Dont' they understand that eventually a guy needs more than that for a real relationship? Not to mention that, eventually, exterior beauty fades while internal beauty is everlasting.
Beauty, unaccompanied by virtue, is as a flower without perfume. -French proverb
2007-12-27 09:57:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ahhh, yes, many of them can get any man they want using only their beauty....however, my point is that they cannot KEEP any man they want using only their beauty.
2007-12-27 10:26:19 · update #1
The women you're talking about are shallow and know they can get any man they want using their bodies. Of course, they can't put together an intelligent sentence much less spell it correctly too. So guys who are looking for more need to pay attention to what they want. Hope you find what you're looking for.
2007-12-27 10:03:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My theory is that men are not looking for anything beside beauty in the first stages of the relationship. After that they analyze if this potential female has more to offer than looks. For some guys, brain over beauty pops into their heads at different time frames within a relationship. Essentially women reinforce the beauty part before breaking out her true self and her abilities as a person. It's one building block in a relationship she can most commonly reinforce and lean back upon. Not all women have something to offer aside from the beauty part because they have no clue how to be a "good person" so they rely on the the beauty part to fill in what they are lacking character wise. People are people, ugly or beautiful. It takes a special person to say "Hey, this is what I am, this what I want, and this is how I'm going to treat you." because most do not know how to back those statements up, if they have even forged them in the first place. Looks are only important for a fraction of a relationship. Most of the time, if you are getting to know the other person the right way, your heart shines through your outer appearance. People don't get that. I'd rather be wonderfully in love and match with someone that is "ugly or unattractive" rather than be with a vain and ignorant "beautiful" person and be miserable.
2007-12-27 14:01:28 · answer #2 · answered by Morrisa S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some women think that's all there is to it.....just be beautiful, and u have the world by the tail...that is too shallow for my taste! U have to have a little more substance than that....beauty only gets u so far. Inner beauty is forever! That is what gives a person depth & gives the relationship true meaning. Good question Chris!
2007-12-27 18:18:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
they have been trained that a guy will not go after them unless they are beautiful. hollywood keeps this idea alive and people buy into it. they don't understand that a real relationship requires some sort of a personality. if you notice, many of these girls end up with jerks or pregnant at a very young age without a father to help them out.
2007-12-27 10:04:31 · answer #4 · answered by Ducky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is a blessing of path. i'm pleasing yet unhappy. My sadness has no longer something to do with how i seem. i'm unhappy because of the fact i flow by a stressful time in my existence. all the excuses you gave for splendor being a curse are very ineffective and boastful. It has extra to do including your character and techniques-set than it does reliable seems while it comes right down to love, existence, and happiness. in case you walk around questioning your "the sh*t" then of path you will get taken care of subsequently.
2016-12-18 09:39:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They rely on their beauty since that is all they have. Just go to a high school and count the number of girls in the AP math and physics classes compared to the number of boys. Then go to home economics and count again.
2007-12-27 10:04:36 · answer #6 · answered by Meg 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
B/c so many men only compliment us on the outside beauty:(
B/c they only want sex...so we give u what unfortunately u want to hear/see.
But for me, love is different. I can TALK to a man I love. I can be me. Hopefully he'll still like me.
2007-12-27 10:03:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
That is very true.that's why it's good to find someome that has both interior and exterior beauty
2007-12-27 10:06:52 · answer #8 · answered by Gone 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i would not say i am beautiful but i know i have got inner beauty and to me thats all that matters my bloke says i have got a heart of gold and that i'm his star and those words mean everything to me.
2007-12-27 10:05:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm a woman and I am like a bottle of perfume ...you need to pull the lid to get to my essense...what is the use of an empty bottle of perfume?....I'm giving you a star
2007-12-27 10:03:14 · answer #10 · answered by Raven 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋