Help Please?!?!?

Question

There's this guy I really like. He's nice and sweet. We're sort of friends and he doesn't know I like him. I can talk to him normally, but sometimes I spit out random stuff and I look like an idiot. When I say I really like him, I mean I really like him. We get along and he's one of the few guys I feel comfortable actually uttering a sentence to. He's not the best looking guy, but I think he's cute in his own way. His sister is one of my bffs though so it's weird at the same time, but that doesn't mean I wouldn't try if I could with him, but I can't. It's complicated, but I want to know if he likes me back and if he doesn't how to make him like me so please help me!!!!!!!!! How can I know if he likes me and how do you make a guy like you if he doesn't? I need to know how to make him like me if he doesn't!

Answer 1

talk to him
go places where he is at
flirt
talk to his sister about him
tell his sis that you like him
ask her if he talks about you.
find out what he likes
his hobbies
smile alot
laugh
make friends with him
good luck.

Answer 2

casey if the guy doesnt like you there is nothing you can do to force someones heart. but on the upside he probably does like you! sometimes in life you have to take things to the next level, make them happen, waiting around wondering never got anyone anywhere. when the lightbulb was invented it took 2000 tries to get it right, when asks he said i didnt get it wrong i LEARNT 2000 ways not to do it. so even if he does say no to you, you havent failed, or lost, your just one step closer to finding the ONE. on the other hand if you do ask then hopefully he will be the one! but if you dont try you will never know either way.
ps if you dont want to blurt it out and say it, try a sarcastic hypothetical, ie: hypothetically, if i were single and you were single, do you think, hypothetically we would make a good couple?. that way as a hypothetical he can know what your getting at and hypothetically anwser without either one of you loosing face.

Answer 3

Usually its the guy who has the crush but i am a guy so i wouldnt really know.
If hes not a very good looking guy and hes not very popular at school i reckon he'd definitely say yes (if you asked him out but i dont think thats the case O_o?) . If YOUR not very popular i'd say he would say no. I cant really tell i would need your pic and his pic then i could really answer this question but i hope i helped. Its ok if you randomly blurt out stuff but not if its really personal..if he was smart he'd know the way to roll when that situation kicks in.

Answer 4

I was in the same situation . I gave him hints and then gaveup . I e-mailed him a code to figure out and he was smart enough to do it . He stayed cool and I can't even tell . If he's ready to tell you how he feels , he will . Don't be deppressed if he isn't madly in love with you . Life moves on and it's not the end of the world now is it ?

Answer 5

hate to break it to you but you cant make a guy like you it comes naturally but if you have that strong of feelings he does like you back. try talking to him and making sure that he knows how you feel and where you are coming from because not all guys are the same some like shy some like agressive but dont be afraid to put yourself out there and talk to your bff if you can to because outta everyone you dont want to make her feel awkward. good luck hun

Answer 6

Test him. Flirt with him and see if he flirts back. Keep staring at him and when he notices and says why are you staring at me see if he does it with a smile. See if he ever checks you out. Make him notice you too. Wear your best clothes around him. Maybe even try to see if he gets jealous over you. Test him like that.

Then if he seems like he is into you like that. Tell him how you truly feel and see if he comes clean and maybe feels the same way about you.

Answer 7

I so know how you feel and its weird b/c last year i was in the same postion i like this boy and what i did i listed a random name of girls and asked him if he liked the for example i said wat about kylie and then after he said no i said wat about me but if your gunna do that MAKE SURE YOU ARE NOT THE LAST PERSON U ASK ABOUT SO THEN HE DOESN"T KNOW. and then i told him i liked him and he said no but then this year he wound up asking me out b/c i told him i wasn't instreted anymore but secretly i was. so i got him to like me by flirting one year then the next year i shut him out and he found out he really liked me all along
but make sure you don't have love issues cuz i made the worst mistake ever cuz i broke up with him but now i want him back but anyway just do what i said and i really hope it helps

Answer 8

You can't really make a guy "like" you but you can make him notice you, by flirting =)...just talk to him a lot, on im, texting him, facebook, or on the phone...if u guys talk a lot then he will notice you probably....and also have one of ur friends ask him if he likes any1, but dont have them mention ur name...

Answer 9

to find out just get a friend to say "have you heard the rumor about (you)...about how some people think she likes you. is it true?" and to get him to like you give him little hints like crossing your legs in his direction, sitting close to him, giving him a grin from across the room, or touching his arm when you talk to him (trust me guys get these hints...i read it on a magazine). good luck!

Answer 10

try flirting with him and see if he goes along with it =D
but dont lead him on TOO much, then you'd be throwing yourself at him
OR............
if you feel this comfortable you can somehow tell (or show) that you like him and it wouldn't matter if he feels the same way