationship with hum ok.
Well hope this helps :)
2007-12-27 10:08:28 · answer #1 · answered by Luke 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. If he's 3 years older than you, he probably already has a faint idea you like him, unless he's an absolute retard.
2. I'm putting you at around 13 - 15 years old and its easy to think you like people at that age and change your mind later.
3. If you're still curious, go and talk to him. He obviously likes you at some level if he's always looking at you and you're not over exaggerating.
I wouldn't say its love though.
2007-12-27 10:10:21 · answer #2 · answered by Ali 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is the textbook defnition of a crush, and that's exactly what it feels like. Give it time, distract yourself any way you can... movies, reading, especially WORK. Take your omega fish oils and a good multivitamin, studies show they elevate mood and when your mood is elevated you can choose to think of other things. Once you're able to alter your thinking, one day in the near future you'll look back and say, "I can't believe I was so caught up in that guy. I feel so much better now. No longer obsessed."
2007-12-27 10:09:14 · answer #3 · answered by creative_artistguy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It looks like you have a crush on this boy, and he might like you too. I'd say stay away from drugs users, but you're still going to like him regardless of what people say.
Say hi to him next time you see him, and every time you see him from then on, talk to him some more.
Don't do drugs, or things you don't normally do to have things in common with him. He should like you for who you are, and drugs can really ruin your life.
2007-12-27 10:10:09 · answer #4 · answered by No-Dogg 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can you be "in love" with someone you don't really know and haven't really dated? Yes, you have feelings - curiousity, infatuation, hormones, whatever - it does not mean anything. You are way too intense - first you love, then you hate - you seem to like a lot of drama. Maybe you are just obsessive. But if he is using drugs, good luck to you with that; that will bring you lots of drama. You'll just love that, it seems!
2007-12-27 10:12:35 · answer #5 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You clearly have something for him , he may like you. What kind of drugs - Marijuana ? Cocaine ?
Be aware that those who do drugs are often not afraid to break other rules and social morales. Marijuana is not so bad - but cocaine can kill .He may or may not be addicted - mj is not addictive but cocaine can be.Do you want to deal with any kind of addictions ? If you take on a guy like this - with the good comes the bad.
2007-12-27 10:08:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU HAVE A CRUSH. That's why they are called that.
How can we know if he has feelings for you? Why don't you talk to him once or twice and let him get to know you first. If you're a good person, there is no reason to not like you.
It's not love quite yet, hon. Takes a bit more. You'll know it when you're in it.
2007-12-27 10:09:33 · answer #7 · answered by Solange 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you are a mess. You can answer all of your questions. It's real easy. Sit his *** down and talk to him. It doesn't have to be so damn complicated. Just talk to him. He's not going to bite you. What's the worst that can happen? He can hurt your feelings? At least you will have answers to your questions. Good luck.
2007-12-27 10:09:20 · answer #8 · answered by Steve F 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not love.
you feel sorry for the guy
Do not mess with some one is doing drugs, maybe he is shy
or he is really sick
be very careful ( mess with wrong people you will follow the same fate)
2007-12-27 10:22:17 · answer #9 · answered by hector r 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you like him but you dont know him enough to love him he is wrong for you if he is taking drugs.You hated him but then you thought about him because you are concerned and worried for him because you like him alot
2007-12-27 10:10:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋