Family & Relationships - 27 December 2007

2007-12-27 08:38:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I saw this thing on tv and I was just wondering what the person could do to stop it.

The child and father were always a bit tense, but sometimes the father would beat the child really hard for the simplest things. The child wants something to be done, but does not want to be taken away from his mother, and the mother wont acknoledge what the father is doing to his child. I was just wondering , what could the child do? maybe it will be in the next series

2007-12-27 08:37:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

then to wait until afterwards? and then say "I never meant to hurt you?" It is like the 80-20 rule I heard in a movie.... You give up the 80% you have for the 20%
your comments?

2007-12-27 08:36:38 · 9 answers · asked by Fugitive Peices 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I´ve been dating my girlfriend for 2 months, and she told me that she is pregnant ..Wich is weird cuz we haven´t had sex before, just kissing.. im VIRGIN.
Im 18 years old.

Please! Im so desperate and scary.

2007-12-27 08:36:05 · 18 answers · asked by hayquienjura p 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-27 08:35:27 · 15 answers · asked by manaallyn07 1 in Singles & Dating

ive been talkin 2 this lad frm london 4 about 2 months nw ive seen pics of him n were always txtin he wnts 2 meet up in london but i dont no wt 2 do im 14 and hes says he is plez help me

2007-12-27 08:35:23 · 9 answers · asked by Emma 1 in Singles & Dating

Came home from work early last night and he was dressed in my work clothes ( skirt, blouse bra heels etc) what the %$^&? Any opinions?

2007-12-27 08:34:46 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance & I live in Central PA near a small # of family (maybe 20 people). We have family all around the country and have a cluster of friends/family in Northern NJ. My mother wants to hostess an engagement party in Northern NJ (where she lives) - which is fine with us.
Should we invite everyone (including those out-of-state) who will be invited to the wedding or limit it to those in the immediate area?
What about distant relatives who we do not have space to invite to the wedding - Do we invite them to the engagement party or would that be rude?
Should we hostess a separate party for the PA relatives/friends so they have an opportunity to celebrate in advance with us?

2007-12-27 08:33:08 · 5 answers · asked by nova_queen_28 7 in Weddings

is it bad that a man do sex with a woman he didnot know her before ex : he met her in airport,hotel

2007-12-27 08:32:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

well I've been with my girlfriend for 11-months (almost a year) and well like she always thought of me as "perfectly loyal" i knew this wasn't true...so i told her that in the past, when she really angered me, i checked out another girls *** and ive been involved in conversations talking about other girls...(nothing too deep, just saying who look sbetter than who) i even apologized and wrote a poem

well she felt betrayed and said that she doesnt really trust me and stuff, and now she keeps reminding me of it constantly...what should I do?

any advise or anything would really help...

2007-12-27 08:30:39 · 24 answers · asked by Mikey =P 2 in Singles & Dating

Should you end a marriage over it?

A one or two night fling?

2007-12-27 08:29:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

please dont tell me that im a "bad person", or a "mean person", or a "disrespectful teenager" because i already know that i am all of thoes things.
but i said something horrible to my dad, i told him that i hated him and that i hope he dies and that i hope he goes straight to he*l.
i regret saying that to him but he just made me so mad/upset. about 2 months ago he was diagnosed with really bad emphysema. he had to stop smoking and he is supposed to use oxygen. but today he put the oxygen tanks away and started smoking again! i was really mad that he started again, because he's killing himself! i dont want him to die and i was so proud of him for stoping smoking (he was still useing nicotin lozenges though) and then he just started up smoking again, so i got really mad and told him that i hope he dies and that i hate him and that i hope he goes to he*l.
im still upset with him for smoking, but i dont really mean what i said.now my dad wont talk to me, how can i take back what i said

2007-12-27 08:28:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If they were both very pretty and had the same proportions.

2007-12-27 08:28:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a few questions about planning my wedding.

First, I'm going to have a very long engagement--probably 3 years. (I want to wait until I get started with med school.) When should I start the actual planning? About a year before the wedding or what?

Second, what happens first: picking attendants or making a guest list? I know that traditionally the number of guests determines how many bridesmaids/groomsmen there are...

Third, both my fiance and I have small immediate families. I only have one sibling, a brother. Is there any kind of etiquette that expects my fiance to ask my brother to be a groomsman? Should I just give my brother something else to do, or should I ask my fiance to make him a groomsman?

2007-12-27 08:28:04 · 12 answers · asked by Kristen J 4 in Weddings

i never enjoyed sex with my husband.I do masturbate to satisfy myself but always did sex as a chore.After I got a job few months ago and felt a little independent I even disliked it more and told my husband about this disliking.We are very worried now.Sometimes I think I do not love him and not physically attracted towards him but i admire him as a person.he is a great man but sometimes i feel i should go for divorce and then start afresh what exactly i want and like.Bcoz i hate to see him suffer and more i try to make him happy by sex more hatred is developing for sex inside of me.Please guide.

2007-12-27 08:26:52 · 25 answers · asked by payal w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I help teach dance at my dancing school and she says she wants 2 do that next year. I like to sing all of a sudden she likes 2 sing. I know that ur thinking aww she looks up 2 u but thats not at all true she likes 2 anoy me and im sik of it. i tried to talk 2 my mom but she did the usual aww she looks up 2 you thing:( soo what should i do???

2007-12-27 08:25:54 · 9 answers · asked by syd 1 in Family

2007-12-27 08:24:43 · 13 answers · asked by Matty V 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm hypnotized by my boyfriend he's so dam sexy lol

2007-12-27 08:23:29 · 7 answers · asked by ♥La Dulce Chica♥ 3 in Friends

2007-12-27 08:23:14 · 12 answers · asked by sheila s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

cheated on you? Or would you think you would be better off not knowing?

2007-12-27 08:22:46 · 18 answers · asked by Fugitive Peices 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my husband for 3 years now, we have been married for a little less than a month. For the first years my inlaws loved me, always talked to me, hugged me, took me to dinner when my husband (a police officer) was working nights, took me shopping, EVERYTHING! But the past few months, when I go to their house with my husband, they ignore me, its stretching it to say that they have said 5 words to me in the past 6 months! On Dec 3rd we eloped, leaving hard feelings, even though we told them 2 months earlier to avoid that very thing from happening! We arrived the morning of our wedding to remind them and tell them we were leaving to go do it, and they were shocked and did not even remember we had told them!!!!! What am I supposed to do?!?!! How can I bring up this subject with them?? They arent people that you can cry on their shoulder, they are tough (his dad is police officer also)...HELP please

2007-12-27 08:21:57 · 11 answers · asked by Erin 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I caught my husband on a site where people can find, basically, prostitutes. I have caught him before but he always claims it is just out of curiousity. When I confronted him this time he told me that he needed to sleep woth other women. He explained that he is a man and men are meant to "spread their seed". I am devistated. We have only been married 2 years and he mentioned this when we first started dating 7 years ago. I made him very aware that I would not accept that. He is claiming that he loves me but cannot be with just me anymore. He said it is affecting his mental state as he feels trapped living a life that is not meant for him. I do not know what to do. Do I pack his stuff and say goodbye? I am heartbroken. I love him so much. Is there anyone else out there that has faced this? He said that he wants to do this civilly and always wants to be here for me. What is that for? If he doesn't want me, if I am not enough, then why would he still want me in his life? I am lost.

2007-12-27 08:21:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Just wondering...... and how did it happen where you ready or not?? did your bf pressure you?? How was it??

2007-12-27 08:20:07 · 49 answers · asked by Katie P 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-27 08:19:58 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this boy
but i dunno how to let him know without making it obviosue

2007-12-27 08:16:09 · 8 answers · asked by hannah w 1 in Singles & Dating

We are having some problems in my family with my two sister's. One sister has been married 3 times, and soon to be divorced again! And my younger sister is filing for divorce also after 11 years because she say's not enough intimate times. Never mind the home he built (2 times for her)! Both sister's have 3 children, but complain the passion is missing(working 60 hours per week will take away alot of passion). Now I have been married going on 17 years, and yes THE PASSION is not always there! But, your history together, your children, and extended family, are all thrown away! I think we sadly have become such a throw away society anymore and very selfish, instead of selfless! How do you married couples like me and my wife feel? Is there a total commitment really exist anymore?

2007-12-27 08:14:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend from Korea, who me and my group of friends have been hanging out with for the past year. She will be returning to her country around the end of January, probably forever.
We invited her to spend Christmas, but she never showed up or called. She had said she was coming for sure. We called and called, and haven't talked to her since then, but we did talk to her parents and they said she went to hang out with friends that day. My family had even bought her Christmas presents!

My question is, should we continue to call her to hand out with us, even though she totally flaked out on us? . Or should we just not call her again, and if she wants to hang out, wait for her to call? What is the right thing to do? Just ignore the problem, or cut off the relationship, or address it? We are pretty good friends (I thought).

2007-12-27 08:14:22 · 6 answers · asked by Yuki 1 in Friends

im planning a bridal shower and were playing who knows her best. i need questions!!! please!

2007-12-27 08:13:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Ive been with my boyfriend for aout 3yrs and we seem to spend more and more tme apart. We argue alot do to my jealousy and possesiveness. I just really need some great advice on strengthening my relationship

2007-12-27 08:10:03 · 16 answers · asked by CELOH 1 in Singles & Dating

If you truly like a girl who you dont communicate with a lot and she does something to really upset (not like cheat but promise you something and does not deliver) you, could you get over it?

2007-12-27 08:09:57 · 12 answers · asked by explosyv 2 in Singles & Dating