Family & Relationships - 27 December 2007

what do u look at first when you see a hot gurl???be HONEST

2007-12-27 09:15:47 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-27 09:15:12 · 5 answers · asked by Darling M 1 in Singles & Dating

It was the hardest thing i had to ever do in my life. I am dealing with it the best that i can right now. We have this one couple who we knew for about 2 yrs. now and when they heard what happened, they did not call us to see how we were doing, and i just saw them last night for the first time and when they walked into my home, not even "im sorry, how do you feel" nothing, as if nothing happened to us. I feel very bitter towards them. I really do not care for them at this point. Am i right to carry these hard feelings towards them. I figured your friends will be there, but not them. No acknowledgement of what happened, no phone call when it happened.

2007-12-27 09:10:20 · 21 answers · asked by GQ69 2 in Marriage & Divorce

so i got an envelope from my b/f at my mum's house, which is unusual since i live with him, my b/f was at work at the time. i thought this was a bit odd..

i automatically thought he was gonna leave me so i called him up giving him a mouthful of crap saying that i was dumb for trusting him etc, he got really p1ssed at me and slammed the phone down. i opened the envelope and it was a letter explaining how much i meant to him and that he loved me forever! with a poem inside too! i have apologised since and he laughed about it, but i still feel bad, how can i make it up to him?

2007-12-27 09:09:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 13 and mr friend is 12 and we were playing football yesterday and I was sneakinging and rushing when he told me not too and it was funny as hell and today his family invited my family over for dinenr and I stayed home cause he is going to probaly going to fight with me? And Im going to have to kick his *** again in front of his family haha should I go up there?

2007-12-27 09:08:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

that there are some common things we all are seeking.
Whether we seek it through relationships, adventure, money, work, children, you name it....
if your a woman. the need to be desired, To know that you are captivating, sought after, cherished.
for guys,,,, Do we have what it takes to give what is needed..
I know it goes deeper than this as well.
We seek to be loved, accepted, needed, wanted, respected if not for anything else, than just being a human. to know we matter to someone. Which really falls right back into the I want to be loved department..
your thoughts?

2007-12-27 09:07:26 · 10 answers · asked by Fugitive Peices 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Are you moving forward in spite of it?

2007-12-27 09:04:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-27 09:04:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The man bought me a power washer for paving slabs for my Christmas present. He bought his tart a pair of diamond ear-rings. He bought the Parrot a brand new expensive cage. He bought his brother Sidney a week's holiday in Spain. He bought me a power washer............. There was a row. I hope you all had a merry christmas. x

2007-12-27 09:02:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Everybody has a wandering eye, right? Its hard not to stare at an attractive guy or girl when they walk by, whether your partner is with you or not. But what is too much? What is acceptable in these situations and what is totally unacceptable? For instance, is it ok for your spouse to tell you your sister is attractive? Or that she has a sexy tattoo? Or is that going to far?

2007-12-27 09:02:27 · 2 answers · asked by <3 FLYERS <3 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been dating since August. One night when we were both very tired, just about to go to sleep I said "I love You" He said " I know you do" and I we went to sleep. then when he came over he was drunk, but not being a jerk, being romantic but he kept saying he loved me while we were having sex. At least I thought he said it. I didn't clarify and the next day he didn't remember much. What is a way to get him to spit it out and say I love you?

2007-12-27 09:02:14 · 19 answers · asked by Sup! 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 6'6" attorney and I always feel inclined to do adventurous things that on the surface seem to have a serious risk of bodily injury (e.g. ice climbing, drag racing, etc.) but are not really that risky. Additionally, I love speculating and taking what people might call financial risks. Is that a turn off for women? or do they not care?

2007-12-27 09:00:16 · 29 answers · asked by scandal917 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so, the thing is i really really like this boy, i love him so much, we aren't going out or anything, but i know hes kind of seeing other girls to so this is why i want to try and tell him how much i love him. and how much i want to be with him. but all of a sudden he has these mood swings and starts calling me every name possible and it all starts if i say i miss one of my guy friends,and i mean we arent even going out and he goes off on one. i havnt said anything about his other girls, yet he has a go at me? but he can be the sweetest person you'll ever come across. but anyway, i just need some advice on what i should do, i dont know wether to give up on him or try and make things work between me and him. i love him so much, more than anything. it kills me seeing him with other girls, but he knows that i love him. and hes not bothered it seems and he only wants me when he bored almost, i just dont know what to do, and i dont really have anyone to talk to about this, advice? plz

2007-12-27 09:00:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My father has schizophrenia and has always been pretty neurotic. He cant carry a conversation and he has a short fuse with his anger. He's always been very mean to my mom and myself, which made it hard for me to ever get to know much about him. I was wondering if my lack of a relationship with my father has anything to do with why i am attracted to members of the same sex?

2007-12-27 08:56:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My parents and his parents have been friends for 1000 years and so me and my 2 bros always sleep ovr at his house or he sleeps ovr at my house last time he slept ovr he was sooo flirting with me he started holding my hand and we ditched my bros at like 3 in the morning when we went tiping and it seemed like he wanted to kiss me but didnt know if I like him bak then a week l8r I slept ovr at his house and I almost kissed him( my 1st kiss) and then his stupid mom mwouldnt let us go outside but we made the best of it and played truth or dare and gave eachother tattoos (he gave me a rose on my shoulder) I can't stop thinking about him so I told him in a email that I liked him he replied saying he only wanted to be friends
and by the way I am getting all a's and b's and 2 c's in scool so Im doin good, I have alot of friends, I dont disrespect my fam or teachers so I have all good priorities....I dont think Ive wanted anyone else more tham him in my whole life and its not like Im ugly help!

2007-12-27 08:54:22 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Could a guy be genuine if he talks about the future, moving to another country to be with you after just dating you for a couple of months?How do you know he is genuine and not just saying things to get what he wants.He was nice, we went out for dinner/movies, and he invited me over to his place and he cooked dinner.We went out for 3 months, but I did not sleep with him cos I wasn't ready.He seemed to be okay with this, although he kept trying, but didn't push it too far.I was taking my time to get to know him as I wasn't sure, but was liking him more and more.

He never introduced me to his friends or family, which I didn't mind, but I don't think he mentioned me and acted single around them.He went to Majorca with his male friends.We had a trip planned also.Before our trip, I found out he emailed girls randomly in Estonia, where he was going on a booze cruise in Estonia with his friends saying he wanted to party all night long.

Was our relationship nothing? Did he just use me?

2007-12-27 08:53:18 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how many people on here have a long term partner but arent married by long term im thinking at least 5 years or more
i ask because i read a question on here from a woman who had been with her boyfriend 11 years but wasnt married she had loads of comments like try marrage or wheres the ring etc
ive been with my partner 9 years and arent married but im happy with that any one else in a simular situation?

2007-12-27 08:53:06 · 26 answers · asked by kezza 3 in Weddings

my mom and dad dont seem to get along my mom always talks to me about how mean my dad is but i think he is great and my dad wen i try talking to him he kinda ignore me so witch is a better parent????????????????????????????????????????

2007-12-27 08:52:00 · 4 answers · asked by Allyson N 2 in Family

The girl is my worst enimie and she is the one who told me. SHould i dump him 4 good?

2007-12-27 08:50:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been witht his guy for 11 days. Okay he's different. he has tatoos, piercings, expelled from school. He tatoos and pierces for a living. His parents think he is not responsib;e enough to have a gf. I have a family reaching for the best for me and stuff. I havent introduced him to my family yet.. Anyways, he got in a big fight with his family and his dad says that he will not a gf... and that he will send him to aus if he doesnt break up with me. My boyfriend doesnt know what to do...
please help.
I really like him, I never have liked someone so much, it's true.

2007-12-27 08:49:41 · 4 answers · asked by Sally Park 3 in Singles & Dating

to your wedding? I think I invited around 225, and 200 showed up. Just wondering!

2007-12-27 08:48:45 · 20 answers · asked by I ♥ Penguins 6 in Weddings

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half. İt was tumultuous for close to a year because he was lazy and I supported him financially plus he was very jealous. But we were soo attached to each other. İ still stuck it out because İ believed he would outgrow this phase as he is only 20 (now) and I am 21. İ broke up with him several times because he didn't look like he would change. He convinced me and even begged me to come back each time. about 3 months ago İ had a huge crush on one of his old roomates and told him about him just before we broke up. İ slept with this guy once just to get him out of my system (and confessed to my boyfriend about it the next day) and I was doing well until my boyfriend said he forgave me and wanted me back. thing was he changed in these 3 months and he is sweet and much more understanding than before. İ just don't know if I still love him even though we seem to have gotten back together. We are so attached to each other and İ feel so guilty. What should İ do? İf I leave him again İm afraid he'll be torn and I would be torn because we are so emotionally attached. He even wants to marry me and İ need a visa to stay in the country. But another part of me says that this relationship will die in a couple of years and İm so afraid of making a mistake either way. Please help me!!!!

2007-12-27 08:45:46 · 7 answers · asked by leyla a 1 in Singles & Dating

my partner is in turkey visiting his mum who lives there as she emigrated.now he wants me and my son to move there.any ideas?iv never been there b4 but he has a job and flat lined up.he says he wont go without us and hes the one for me.

2007-12-27 08:44:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To give everything you have and are into the relationship, to truly feel that you couldn't live without the other?
Or, is this something we go through only as teenagers and never to feel this way again?

2007-12-27 08:43:05 · 30 answers · asked by Fugitive Peices 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Tell me, please, where do you wear your engagement ring.
Or, where should it be worn?
On right hand or left hand?

It's a bet between me and my friend.

2007-12-27 08:42:11 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Well its like this, she fights with my dad and always gets me and my younger involved. Saying that we're on her side and ****. My brother never says anything but me and him are thinking the same thing. I just think when parents are fighting, they want to keep that away from their childrens' ears and eyes as best they can....but my mom goes over to us and goes "you agree wit me right?" my dad tells her don't get them involved and she goes "what cuz you know that they know you're wrong?" i seriously think my mom needs some kind of therapy...when i lied about bringng home my boyfriend's jacket she said "i can't stand this we're moving out of this country" she overreacts to everything! she tells me "don't fnd a guy like ur father" tells my brother "dont become like your dad" what can i do to change her from being like this? how can i help her relax and mend my parent's relationship?

2007-12-27 08:40:00 · 18 answers · asked by Hali 2 in Family

you can also cheat emotionally on them. Both are detrimental to the relationship and both break the others trust. Curious as to which one you would think is more disasterous?

2007-12-27 08:39:53 · 17 answers · asked by Fugitive Peices 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i kinda flirt with all of them so consider that also...
but i don't wanna sound like i'm just really tryna get with them...
i'm just REALLY bored

2007-12-27 08:39:36 · 5 answers · asked by melissa 2 in Singles & Dating

like its not that difficult. i live with both my parents. my best friend invited me to go with her to ottawa thats only 3 hours away by drive for 3 days on new years eve. im 18 years old turning 19 in 2 months. my mom said its okay but my dad said that bad things happen on new years eve and that i cant go. i said he could talk to her parents about the trip but he still says no. every year at my house on new years eve we always do the same thing..stay home and watch a movie and he says we should do the same. he says i cant even go out to a party my friend is having cuz bad things happen on new years eve. he says he trusts me but he just doesnt trust the people out there. and just the other day he said to me "why cant u grow up?". ggrrrrrr im sssoooo mad i really wanna go on the trip what do i do? advice please!

2007-12-27 08:39:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I like it but I'm going to and Indian wedding, and the bride is my friend she wanted me to wear something blue and red, so I was looking around and I came up with this and I love it, but do you think I'll be able to wear it again depending on a wedding or ot maybe a party wear also, and can anyone find me a site on how to wear a sari.

http://www.dmi-india.com/dFG7295a.html

2007-12-27 08:39:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings